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++++Message 2108. . . . . . . . . . . . Joe and Charlie Big Book Study Tapes
From: caseyosh . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/14/2004 2:11:00 AM
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Can a member of this group provide me with authentic documented
research information concerning the original venue and date of the
first time these tapes were used in an instructional format for AA
members. Also, please supply the type format they were first
recorded on. I am assuming they were first compiled on
audiocassette tapes but would like confirmation of that assumption.
Thanks,
Casey O
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++++Message 2109. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Joe and Charlie Big Book Study
Tapes
From: CBBB164@AOL.COM . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/14/2004 1:26:00 PM
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According to Joe McQ. & Charlie P., the first recording of them sharing
their experience and knowledge of the Big Book was at an AA Group in
Anadarko, OK. It was recorded on a reel to reel recorder. A taper in Little
Rock learned of its existence and transferred the real to reel on to four
cassettes. I am in possession of a set of that first "The Big Book Comes
Alive" cassettes and they did a great job even back then.
Cliff Bishop - The Primary Purpose Group - Dallas, TX
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++++Message 2110. . . . . . . . . . . . Victor C. Kitchen''s "I Was A Pagan"
From: Kim . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/19/2004 1:42:00 PM
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Does anyone here have any excerpts from this book? Could you please
tell me which parts of the Big Book were influenced by Kitchen
besides the origin of the term "higher power?"
Love,
Kim
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++++Message 2111. . . . . . . . . . . . Stools and Bottles
From: Victor . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/19/2004 5:58:00 PM
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I was looking for info on the book titled "Stools and Bottles". I
was wonder if anyone new who the author was and when it was first
publish.
Thank you in advance
Victor F.
Austin, Texas
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++++Message 2112. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Stools and Bottles
From: jst4tdy . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/25/2004 6:00:00 PM
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Hi Victor,
The Book "Stools and Bottles" was copywrite 1955 as a companion to "The
little Red Book"(c)1946 which evolved from The Crawford's Men's Training in
Cleveland. There isn't credit given to any one Author in the editions I
have. But they were both Coll-Webb Co. copywrites. Coll-Webb, PO Box 546,
Minneapolis 40, Minnesota. Hope this helps. Bill M.
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++++Message 2113. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Stools and Bottles
From: Corey Franks . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/26/2004 8:18:00 PM
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HI. This is Corey. Look at our new webite at....
archivesinternational.org...
under portraits and you will see for yourself Barry C. and Ed W. and what
they
and did and were as we move ahead with our website . We will be factually
display what it is we have found for many of our Pioneers. Put this in your
favorites and let us know also what you think of out site, with suggestions,
comments, requests or whatever. THX! Corey F.
Hi Victor,
The Book "Stools and Bottles" was copywrite 1955 as a companion to "The
little Red Book"(c)1946 which evolved from The Crawford's Men's Training in
Cleveland. There isn't credit given to any one Author in the editions I
have. But they were both Coll-Webb Co. copywrites. Coll-Webb, PO Box 546,
Minneapolis 40, Minnesota. Hope this helps. Bill M.
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Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Stools and Bottles
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> Austin, Texas
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++++Message 2114. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Victor C. Kitchen''s "I Was A
Pagan"
From: spokann24@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/26/2004 6:51:00 PM
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Merry Christmas,
In reply to _sleuthgrrl@yahoo.com_ (mailto:sleuthgrrl@yahoo.com) 's email
dated 12/26/2004--Does anyone here have any excerpts from this book? Could
you please tell me which parts of the Big Book were influenced by Kitchen
besides the origin of the term "higher power?" Love,Kim ----
I have a copy of Victor C. Kitchen's book, "I WAS A PAGAN," Harper &
Brothers, New York and London, 1934. He dedicates it "To The Oxford
Group...that
disciplined army of life changers who helped to give my life new meaning."
For your interest, here is an excerpt from the Chapter IX (titled "This
Business of Living The Other Way Round"). I think it sounds in several
places quite similar to our Big Book.
“I WAS A PAGAN,†by V. C. KITCHEN
Harper & Brothers
New York and London
1934
An excerpt from pages 81-87 of CHAPTER IX
"THIS BUSINESS OF LIVING THE OTHER WAY ROUND --
RE-DIRECTION"
In the post-War days of dizzy peaks and dizzier slumps I decided I was
living in a world turned upside-down. I now see, however, that it was I who
was
upside-down. In most areas of my life I let myself be guided by a force that
was pulling in the very opposite direction from God. Forces working in
opposite directions nullify each other. That, I think, is why the selfish
indulgence of my desires cancelled out their own satisfaction. That is why
my
self-directed thinking led nowhere, either for myself or others. And, since
both
my senses and my understanding were continuously dulled by back-pedalling
against God, they were never sharpened to the point of sensitivity needed
for a
spiritual experience.
God handled these blocks in the physical area of my life by removing
sensuous desire, as I tried to explain in my last chapter. He stopped the
flow
of
my mis-directed forces and gave me His force to flow within me unopposed. I
thus found the peace that comes when conflict ceases. And I found the joy
that comes through sharpened senses and a righted under-standing when these
subjects of the human will are subjected to God's will instead, and brought
within the pattern of His plan and within the consciousness of His
affection.
I
did not, however, stop there. The purpose of the Oxford Group is to hold one
always to the highest, and they did not let me hesitate half-way.
The Oriental mystic, for example, is content to submerge himself in God just
to gain cessation of desire and the peace and joy that self-forgetfulness
invariably brings. But the Oxford Group is a Christian body. And Christian
mystics are working mystics. They “seek Godâ€"not joy†and they submerge
themselves in God, not so much for the happiness that results as for the
usefulness. They contact God in order to implant His purpose in and transmit
His power
to the lives of others and thus, individual by individual, to bring about
regeneration of the world.
I could not, therefore, stop with the mere cessation of my old desires, nor
linger to bask in the new peace and joy thus gained. Identification with the
Oxford Group meant my acceptance of the new desire Christ wanted to plant in
place of the old. And it meant taking up the new direction He gave to my
life when I permitted His force to flow unopposed.
I became most definitely conscious of this new direction one night as I was
praying some six months after my change. I realized that my prayer had been
little but wishful thinkingâ€"that I had prayed God chiefly to bring about
the
things I wanted, in the way I wanted them to come. I then and there asked
God to take over my prayer and guide it, so that I might pray for what He
wanted to bring about and so that He might use me for that purpose instead
of
my
trying to use Him. At that moment I became distinctly conscious of a force
flowing through me. At first, while I was praying for the things I wanted,
this force seemed to gather within me. It generated from the wish of my
being
and flowed upward and outward as though I were broadcasting my wish to God
and
asking Him to do something about it. The moment that I asked Him to take
over, however, that flow definitely stopped. And then it started in the
opposite direction. It was as though an idea generated outside of me had
been
broadcast from space, entering my mind and flowing downward to become the
wish
of
my being. I was not only changed, but completely turned around.
Before this, in other words, I had been passively obedient to god. I was
now put actively and creatively to work for God. And while, with my first
surrender, my life had been greatly altered, this new surrender completed
the
reversal and started me in a direction which lay absolutely opposite to all
my
old ways. I took up a re-directed path, not only in the physical or sensuous
environment, but in all the social-intellectual and spiritual-volitional
areas of life.
In the physical area, as already suggested, I used to be guided only by the
pull of my desire for a sensual indulgence. I would boorishly, for instance,
refuse to give or to go out for an evening party unless I saw there some
chance to excite my senses through conquests at bridge, to dull my senses
through the conquest of more alcohol than others could drink, or to gratify
my
senses through flirting with some lady who was not my wife. To-day I give
parties or go to them, not because I hope for sensual excitement, but
because
God
has told me to do so. And He tells me to give or go to a party because, at
that party, He has some definite and creative work for me to do.
It may beâ€"much as in the old daysâ€"that He guides me to a party simply
because He knows I need the rest or relaxation I will find there. I am
seldom,
however, as tired as in the old days. More often, I believe, God guides me
to
a party to show my old crowd that giving one’s life to God does not make
one
queer. It is to show them that working, “guided†Christians do not
become
down-in-the-mouth cranks, but that they actually outlive, outlaugh and
outlove the pagans. Again (and this seems usually the case) God may guide me
to a
party because He knows some man or woman will be there who is in spiritual
need. He knows that my experience and victories in Christ will help them. He
guides me when to speak and whom to speak to, and thus uses me to win
another
person to His kingdom. Stupid as this may seem to those who have not tired
it, I can assure you that going to a party to make a “conquest†for
Christ
is far more exciting, satisfying and gratifying than any of my old attempts
to
make a conquest of my own.
I can even, these days, put on my dinner coat and go with a smile to parties
that my wife used to have to drag me to if I consented to go at all.
Following god’s guidance is by no means a drearily submissive form of
obedience.
It is something you can always do willingly and gladly. God, in fact, has
never called upon me to do anything without giving me the power, courage,
words,
wisdom, money, love, patience, foresight, stimulation, or whatever else I
might need to accomplish the desired result. Just as in my “B.C.†days I
never faced unpleasant things without a hip flask to see me through, God
never
calls me to a difficult or boring task without giving me new spirit to take
the
place of that flask and to do a 1,000 per cent better job.
This re-direction of old desires and substitution for old stimuli has
extended not only throughout my sensual life, but into my social and
intellectual
life as well. It enters into all of my thinking and into all of my dealings
with other people. When, for instance, I only thought about Godâ€"when He
existed only in my mind as a beliefâ€"I could reach Him only as an
intellectual
conclusion. I concluded that there must be some Higher Power to account for
all
the things taking place in space much as scientists concluded that there
must
be an atom to account for all the things taking place in physics. Knowing
Him only as a conclusion, however, I could only conclude what He wanted me
to
do in my relations with other people. And since these conclusions took place
entirely in my own mind, I usually concluded that I was just about perfect,
but that something should be done about other people to make the world a
more
comfortable background for my personal exploits, and to remove the various
obstructionists who disturbed the even tenor of my ways.
Even before I was married I had decided to “reform†my future wife. I
decided, among many other changes obviously needed, that I would “ring her
up
to
my intellectual level†in order that she might form an intelligent and
complementary foil to my philosophical discourses during the (anticipated)
“long
winter evenings.†Once, however, she fell asleep as Iâ€"reading
aloudâ€"waded
through the fourth volume of a history of civilization. I decided to abandon
the attempt and contented myself in later years with merely pointing out her
faults.
She should, I told her, check her tongue a bit. She should speak less
sharply to the children. She should prove less diligent in inventing
tiresome
errands for me. She should look with greater tolerance on my drinking
companions and with less interest on social affairs. She should spend less
money on
practically everything and keep the children from pounding the piano and
playing the radio simultaneously while I was giving the world the benefit of
my
great wisdom and trying to write. Everything, I was sure, would turn out
much
better if she would correct these erroneous ways. And everything would have
been much betterâ€"for my ego. Nothing, however, would have happened in the
world I was so nobly trying to help. And nothing would have happened in my
wife.
Here, I think, has been my most conspicuous redirection. I see now the
utter futility of trying to reform the other fellow without starting to
reform
myself. I see the utter uselessness of trying to work out systems which
would
solve the world’s economic and social problems if I myself am of such a
nature that no systemâ€"other than self-satisfactionâ€"could work out for
me.
I therefore no longer tell my wife to check her tongue. I, as God directs
and empowers me, check my own. And when I find myself, not my wife, speaking
sharply to the children, I realize that it is because some element of
selfishness is not yet dead within me and that I have further surrenders to
make.
When I see her spending too much money I realize that I have been too
preoccupied to seek guidance in the matter with her. Or too utterly lazy to
sit
down
with her and work out the budget by which God wants us to expend His funds.
As for drinking companions, I no longer happen to drink while, as for
society, we both have learned to think of people’s worth rather than to
think
how
much they are worth, and to move in circles where God has use for us rather
than with the people we think we can use.
* * * * * * * * * * *
The Table of Contents list the following chapters:
I. THIS BUSINESS OF CHASING FALSE GODS: PAGANISM
II. THIS BUSINESS OF THINKING THINGS OUT: PHILOSOPHY
III. THIS BUSINESS OF MEANING WELL AND DOING BADLY: MORALS
IV. THIS BUSINESS OF "MAKING CHARACTER": SCIENCE
V. THIS BUSINESS OF THE SUPERNATURAL: METAPHYSICS
VI. THIS BUSINESS OF THE OXFORD GROUP: APPLICATION
VII. THIS BUSINESS OF BEING REBORN IN LIFE: TRANSFORMATION
VIII. THIS BUSINESS OF GETTING NEW BEARINGS: ORIENTATION
IX. THIS BUSINESS LF LIVING THE OTHER WAY ROUND: RE-DIRECTION
X. THIS BUSINESS OF STARTING IN SCHOOL AGAIN: EDUCATION
XI. THIS BUSINESS OF BEING REMARRIED: WEDLOCK
XII. THIS BUSINESS OF MAKING A LIVING: ECONOMICS
XIII. THIS BUSINESS OF "NEW DEALS": POLITICS
XIV. THIS BUSINESS OF REMAKING THE WORLD: SOCIOLOGY
XV. THIS BUSINESS OF GOING TO CHURCH: RELIGION
XVI. THIS BUSINESS OF BEING OF USE TO PEOPLE: CREATIVENESS
XVII. THIS BUSINESS OF GETTING AHEAD IN LIFE: GROWTH
XVIII. THIS BUSINESS OF GETTING BACK TO GOD: DESTINY
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++++Message 2115. . . . . . . . . . . . Trying to source hard to find
material, please help. thanks
From: mhaydenbiko . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/27/2004 10:51:00 PM
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Hi,
I am trying to source an elusive audiotape of Father Martins talk on
the "Spiritual Aspects of Alcoholism". Kelly Productions which
supplies AA related audio tapes has a version but it is not the
version I'm looking for and I'm trying to find other sources?
Kelly Productions told me they know of no other resources for Father
Martin material. I know another version exists, it starts with the
Zebra and Rhino's playing football (he uses that story in the Kelly
Production version but this particular audiotape begins with that
Zebra/Rhino story) (It's also before Ashley was built or opened, he
refers to what Ashley will be like one day). It's a great tape and
I've been looking all over the place for info.
Please ask around and be as creative as possible to
help source this material. It is a live audience talk on
the "Spiritual Aspects of Alcoholism" (1 hour plus) and I've been
searching for it everywhere. thanks
P.S. (I tried mentioning it through a few chat rooms and people
responded like I had three heads, I need some experienced assistance
here. thanks)
M. Hayden
973.452.9727
mhayden@opcenter.net
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++++Message 2116. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Trying to source hard to find
material, please help. thanks
From: William Cox . . . . . . . . . . . . 12/28/2004 6:44:00 PM
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Try this link http://www.sobrietytalks.com/Father%20Joseph%20Martin.htm
mhaydenbiko wrote:
Hi,
I am trying to source an elusive audiotape of Father Martins talk on
the "Spiritual Aspects of Alcoholism". Kelly Productions which
supplies AA related audio tapes has a version but it is not the
version I'm looking for and I'm trying to find other sources?
Kelly Productions told me they know of no other resources for Father
Martin material. I know another version exists, it starts with the
Zebra and Rhino's playing football (he uses that story in the Kelly
Production version but this particular audiotape begins with that
Zebra/Rhino story) (It's also before Ashley was built or opened, he
refers to what Ashley will be like one day). It's a great tape and
I've been looking all over the place for info.
Please ask around and be as creative as possible to
help source this material. It is a live audience talk on
the "Spiritual Aspects of Alcoholism" (1 hour plus) and I've been
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