how many rumors you heard about someone
in the playground At best, rumors may hurt some of your personal relationships. It would be difficult to prove someone is going to your potential employer and libeling you unless they say something. One of the best things you can do is to volunteer and let people know. Slander falls off of people with good charitable works.
Most people who believe the target, assumes that she deserved it. She sinned in someway. This is called the shame game”.
Remember, that the majority of people are still in the Matrix of the propaganda and lies. They do not know what is going on. You must see it for yourself – Morpheus from the movie The Matrix.
Know thy audience when speaking. One type of speech to communicate your circumstances does not necessarily work for every audience.