We finally rounded the North Cape in frigid temperatures and made our last port stop in Kirkenes, a small outpost village about 50 airline miles from the common boundary corner of Norway, Finland, and Russia. However, a closer Norway-Russia boundary was only about 10 miles east of town, and one of the trip's events of interest was a bus tour to the Russian border. It was a very unimpressive wire-fenced border at the end of the bus trail, with a small guard's booth on the Russian side. The booth was not occupied as we arrived in mid-morning, and several of our fellow tourists took advantage of this to go up
to the fence and stick a leg through so they could claim later to friends that they had "set foot" in Russia (!). While we were there a Russian guard finally arrived on a bicycle, looking slightly embarrassed as several of us pointed at our wrist watches. But he and we all laughed, and it was a mutually enjoyable confrontation.
Kirkenes had a landing strip to accommodate a small airline service, and we all used it after our return to town that same day. The Stewarts needed to return promptly to Bergen for Stew to resume work, and Carol and I took another flight south to Oslo, the charming capital of Norway. Oslo is the leading seaport of Norway, at the head of the great Oslo Fiord on the southeasern coast. The city's town hall sits at the inner end of the large harbor, which is always full of Norwegian fishing boats docked at the wharves, and many steamships and cargo vessels are usually anchored offshore.
We enjoyed exploriing Oslo for a couple of days. It's a city replete with museums, parks, historical buildings and good restaurants. I wish I had a picture to include here of the most attractive and interesting park we saw,--a large one on a low hillside with lovely florally decorated walkways to the top on which is the most unusual sculpture I have ever seen. It's a very tall statue (about two stories high, as I recall) consisting of a column of exquisitely rock-carved human figures; men, women and children, all intertwined and embracing or supporting each other. I don't know what it was designed to depict or honor,
other than perhaps a tribute to humanity in general, or maybe specifically Norwegians.
Carol had an interesting incentive for visiting Oslo, since her ancestry included some Norwegian blood. Her mother Lu's father was Norwegian: Christian E. Skamser, who was born in a town in the prominent Gudbrandsdalen Valley of southcentral Norway. His parents were Erick Skamser and wife Brit (whose maiden Norwegian name was Skjak,
spelled and pronounced in English Shaak, which became Shaker in the U.S.). Christian was 14 years old when he was brought to the U.S. by his parents (plus nine additional siblings), and ultimately married another Norwegian named Anna Burnson.
Carol wondered if there was any way she could inquire, before we left the U.S., as to whether it would be possible to identify and locate any distant relatives of the Skamser families who might still be living in Norway. Her only clue would be that Christian was
once a young resident of one of the towns in Gudbrandsdalen territory and that she also knew his parents' names. So one day she phoned the Norwegian Consulate office here in Houston. They were cooperative, suggesting that someone in the Houston Norwegian Seamans' Church might be willing to contact an official in a Gudbrandsdalen church since Norwegian churches are noted for their practice of maintaining detailed famiy records of their congregations. So she phoned the NSC's minister, explained her family tree interest, and was told that he would phone some Norwegian churches and see if they could help.
About a week later Carol was surprised and delighted to receive a letter from a church in Norway, written by the minister in flowing script,--but in Norwegian! So she visited the local NSC minister who kindly translated it for her. It said that the only Skamser descendants or relatives he could locate were in Oslo. (And, incidentally, it mentioned that Erick's wife's parents once owned property that became the present town of Skjak.) He supplied the name (which I can't remember) and address of the Oslo family related
to the Skamsers, so in Oslo Carol studied the city's phone directory and finally found her relatives' name. She phoned them, found that they spoke English quite fluently, and was delighted to be asked to come visit them.
This we of course did, and we spent most of a day visiting and dining with the young family which included two teen age children and the wife's elderly mother (who was the only non-English-speaking member). They were very hospitable and very interested in
Carol's possible relation to them (which was never exactly figured out, except that they and Carol were obviously in some category of distant cousins). The wife showed us a commercial postcard with a scene of an attractive green valley in which was pictured a neat farmhouse and barn, and explained that that farm was on the outskirts of Skjak and was still occupied by the her great-aunt and great-uncle who would be delighted to have us pay them a day's visit That sounded like a good idea to us, and we told the wife we'd try to do so. Then the wife said, "They don't speak much English, but I know they'll make you welcome." My enthusiasm cooled a bit, but I told her,"Well, uh, I guess we could work around that. I've got a Norwegian phrase book with me."
We could have conveniently terminated our trip with a flight home from Oslo, but the Stewarts had strongly recommended the scenic experience of a train trip back to Bergen. We did so and it was a very fascinating journey across mountainous terrain scenically decorated with lots of lakes and waterfalls, and frequent train stops at small picture-book Norwegian villages.
In Bergen, after Carol and I had discussed the matter, we decided to visit Skjak Since our map showed no direct route there by bus or train or auto, we visited a travel agent the next mid-morning. The lady who welcomed and seated us was polite and friendly, and asked,"Where did you want to go and when did you want to leave?"
I replied, "We want to visit my wife's relatives in Skjak, stay overnight and come back the next day. And we'd like to leave this afternoon if possible, since we're booked to fly to London in three days on our way home to the U.S." "Oh my," the agent sighed. "I’m not sure that's possible. Skjak looks on the map like it's a short trip from here, but you'd have to make several transfers en route. Let me see what schedule I could work out."
The agent became very busy with maps and travel schedule documents. Finally she said, "First you'd have to take a bus to the town of Vangsnes, on the Sognefjord. No bus leaves here for there until 3 p.m. and doesn't get there until nearly 6 p.m. since it makes several stops in villages en route. At Vangsnes you must cross the fjord, and the ferry makes trips only in mid-morning and mid-afternoon. So you'd have to stay at the small hotel in Vangsnes overnight, wait for the morning ferry next day, and get the l0 a.m. bus north. It takes a main road into Gudbrandsdalen Valley, but just before getting there there's a turnoff road to Skjak where you'd have to wait for another bus for the last 15 kilometers into Skjak. It's not an easy place to get to from here! Your return trip would be another day and a half, and if you stayed there overnight the total trip would be about 4 days."
Deciding not to visit Skjak was obviously an easy decision, but Carol had looked forward to doing so and was quite disappointed. "Look," I said, "think what a day's conversation would have been like with us only knowing the Norwegian words for "hello" and "goodbye". She smiled and nodded.
So, after a couple more days with the Stewarts, and a farewell dinner at a fine restaurant at which we hosted them as a small gesture of appreciation for their commend-
able hospitality, we bade them and Norway goodbye and went home. It was one of our best vacations.
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CHAPTER VIII: Kyle Kids' Careers
Jerry M. Kyle
J.M.finished high school in Houston in 1964 and began his college career at Tulane that fall. He did well scholastically and enjoyed his residence activities in New Orleans. He became quite familiar with the French Quarter and other areas of interest frequented by college students, and liked riding on the street cars which are a major travel facility in that city. During his two years there he completed a pre-medical curriculum and Honors courses, and made the Dean's List of top-level students.
He then decided that the University of Texas at Austin might have some courses more pertinent to his career plans. He graduated from there in 1968 with a BA in mathematics and minors in physics and chemistry. He was then ready for the stimulating experience of beginning a career in commercial institutions which would pay him for his work (instead of his parents paying for his work at educational institutions).
He settled in an apartment in Houston, and with his pre-med and computer training was fortunate in quickly gaining employment at the famous M.D.Anderson Cancer Hospital in their Department of Biomathematiccs. During this period as a well-employed and eligible bachelor he had plenty of dating opportunities in Houston, and made good use of his qualifications. His income was quite adequate for the usual social activities, and one winter he was able to persuade one of his young lady friends to accompany him on a skiing trip to the Swiss Alps. J.M. later claimed they even did some skiing there.
But eventually his primary interest was in a lovely miss named Marie Crane. Her origin was North Carolina where for a time she was employed as an airline stewardess. She and a friend had moved to Houston to seek other work, and she secured a position with the School of Public Health in Houston's Medical center as administrative assistant to the business manager. Her business location was across the street from Jerry's location,
and that facilitated their first meeting.
The Jerry-and-Marie dating became frequent, a mutual attraction developed, and the day (or night) came when J.M., as the standard expression goes, popped the question! (I have never grasped the logic behind that phrase; why would a question about getting married ever be popped?) Marie accepted, and a short time later, on the 20th of October,
1973, at 3:00 p.m. the marriage was ceremoniously performed in a lovely elaborate wedding in Houston's elegant Memorial Drive Presbyterian Church. It was attended by many, including Marie's mother and sister from North Carolina, as was the subsequent reception and. dinner party at which I was of course inspired to give several toasts, such as:
"Marriage without love is like a glove
Without a mate to match;
Love without marriage is like a carriage
Without a horse attached."
My poetic artistry was better exemplified, however, by this one which was themed to the groom's then-current interest in sailing:
"I propose a toast to those foremost
In our hearts and thoughts this evening;
May their love be true and regrets be few
For the single life they're leaving.
They're on their mark, all set to embark
On the sea of matrimony;
That this sea is rough and tough enough
We all know is no baloney!
But in spite of this we wish them bliss
And a boat that needs no bailing;
May the voyage be merry for Marie and Jerry,
With many long years of good sailing!"
An early post-marriage project was the purchase of a home. With some shopping help from Carol and I, they finally bought a used house in an older residential area populated by similar modest bungalows, for about $25,000 as I recall. It required some cleaning and redecoration, which the new bride and groom did with vim and vigor, and it proved to be an attractive and comfortable domicile for a number of years.
Jerry's job was work and an environment that he enjoyed a lot, but he had opportunity to get a job with California Computer Products Company which he thought might expand his knowledge and experience in the rapidly growing use of computers in industry. That job involved managing sales and post-sales technical support for the company's software in a seven-state region. That, of course, was his first experience in business travel, and he appreciated having trip expenses paid by his employer instead of his parents (as did his parents!).
After a few years both the job and travel requirements became a bit tedious, and he
was pleased to be offered and accept a job back in M.D. Anderson in 1975, in their Department of Radiotherapy. It was a job which appealed to his creative interests. One of his particularly useful efforts was to design and develop a Radiotherapy Patient Inform-
ation System. Another of his achievements was to resurrect, redesign and rewrite a breast cancer treatment technique, the results of which were published in some medical journals, showing that radiation treatment was often a viable alternative to radical surgery.
An event of great importance occurred in1977, the reason for joyous celebration by all the Kyles-- the birth of a baby girl! Jerry M. had informed us of the impending event shortly after Marie had reported her pregnancy to him, and he was thrilled and excited. In a joking comment to me (well, half-joking, maybe) he exclaimed, "Dad, I'm
too young to be a father!" I considered telling him, but didn't, that when he was born I was three years younger than he'd be when his baby would arrive.
Carol and I were at a big party given by Dr. Stephen Thomas and wife Eileen, who
were special friends of ours, the evening of December 23. J.M. and Marie had been invited, but didn't show up when expected, There must have been a total of 2 or 3 dozen other guests, all singing Christmas carols (mostly off-key as the result of too many toddies) with great exuberance as the phone rang. Eileen answered and told Carol it was for her, from son Jerry. We weren't expecting the baby's birth for a week or two yet, and before she answered the phone she turned pale and gasped, "Omigod! Somebody's had an accident! No other reason to call me here this time of night,--oh, no!" But as she answered the phone and her facial expression turned from apprehension to excited joy I correctly expected the nature of the message. And when she laid down the phone and made an enthusiastic public announcement to the guests that Marie was in labor and J.M. had taken her to the hospital, they responded with cheers and many spontaneous and beverage-enhanced toasts to Marie, Jerry M., and the about-to-be born family member.
She was born about 5 or 6 a.m. the following morning, on Christmas Eve Day, which is not an ideal birthday date from the standpoint of day-apart celebrations of birthdays and Christmases. But she and her parents have coped with that problem satisfactorily for many years now. She was named Kelley Michelle, with my favorite euphonic pronuncia-
tion being Kelley Michelley. She was a cute kid, adored by parents and grandparents as she grew into adulthood with a pretty face and figure. After fine scholastic records in high school she began college at Southwest Texas State at San Marcos. She enjoyed her stay and scholastic environment there, but decided to progress to the University of Houston where she graduated in January 2001 with a Bachelor's degree and a 3.8 GPA in psychology. She continues there for two more years studying for a Master's degree in social work. During the summer of 2001 she was fortunate in getting a job in Harris County's Mental Health & Mental Retardation Association, where she obtained valuable experience as a case worker for families with juvenile offenders and problem children.
Jerry enjoyed his work at M.D.Anderson, but the addition of a family member made
him give thought about whether other employment might offer more soon-to-be-needed
financial assets. So another job change for J.M. occcurred in 1979. He had heard that Exon Production Research (where I had worked) was in great need of additonal help to assist in computer processing of a large volume of seismograph data being obtained by increasing activity in that type of oil exploration, both domestically and worldwide. For immediate help they wanted to use computer experts available on a consultant basis, and rumor had it that the rate of consultant pay was extremely generous, in excess of that of regular employees (which is logical and equitable, since consultant work is usually not on a steady basis). Another advantage for J.M. was that consultants could take days off more or less when they wished, and his annual vacation could be scheduled as to dates and length of time more or less whenever he chose. His only job complaint was that his lack of knowledge about seismic prospecting meant that he never understood the technical significance of the tremendous volume of numerical data he was computer-juggling.
After a few years Exxon offered him a job as a company employee, based on recom-
mendations by Exxon employees he'd been working with who were impressed with his job performance. He turned down the offer, preferring the consulting arrangement. But in 1986 the oil business suffered a general relapse; many companies trimmed payrolls, and Exxon cancelled J.M.'s consultant's contract. So, back to a job search.
The search soon got him another job the same year, this time in an industry he was always interested in and familiar with,--the stock market! His new employer was named Telescan, Inc., a company whose primary function was supplying computerized data and information on stocks and mutual funds for subscribers to their service. Jerry's function
was the design and development of commercially useful online interactive data search programs, which interfaced with Telescan's software and its database of over 10,000 stocks and mutual funds. He developed products which were commercially lucrative and contributed to a quadrupling of the company's overall revenues in four years. And a not inconsiderable informal company benefit to J.M. was his convenient access to data on stocks in which he was interested, which was a substantial aid in managing his personal investment portfolio.
But by 1992 some friction with Telescan management had arisen, based on their failing to honor an agreement about royalty payments to J.M. for some innovations he'd
previously developed and incorporated in Telescan's technical systems. He left the company and later that year acquired employment again in the computerized geophysical
data business, based on his experience and reputation for such work with Exxon. The company was Western Geophysical Co., a Houston-headquartered international organiza-
tion with worldwide seismograph land crew and marine fleet operations. This was another six-year job of hard work and good pay, but in 1998 the company began a reorganization of technical operations which eliminated Jerry's services and position.
It had been over nine years since he quit M.D.Anderson, and he doubted that any job opportunity would be offered him there again. But he had enjoyed the medically-oriented
work he had done there, and decided to give it a try. To his amazement and great joy he was immediately re-hired! The salary they offered was more than he had asked for, and another advantage was to credit him with the time he was previously employed there, which enhanced his benefits and alloted vacation time. He was assigned his own office on the top (l8th) floor of the building in which he worked, and that building location had the much appreciated benefit of being within ten minutes travel to and from his home (which, in the horrendous traffic congestion of Houston's commuting and business travel routes, is an asset of great value and pleasure!).
The new job,where he now works as of this writing, is in the Cancer Genetics section, where data is being compiled on whether a genetic link exists for certain cancer types. J.M.'s current function is to reorganize and standardize about two decades of data existing in this field of research, to make it more accessible and useful in continuing research projects.
By the time Kelley was about to become a teenager, Marie decided she could renew her pursuit of a scholastic degree which had been interrupted for 24 years. She enrolled in the University of Houston, and to everyone's pride and joy graduated in 1991, when she was 44 years old, with Summa Cum Laude honors in elementary education. She readily obtained a teaching job in the Houston public school system, and has steadily taught 3rd and 4th grade students ever since, with excellent ratings from her supervisors.
Jerry M. is a man of many talents, for which I've admired and envied him since I have to acknowledge he didn't inherit them from me. One prime hobby of his is woodworking in which his efforts range from the standard house and furniture repairs and alterations to exotic products such as artistic picture frames, decorative jewelry boxes, etc. One year he concentrated on creating stained glass window decorations which now add class and beauty to his home and mine In another year his specialty was building miniature flowing
waterfalls encased in scenic environments, which made fascinating decorations for club room shelves and table tops. He is a top-class photographer with both video and still cameras, and his talent for photos of Colorado wildflowers and nature scenes is displayed in the numerous large framed montages he has created for house decorations, which are admirable works of art.
He would have made a good building conractor or architect. One of his memorable and enjoyable projects was designing and supervising the construction of the large and elaborate house they now live in. That was such a satisfying experience he decided to buy the small old house next door, tear it down, and create another house similar to the one he built for himself as a business venture. Due to some unforseen circumstances, such as a six week's delay in mid-construction due to the street in front being torn up for repair and re-paving, a flooded half-done house due to water pipe malfunctions, and other delays for a number of reasons, the project was not as profitable as he'd expected, though it did sell
soon for a substantial sum, and adds class to the neighborhood.
I suppose, and hope, one of his next fun projects will be the design and printing of this Vol. II, as he did with Vol. I.
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Kathleen L. Kyle
Kappy completed Junior High School in Tulsa, just in time to begin High School in Houston after our move there in the spring of 1961. She attended Memorial Senior High where she attained a fine scholastic record and a star berth on the school's womens' tennis team, and graduated with honors in 1965. Her subsequent college career was at Vander-
bilt from 1965 to 1969, where she majored in biological and physical sciences and dated
a fellow student named Craig Cooper.
She returned to Houston after graduation, and secured a job teaching physical science at Memorial Senior High,--a psychologically satisfying experience since that was where
she had gone to high school. After a year's teaching there, during which she had kept in close contact with Craig, he and she decided to tackle life together. They were married on July 11, l970, in an artistically elaborate church wedding conducted by our Unitarian Church minister, Rev. Frank Schulman. It was attended by many relatives and friends, as was the post-wedding reception which inspired me to compose and recite another of my poetic epics at the big dinner that evening. I was smart enough, after some of my previous poetry recitations, to defer it this time until after several champagne servings:
The Reception Line
The reception line stands, everyone in their places,
Their hands are outstretched, with smiles on their faces;
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