to be. His monument is not the money he left in the bank, but the gratitude
in the hearts of so many men and women who own more than they can ever repay
to his example.
O GOD we thank Thee for the life and service of Thy dear servant, Doctor
Bob, whom we remember at Thy alter this day. Bless and prosper the work of
Alcoholics Anonymous, in whose founding he played such an all important
part. Prosper the work of this organization that it may reclaim the lives of
many who are ashamed of their own weakness. This we ask in the name of Him
who taught us that no failure ever need be final - our Saviour, Jesus
Christ.
Hail and Farewell...
It is such a little while ago he stood before us, sick unto death and strong
unto faith...
Strong still unto the task begun...
Firm still, and he spoke in a strong, sure voice
Ten minutes. How many thousand times ten minutes
Had he served ten times ten thousands of us who were halt, and sick, and
steeped in fear?
And in ten minutes there again were strengths anew, and old truths
reaffirmed
In the strong, sure voice...in the tired, frail body.
How far from St. Thomas house of healing in Akron
To the surging conclave of Cleveland?
In miles as far as the Marshall isles are far;
As near as the first lengthening step of one drunk taking one clear stride
forward,
And as far as fifteen years are far, and as near as one new ray of hope in
one new breast.
The little man who had sworn Hippocrates great oath
Had helped to heal beyond it.
This be the arch of his memorial: the towering span
Of Fellowship, held high upon the heritage
By which we grow.
And this be the echo of his founding voice:
The weakest knock of whosoever seeks
The opening
Of any AA door...
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++++Message 1642. . . . . . . . . . . . Significant February dates in AA
History-corrected
From: NMOlson@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 2/5/2004 2:45:00 AM
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Thanks to members from Philadelphia for the correction of the date Jim
Burwell moved to Philadelphia.
Nancy
FEB 1:
1918 - Original date set for Bill Wilson's marriage to Lois Burnham. The
date was moved up because of the war.
FEB. 2:
1942 - Bill Wilson paid tribute to Ruth Hock, AA's first paid secretary, who
resigned to get married. She had written approximately 15,000 letters to
people asking for help
FEB. 5:
1941 - Pittsburgh Telegram ran a story on the first AA group's Friday night
meeting of a dozen "former hopeless drunks."
FEB. 8:
1940 - Bill W., Dr. Bob, and six other A.A.s asked 60 rich friends of John
D. Rockefeller,Jr., for money at the Union Club, NY. They got $2,000.
1940 - Houston Press ran first of 6 anonymous articles on A.A. by Larry J.
FEB. 9:
2002 - Sue Smith Windows, Dr. Bob's daughter died.
FEB. 10:
1922: Harold E. Hughes was born on a farm near Ida Grove, Iowa. After his
recovery from alcoholism, he became Governor of Iowa, a United States
Senator, and the leading dark horse for the Presidential Democratic
nomination in 1972, until he announced he would not run. He authored the
legislation which created the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and
Alcoholism, and other legislation to help alcoholics and addicts.
FEB 11:
1938 - Clarence Snyder ("Home Brewmeister" in 1st, 2nd & 3rd editions) had
his last drink.
Feb. 12:
1945 - World War II paper shortage forced reduction in size of the Big Book.
Feb. 13:
1937 - Oxford Groups "Alcoholic Squadron" met at the home of Hank Parkhurst
("The Unbeliever" in the 1st edition of the Big Book) in New Jersey.
1940 - With about two years of sobriety, Jim Burwell ("The Vicious Cycle")
moved to the Philadelphia area and started the first Philadelphia A.A.
group.
FEB 14:
1971 - AA groups worldwide held a memorial service for Bill Wilson.
2000 - William Y., "California Bill" died in Winston Salem, NC.
Feb. 15:
1946 - AA Tribune, Des Moines, IA, reported 36 new members since Marty Mann
had been there.
Feb. 16:
1941 - Baltimore Sunday Sun reported city's first AA group begun in 1940 had
grown from 3 to 40 members, with five being women.
FEB. 18:
1943 - AA's were granted the right to use cars for 12th step work in
emergency cases, despite gas rationing.
FEB.19:
1967 - Father "John Doe" (Ralph Pfau), 1st Catholic Priest in AA, died.
FEB 20:
1941 - The Toledo Blade published first of three articles on AA by Seymour
Rothman.
Feb. 21:
1939 - 400 copies of the Big Book manuscript were sent to doctors, judges,
psychiatrists, and others for comment. This was the "multilith" Big Book.
Feb. 22:
1842 - Abe Lincoln addressed the Washington Temperance Society in
Springfield, IL.
Feb. 24:
2002 -- Hal Marley, "Dr. Attitude of Gratitude," died. He had 37 years of
sobriety. Hal testified, anonymously, before the U.S. Senate Subcommittee on
Alcoholism and Drug Abuse on December 3, 1970.
Feb. 26:
1999 - Felicia Gizycka, author of "Stars Don't Fall," died. Born Countess
Felicia Gizycka in 1905, she was the daughter of Count Josef Gizycki and
Eleanor Medill Patterson. She married Drew Pearson in 1925 and divorced him
three years later. She married Dudley de Lavigne in 1934, but the marriage
lasted less than a year. In 1958 she married John Kennedy Magruder and
divorced him in 1964. For most of her professional career, she went by the
name Felicia Gizycka.
Other February happenings for which I have no specific date:
1908 - Bill Wilson made boomerang.
1916 - Bill Wilson & sophomore class at Norwich University was suspended for
hazing.
1938 - Rockefeller gave $5,000 to AA.
1939 - Dr. Harry Tiebout endorsed AA, the first psychiatrist to do so.
1940 - First organization meeting of Philadelphia AA is held at McCready
Hustona's room at 2209 Delaney Street.
1940 - 1st AA clubhouse opened at 334-1/2 West 24th Street, NYC.
1943 - San Francisco Bulletin reporter Marsh Masline interviewed Ricardo, a
San Quentin Prison AA group member.
1946 - Baton Rouge, La., AA's hold their first anniversary meeting.
1946 - The AA Grapevine reported the New York Seaman's Group issued a
pamphlet for seamen "on one page the 12 Steps have been streamlined into 5."
1946 - Des Moines Committee for Education on Alcoholism aired its first show
on KRNT.
1946 - Pueblo. Colorado, had a second group, composed of alcoholic State
Hospital patients.
1951 - Fortune magazine article about AA was published in pamphlet form.
1959 - AA granted "Recording for the Blind" permission to tape the Big Book.
1963 - Harpers carried article critical of AA.
1981 - 1st issue of "Markings," AA Archives Newsletter, was published, "to
give the Fellowship a sense of its own past and the opportunity to study
it."
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++++Message 1643. . . . . . . . . . . . Carl K. Obituary (1948)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 2/5/2004 10:37:00 AM
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February 1948 AA Grapevine
EDITOR DIES
Carl K., editor of The Empty Jug, died of a cerebral hemorrhage, Saturday
night, July 13, in Memphis, Tenn. Carl was a member of the Chattanooga Group
and was well known throughout the South.
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++++Message 1644. . . . . . . . . . . . Alcoholics Cannot Learn to be
''Social'' Drinkers (1995)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 2/5/2004 4:00:00 PM
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This article appeared in the July 29, 1995 Seattle Post-Intelligencer. It
followed shortly after an article featuring an advocate of teaching
alcoholics "responsible drinking" habits.
James E. Royce, S.J., Ph.D. is professor emeritus of psychology and
addiction studies at Seattle University and author of a leading textbook on
alcoholism.
Alcoholics cannot learn to be 'social' drinkers
by James E. Royce
Can alcoholics be conditioned to drink socially? Under such titles as "harm
reduction" and "moderation management" that old question has been
resurrected. Moderate drinking is certainly a more appealing goal to many
problem drinkers than total abstinence. But medical professionals and
additions counselors are unanimous in their opposition. Are they just rigid
prohibitionists?
As a lifetime member of the board of directors of the National Council on
Alcoholism and Drug Dependence, I must point out that the big problem is
that alcoholism is a progressive disease, often labeled as "problem
drinking" in its early stages. Monday's cold is the flu on Wednesday and
pneumonia on Friday. Most alcoholics are sure they can control their
drinking on the next occasion. The result is killing alcoholics, who can
expect a normal lifespan if they remain abstinent. For decades I have
defined an alcoholic as one who says, "I can quit any time I want to."
Self-deception is so typical of alcoholics that the American Society of
Addiction Medicine included the term "denial" in its latest definition. Talk
of harm reduction just feeds that denial.
Most research fails to adequately separate true alcoholics from alcohol
abusers or problem drinkers, which makes reports of success misleading. We
can't know how many of the latter may progress into true alcoholism. The
most thorough research (Helzer and Associates, 1985) studied five- and
seven-year outcomes on 1,289 diagnosed and treated alcoholics, and found
only 1.6 percent were successful moderate drinkers. Of that fraction, most
were female and none showed clear symptoms of true alcoholism. In any case,
it would be unethical to suggest to any patient a goal with a failure rate
of 98.4 percent.
We psychologists know that conditioning is limited in its ability to produce
behavioral changes. To attempt to condition alcoholics to drink socially is
asking of behavior modification more than it can do. Some have thought one
value of controlled-drinking experiments could be that the patient learns
for himself what he has not been able to accept from others, that he cannot
drink in moderation - giving all that extra scientific help might destroy
the rationalizations of the alcoholic who still thinks he can drink socially
"if I really tried." Actually, most uses of conditioning in the field have
been to create an aversion against drinking, to condition alcoholics to live
comfortably in a drinking society and to learn how to resist pressure to
drink. In that we have been reasonably successful, since this is in accord
with the physiology and psychology of addiction.
The discussion about turning recovered alcoholics into social drinkers
started in 1962, but no scientific research had been attempted until 1970,
when Mark and Linda Sobell, two psychologist at Patton State Hospital in
California with no clinical experience in treating alcoholics, attempted to
modify the drinking of chronic alcoholics, not as a treatment goal but just
to see whether it could be done. The research literature is largely a record
of failure, indicating that the only realistic goal in treatment is total
abstinence.
The prestigious British alcoholism authority Griffith Edwards (1994)
concluded that research disproved rather than confirmed the Sobell position.
Drs. Ruth Fox, Harry Tiebout, Marvin Block and M.M. Glatt were among the
authorities who responded in a special reprint from the 1963 Quarterly
Journal of Studies on Alcohol to the effect that never in the thousands of
cases they had treated was there ever a clear instance of a true alcoholic
who returned to drinking in moderation. Ewing (1975) was determined to prove
it could be done by using every technique known to behavior modification,
but he also did careful and lengthy follow up - and at the end of four years
every one of Ewing's subjects had gotten drunk and he called off the
experiment. Finally, Pendery and Maltzman (AAAS Science, July 9, 1982)
exposed the failure of the Sobell work, using hospital and police records
and direct contact to show that 19 of the 20 subjects did not maintain
sobriety in social drinking, and the other probably was not a true
alcoholics to begin with.
The Research of Peter Nathan indicates that whereas others may be able to
use internal cues (subjective feelings of intoxication) to estimate
blood-alcohol level while drinking, alcoholics cannot; so that method of
control is not available to them. To ask a recovered addict to engage in
"responsible heroin shooting" or a compulsive gambler to play just for small
amounts is to ignore the whole psychology and physiology of addiction.
Alcoholism is not a simple learned behavior that can be unlearned, but a
habitual disposition that has profoundly modified the whole person, mind and
body. That explains the admitted failure of psychoanalysis to achieve any
notable success in treating alcoholics, and renders vapid the notion of
Claude Steiner in "Games Alcoholics Play" that the alcoholic is a naughty
child rather than a sick adult. Even the Sobells' claimed successful cases
are now reported to have given up controlled drinking. For them abstinence
is easier - for them trying to take one drink and stop is sheer misery. The
reason is that one cannot "unlearn" the instant euphoric reinforcement that
alcohol gives.
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++++Message 1646. . . . . . . . . . . . Alan Guiness/A Members Eye View of
AA
From: burt reynolds . . . . . . . . . . . . 2/6/2004 8:05:00 PM
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Does anyone know anything about the man whose speech became the pamphlet
"A Member's Eye View of AA"?
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++++Message 1647. . . . . . . . . . . . Recollections Of AA''s Beginnings
(1952)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 2/7/2004 5:39:00 PM
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November 1952 AA Grapevine
Thus Do I Remember.
An Editorial Brings Some Recollections Of AA's Beginnings. . .
Dear Grapevine:
So September is the month of remembering! I am glad that you added "reading"
and especially "re-dedication."
I remember...the amazing friendliness of Akron AA in 1938. We were given an
address book with all names listed (few could afford telephones then) and
the earnest invitation to "call at any time." And we did.
I remember...meetings. We were from Cleveland, and every Wednesday, rain or
snow or shine, we made the 70-mile round trip to Akron. We made it eagerly,
willingly; anxious to be with new friends. Often there would be pot-luck
supper on Saturday nights. We were too poor in material possessions to
entertain, but how wealthy we were in friendships!
I remember...the emphasis on "morning meditation and morning reading," and
all of us equipped with the 5ยข Upper Room. That was a must.
I remember...every lesson that Anne dished out in her gentle and inimitable
manner. "Dorothy, everyone has been kind to you as a newcomer. Never forget
to pass that friendliness and kindness along!"
I remember...when several manuscript chapters of "The Book" came. Anne and I
read them to each other till 4 a.m., and Anne said: "Pray with me that this
will help others."
I remember...Anne every time I hear the Twelve Steps read, for the fifth
chapter was one that we read so eagerly one night.
I remember our first AA New Year's Eve party in Akron. Anne had gotten two
new dresses, her very first new clothes. When I asked her which dress she
would wear, she said "I can't wear a new dress. There will be so many who
have no new clothes," and she wore the dress we were so accustomed to seeing
on her.
I remember...the word spreading like wild-fire: "Bill and Lois are coming!"
When they arrived we would all be congregated to greet them. They would hide
their weariness (as they still do) and greet us with warmth and affection.
I remember...it says in the Big Book "We are like the passengers of a great
liner the moment after rescue from shipwreck..."
How true it was of us then!
D.M., La Jolla, Calif.
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++++Message 1648. . . . . . . . . . . . General Service Conference - 1956
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General Service Conference - 1956
"Petition, Appeal, Participation and Decision"
By Bill W.
God has been good to Alcoholics Anonymous. These sessions of the Sixth
General Service Conference now ending have marked the time when our Society
has taken the first step into the brave new world of our future. Never have
we felt more confident, more assured of the years to come than we do this
afternoon.
This Conference thinks, I am sure, that its main structural concepts are
approximately right. I am thinking of the relation of AA groups to their
Assemblies, the method of choosing Committeemen and Delegates, Directors and
Headquarters Staffs; also the relation of the Trustees, essentially a body
of custody, to the operating services of the Headquarters, the Grapevine,
Service office and AA Publishing. These interlocking relations are something
for high confidence already based on considerable experience. Nevertheless
we shall remain aware that these structures can be changed if they fail to
work. Our Charter can always be amended.
And of course, we shall always be much concerned with those lesser
refinements that can improve the working of our main structure.
Recent Improvements:
On the first evening here, I explained some of our recent improvements of
this Charter - how our newly formed Budget Committee is a fresh assurance
that we can't go broke, how our new Policy Committee can avert blunders in
this area and take the back breaking load of minor matters off of the
Trustees, how our Nominating Committee can insure good choices of new Staff
members, Directors and Trustees. In short, our Board of Trustees is now
fitted with eyes, ears and a nose that can guarantee a much improved
functioning. So far, so good.
But our structure of service is no empty blueprint. It is manned by people
who feel and think and act. Therefore any principles or devices that can
better relate them to each other in a harmonious and effective whole are
worth considering.
So I now offer you four principles that might someday permeate all of AA's
services, principles which express tolerance, patience and love of each
other; principles which could do much to avert friction, indecision and
power-driving. These are not really new principles; unconsciously we have
been making use of them right along. I simply propose to name them and, if
you like them, their scope and application can, over coming years, be fully
defined.
Four Key Words:
Here are the words for them: petition, appeal, participation and decision.
Maybe all this sounds a bit vague and abstract. So let's develop the meaning
and application of these four words.
Take petition. Actually this is an ancient device to protect minorities. It
is for the redress of grievances. Every AA member, inside or outside our
services, should have the right to petition his fellows. Some years ago, for
example, a group of my old friends on the outside became violently opposed
to the Conference. They feared it would ruin AA. To put it mildly, they
thought they had a grievance. So they placed their ideas on paper and
petitioned the AA groups to stop the Conference. Lots of our members got
sore; they said this group had no right to do this. But they really did have
the right, didn't they?
Yet in our services, this right is often forgotten or unused. It is my
belief that every person working in AAs services should feel free to
petition for a redress of grievances or an improvement of conditions. I
would like to make this personal right unlimited.
Under it, a boy wrapping books in our shipping room could petition the Board
of AA Publishing, the Board of Trustees, or indeed, the whole Conference if
he chose to do so -- and this without the slightest prejudice against him.
Of course, he'd seldom carry this right so far. But its very existence, and
everybody's knowledge of it, would go far to stop those morale breakers of
undue domination and petty tyranny.
Let's look at the right of appeal. A century ago a young Frenchman,
deTocqueville, came to this country to look at the new Republic. Despite the
fact that his family had suffered loss of life and property in the French
Revolution, this nobleman-student had begun to love democracy and to believe
in its future. His writing on the subject is still a classic. But he did
express one deep fear for the future: he feared the tyranny of the majority,
especially that of the uninformed, the angry, or the close majority. He
wanted to be sure that minority opinion could always be well heard and never
trampled upon. How very right he was has already been sensed by the
Conference.
Therefore, I propose that we further insure, in AA service matters, the
right to appeal. Under it, the minority of any committee, corporate Board,
or a minority of the Board of Trustees, or a minority of this Conference,
could continue to appeal, if they wished, all the way forward to the whole
AA movement, thus making the minority voice both clear and loud.
Protective Safeguard:
As a matter of practice, this right, too, would seldom be carried to
extremes. But again, its very existence would make majorities careful of
acting in haste or with too much cocksureness. In this connection we should
note that our Charter already requires in many cases a two-thirds vote (and
in some instances a three-quarter vote) for action. This is to prevent hasty
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