with the other, and with the world outside. They involve relations of the A.A.
to his group, the relation of his group to Alcoholics Anonymous as a whole,
and
the place of Alcoholics Anonymous in that troubled sea called Modern Society,
where all of humankind must presently shipwreck or find haven. Terribly
relevant is the problem of our basic structure and our attitude toward those
ever pressing questions of leadership, money and authority. The future may
well
depend on how we feel and act about things that are controversial and how we
regard our public relations. Our final destiny will surely hang upon what we
presently decide to do with these danger-fraught issues!
Now comes the crux of our
discussion. It is this: Have we yet acquired sufficient experience to state
clear-cut policies on these, our chief concerns? Can we now declare general
principles which could grow into vital traditions--traditions sustained in
the heart of each A.A. by his own deep conviction and by the common consent of
his fellows? That is the question. Though full answer to all our perplexities
may never be found, I'm sure we have come at last to a vantage point whence we
can discern the main outlines of a body of tradition; which, God willing, can
stand as an effective guard against all the ravages of time and circumstance.
Acting upon the persistent urge of
old A.A. friends, and upon the conviction that general agreement and consent
between our members is now possible, I shall venture to place in words these
suggestions for _An
Alcoholics Anonymous Tradition of Relations_--_Twelve Points to Assure Our
Future._
The
sequence of the Gv essays that Bill wrote do not follow the sequence of the
Traditions until December 1947 through November 1948 when he wrote an essay
for
each Tradition in numerical sequence (later incorporated into the 12&12 and
AA Comes of Age).
His
essays from August 1945 to November 1947 were:
Modesty One
Plank for Good Public Relations - Aug 1945
'Rules''
Dangerous but Unity Vital - Sep 1945
The Book Is
Born - Oct 1945
A Tradition Born
of Our Anonymity - Jan 1946
Our Anonymity
Is Both Inspiration and Safety - Mar 1946
Twelve
Suggested Points for AA Tradition - Apr 1946
Safe Use of
Money - May 1946
Policy on Gift
Funds - Jun 1946
The Individual
in Relation to AA as a Group - Jul 1946
Who Is a Member
of Alcoholics Anonymous - Aug 1946
Will AA Ever
Have a Personal Government - Jan 1947
Dangers in
Linking AA to Other Projects - Mar 1947
Clubs in AA -
Apr 1947
Adequate
Hospitalization: One Great Need - May 1947
Lack of Money
Proved AA Boon - Jun 1947
Last Seven
Years Have Made AA Self-Supporting - Aug 1947
Traditions
Stressed in Memphis Talk - Oct 1947
Incorporations:
Their Use and Misuse - Nov 1947
The above
period of time was also when Bill was going through some of the worst of his
episodes of depression.
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*From:* Lash, William
(Bill) [mailto:wlash@avaya.com]
*Sent:* Wednesday, March 31, 2004
1:35 PM
*To:*
AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
*Subject:* [AAHistoryLovers]
Traditions Question
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Does anyone know why the Twelve Traditions are in the order
that they are in? Thanks!
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Just Love,
Barefoot Bill
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++++Message 1737. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Alan Guiness/A Members Eye View of
AA
From: mlibby . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/3/2004 1:06:00 AM
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His name was Allen McGuiness (deceased) and I believe he was from Southern
California. I love the pamphlet and have memorized a large chunk of it because
it is, in my opinion, the most beautiful expression of what AA is that I have
ever read. I'll send you separately a 15 minute excerpt from the pamphlet that
I recite daily on my way to work.
You can go to xa-speakers.org and search for "Allen" and you'll find a series
of five talks he gave in Brentwood, California back in 1968 called "AA
Workshop" or something to that effect. Tremendous....very much in line with A
Member's Eye View.
You can download those and learn a significant amount more about this man
through his sharing... He got sober in the early 1950's, went out shortly
thereafter, but came back. Thank God.
Mike
----- Original Message -----
From: burt reynolds
To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, February 06, 2004 5:05 PM
Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Alan Guiness/A Members Eye View of AA
Does anyone know anything about the man whose speech became the pamphlet
"A Member's Eye View of AA"?
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++++Message 1738. . . . . . . . . . . . Sam Shoemaker Obituary (1964)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/5/2004 8:08:00 AM
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January 1964 AA Grapevine
In Memory of Dr. Sam
by Bill
ON Thursday, October 31, 1963 Dr. Sam Shoemaker, the great Episcopal clergyman
and first friend of AA, passed from our sight and hearing. He was one of those
few without whose ministration AA could never have been born in the first
place - nor prospered since.
From his teaching, Dr. Bob and I absorbed most of the principles that were
later embodied in the Twelve Steps of AA. Our ideas of self-examination,
acknowledgement of character defects, restitution for harms done and working
with others came straight from Sam. Therefore he gave to us the concrete
knowledge of what we could do about our illness; he passed to us the spiritual
keys by which so many of us have since been liberated.
We who in AA's early time were privileged to fall under the spell of his
inspiration can never be the same again.
We shall bless Sam's memory forever.
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++++Message 1739. . . . . . . . . . . . Significant April Dates in AA History
- Revised
From: NMOlson@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/6/2004 3:55:00 AM
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April 1:
1939 - Alcoholics Anonymous AA's Big Book was published.
1966 - Sister Ignatia died at the age of 77. She worked with Dr. Bob in
treating many early AA members at St. Thomas Hospital in Akron.
1984 - 12 Coconuts Group, Kapiolani Park, Waikiki, Hawaii, was founded.
[22]
April 3:
1941 - First Florida AA meeting was held.
April 4:
1960 - The Chicago Daily News reported that Fr. Edward Dowling, Jesuit Priest
who helped start the first AA group in St. Louis, had died at age 62.
April 7:
1941 - Ruth Hock reported there were 1,500 letters asking for help, as a
result of the Saturday Evening Post Article by Jack Alexander.
April 10:
1939 - The first ten copies of the Big Book arrived at the office Bill shared
with Hank Parkhurst in Newark, New Jersey.
April 11:
1938 - Alcoholic Foundation held its first meeting.
1939 - Marty Mann attended her first meeting a the home of Bill and Lois
Wilson in Brooklyn.
1941 - Bill and Lois Wilson moved into their new home, Stepping Stones.
April 12:
1942 - The Windsor Daily Star in Ontario, Canada, reported that over 400 AA's
attended a testimonial dinner for Dr. Bob.
April 16:
1940 - A sober Rollie Helmsley caught the only opening day no-hitter in
baseball history since 1909.
1973 - Dr. Jack Norris Chairman of the AA General Service Board, presented
President Richard Nixon with the one-millionth copy of the Big Book at the
White House.
April 17:
1941 - 2nd group in Los Angeles, the "Hole in the Ground Group" was formed.
April 19:
1940 - First AA group in Little Rock, Arkansas, was formed.
April 22:
1940 - Bill Wilson transferred his Works Publishing Stock to the Alcoholic
Foundation. The date on which Hank Parkhurst transferred his stock is
uncertain. See: Yahoo! Groups : AAHistoryLovers Messages : Message 75 of 1732
[23]
April 23:
1940 - Dr. Bob wrote the Trustees to refuse Big Book royalties, but Bill
Wilson insisted on them for Dr. Bob and Anne.
April 24:
1989 - Dr. Leonard Strong died. He was Bill's brother-in-law and an AA
Trustee.
April 25:
1951 - AA's first General Service Conference was held.
April 26:
1939 - Bill & Lois Wilson moved in with Hank Parkhurst after the bank
foreclosed on 182 Clinton St. This was the first of over 50 moves before they
acquired Stepping Stones.
April 30:
1989 - The film "My Name is Bill W.," a Hallmark Hall of Fame presentation,
was broadcast at 9 p.m. on ABC TV.
Other April events for which we have no specific dates:
1940 - The "Texas Preamble" used to open meetings in Texas, was written by
Larry J. of Houston. See:
Yahoo! Groups : AAHistoryLovers Messages : Message 841 of 1732 [24]
1940 - The first AA pamphlet was published, entitled simply: "AA."
1958 - The word "honest" was dropped from "an honest desire to top drinking,"
in the AA Preamble.
1960 - Bill Wilson refused to be on the cover of Time Magazine.
1988 - Cybil C., the first woman member in Los Angeles and archivist, died.
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++++Message 1740. . . . . . . . . . . . Periodical Lit., REad, March 1945
From: Jim Blair . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/7/2004 7:15:00 AM
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Do You Drink Too Much?
A Professor of Psychology Tells Why PeopleDrink - and Offers Advice
By Peter J. Hampton
The moderate drinker avoids getting drunk. He does not seek intoxication. He
uses alcoholic beverages because he likes their taste and enjoys their
soothing effects. Occasionally he uses them also as a means of allaying
irritation and assuaging minor pains. Alcohol is not a necessity for the
moderate drinker. It constitutes only a small item in his budget.
More than half of the approximately 40,000,000 users of alcoholic beverages in
the United States fall into this category. They can take it or leave it alone,
for they have complete control over their drinking. This, more than anything
else, distinguishes the moderate from the habitual or intemperate drinker.
The habitual drinker uses alcohol almost every day but in view of his health
and tolerance for alcoholic beverages, he does not as a rule develop any
alcoholic disease. He indulges in alcohol for the lift he gets from it.
Alcohol breaks down his reserve and removes his inhibitions, and thus gives
him a chance to work up enthusiasm for social activities and self-expression.
Alcohol aids him, also, in covering up any neurotic faults he may have.
A credit manger for a retail store claims that drinking makes him a better
social companion and at the same time gives him a feeling of importance. "when
drinking," he says "I feel like 'a big shot' and have no worries."
An inspector of machine parts puts it this way: "Because of my backward and
timid nature, especially when I have to meet people, I take a few drinks to
bolster me up. I feel as though the only time I can assert myself is when I am
half drunk. I honestly believe that my being shy, timid, and having an
inferiority complex is the main reason for my drinking."
Unlike many of the 7,000,000 habitual drinkers, this inspector of machine
parts knows why he drinks. Knowing, he can help himself.
The neurotic drinker has to overcome his fear of people and things before he
can regain control over alcohol. The pleadings and prayers of others have no
effect on him. It is only when he shakes off his juvenile thinking and begins
to realize that peace, contentment, relaxation and happiness come from within
himself, and not from the inside of a beer glass, that he is on his way to
recovery from the bondage of liquor.
The remaining 3,000,000 users of alcoholic beverages in the United States,
grouped under intemperate drinkers, include the normal excessive drinkers,
symptomatic drinkers, stupid drinkers and alcoholic addicts. Recklessness,
exuberance and mistaken good fellowship are usually to blame for the
overindulgence of excessive drinkers. Many are individuals of high alcoholic
tolerance who could stop, but do not merely because there seems to be no
reason to do so.
The symptomatic drinkers are those individuals whose excessive drinking is the
result of a disturbed mental state. They may suffer from hysteria,
neurasthenia, psychasthenia, schizophrenia, paranoia or manic depressive
psychosis. Their drinking is only one of the many debilitating symptoms of
their psychoneurotic or psy-chotic state.
Here is the story of a retail salesman who may be classified as a symptomatic
drinker:
"As nearly as I can remember," the salesman told me, "I began to drink heavily
in 1927. My average consumption of liquor per day then was two pints of hard
stuff. In 1930, I had my first bout with delirium tremens and was
hospitalized. When I got out, I resumed my drinking. During the next few years
I was under a doctor's care three or four times. In 1937 I married, more to
escape the family and be able to drink in peace than anything else....
"The courts got tired of seeing me and I was probated and sent to a mental
hospital. I stayed for thirty days and then got out on probation. Two months
later I was back at the hospital. This time I was placed in the strong ward
for incurables where I spent the next thirteen months. Thirty days after I was
let out, I was drunk once more. My wife got fed up with me and divorced me.
"My trips to the hospital continued, sometimes for delirium tremens, sometimes
for epileptic convulsions. Finally in September, 1943, I joined Alcoholics
Anonymous. I had my last drink on October 3, 1943, and haven't had the
slightest urge to drink since."
Our friend, of course, is far from saved, even though he has joined Alcoholics
Anonymous and has been sober for more than a year. A psychiatric examination
shows that he has the symptomatology of paranoia, psychasthenia and
schizophrenia, and, by his own admission, he has had epileptic convulsions.
His drinking is therefore symptomatic and not causative, and unless the cause
of his psychotic tendencies can be removed or ameliorated, he will at some
future time relapse into inebriety.
Stupid drinkers are the feeble-minded individuals who drink because they
cannot resist temptation and because they cannot rise to any higher form or
recreation than the passive one of intoxication. These are the unfortunate
individuals who, because of their low intelligence, cannot foresee the
consequences of their actions.
Finally, the alcoholic addict is a person with an uncontrollable craving for
alcohol. The outstanding criterion is the inability to break with the habit.
Alcohol serves the purpose of creating an artificial social and personal
adjustment.
A woman inspector at a watch-case factory tells this story: "At the time I
started to be a heavy drinker, I had become very discouraged, not having a
husband and a home of my own in which to rear my daughter. All the men I came
in contact with were heavy drinkers and I drank with them. I thought at the
time most men liked a woman who drank with them. I drank because my marriage
had been a failure."
A bond dealer adds: "It was difficult to live with myself. I was not an
upstanding citizen. I could not understand myself. I drank because of the
threat of divorce and because I was losing custody of my baby son."
From a social point of view, only the 3,000,000 intemperate drinkers
constitute a serious problem to society. The symptomatic drinkers and the
stupid drinkers, when detected, are as a rule hospitalized in state
institutions, with the result that society manages to keep them harmless. The
normal excessive drinkers, although troublesome at times, usually contain
themselves sufficiently to avoid being public hazards. The most pernicious and
the most dangerous of intemperate drinkers are the alcoholic addicts.
Unable to control their drinking, they will go to almost any length to satisfy
their craving for liquor. Although many of these people are likable and
intelligent, they often become dangerous to themselves and to others. Their
main difficulty lies in their absence of deep emotional responses, their
inability to profit from experience, and their disregard of social mores.
Between alcoholic sprees, they behave like perfectly normal people.
The inability of alcoholic addicts to profit from experience makes them
especially liable to asocial and antisocial deeds. The following excerpts,
taken from autobiographical sketches of alcoholic addicts in my files,
illustrate the point.
A district manager for a business concern writes: "When I was in high school,
I worked afternoons and Saturdays at a shoe store for $7 per week. Finding
that having money in my pocket all the time added to my popularity, I soon
began a system of petty thievery at the store."
A woman running a rooming house writes: "I gradually came to the point where
drink was the first thing in my mind. I would lie, steal and deceive to get
it. I became a Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. I treated my mother awful while under
the influence of liquor, but would do anything for her when sober. The same
thing with my daughter. I even thought of suicide to end the disgrace I was
causing my mother and daughter."
Within the last ten years, a group of alcoholic addicts, known as Alcoholics
Anonymous, have instituted a program of cure which has led many of these
people back to sobriety. In a recent study of the personality structure of
alcoholic addicts, I had an opportunity to question several hundred members of
Alcoholics Anonymous as to why they became heavy drinkers.
Many of the reasons offered are good reasons, but not necessarily the real
ones, for, like most other people, alcoholic addicts are past masters of the
art of rationalization. However, the consistency found in the statements
reveals a common trend which points to escape as perhaps the most fundamental
reason for excessive drinking.
The alcoholic addict may try to escape from himself. Drink makes him gay,
lively and happy. He forgets about his emotional immaturity, his feelings of
insecurity. He becomes noisy, even boisterous and defiant. He feels like "a
big shot" with no worries.
Instead of trying to escape from himself, the alcohol addict may try to escape
from other people. He may drink to escape the nagging of his wife, the
pettiness of domestic and business relations. Disappointed in his social and
financial ambitions, he may drink to escape all social responsibilities. He
may become depressed and morose and hides from people.
A manager for a construction company says: "I was unable to secure the
financial and social position I desired. I had an adolescent viewpoint-refused
to accept things as they were. I tried to find continued escape through
alcohol and hide my frustration."
Finally, the alcoholic addict may try to escape from the environment in which
he finds himself. He may use alcohol as a means to overcome the fears, worries
and anxieties brought on by the real world or as a straight defense mechanism
to substitute phantasy for all reality.
An advertising copywriter explains: "I used my first wife's desertion as an
excuse to drink. But I believe it was an effort to escape from all reality. I
drank because of boredom, frustration, anger and the weather."
A stenographer says: "I sought to find temporary escape from reality. Mother's
illness, which steadily grew worse until she was finally committed to a mental
hospital for senile dementia, made my life drab and miserable. I drank to
escape from it all."
These then are the reasons why people drink. There are many ways of finding
relief from "the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune." Alcohol is one of
the worst.
Source: Read, March, 1945
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++++Message 1742. . . . . . . . . . . . grapevine 6/1950
From: billyk3 . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/8/2004 4:22:00 PM
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does anyone know for sure who wrote this?
it was probably the 'editors' but if there is a name,
i'd like to know it. what a trbute to a wonderful lady!!
thanks
billyk
June 1950 AA Grapevine
ANNE SMITH
(March 21st, 1881 - June 1st, 1949)
"She greeted strangers, and listened for their names."
SOMEHOW we believe Dr. Bob's beloved Anne would prefer this simple
tribute beyond all others. It was written by one who knew her well.
It came from the bottom of a grateful heart which sensed that
extravagant language and trumpeting phrases would serve only to
obscure a life that had deep meaning.
It is doubtful if now, only one year after her passing, that, the
true significance of Anne Smith's life can be realized. Certainly it
cannot yet be written, for the warmth of her love, and charm of her
personality and the strength of her humility are still upon those of
us who knew her.
For Anne Smith was far more than a gracious lady. She was one of four
people, chosen by a Higher Destiny, to perform a service to mankind.
How great this contribution is, only time and an intelligence beyond
man's can determine. With Dr. Bob, Lois and Bill, Anne Smith stepped
into history, not as a heroine but as one willing to accept God's
will and ready to do what needed to be done.
Her kitchen was the battleground and, while Anne poured the black
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