From: Joe Adams . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/3/2006 12:54:00 AM
around here - will be studying Tradition 4 again.
of the reference.
Not that it is a major point of recovery, but it IS in
time.
Anybody? (and smile, it's not all that grim)
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions pp. 147-149.
(This is also where we find Rule No. 62,
(Messages 2324 and 1610). Does anyone in the
the century. The Mad River Valley, which housed
through Chittenden county.
(jblair at videotron.ca)
I had a discussion with Ozzie Lepper who runs
the Wilson House in East Dorset and he claims
that the foundations of the clapboard factory
can still be seen.
Jim
______________________________
The full story, pp. 147-149 from the chapter
in the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions on the
Fourth Tradition ("Each group should be autonomous
except in matters affecting other groups or A.A.
as a whole"). That section says:
Every group had the right to be wrong.
When A.A. was still young, lots of eager groups
were forming. In a town we'll call Middleton, a
real crackerjack had started up. The townspeople
were as hot as firecrackers about it. Stargazing,
the elders dreamed of innovations. They figured
the town needed a great big alcoholic center, a
kind of pilot plant A.A. groups could duplicate
everywhere. Beginning on the ground floor there
would be a club; in the second story they would
sober up drunks and hand them currency for the back
debts; the third deck would house and educational
project - quite controversial, of course. In
imagination the gleaming center was to go up
several stories more, but three would do for a
start. This would all take a lot of money - other
people's money. Believe it or not, wealthy
townsfolk bought the idea.
There were, though, a few conservative dissenters
among the alcoholics. They wrote the Foundation*,
A.A.'s headquarters in New York, wanting to know
about this sort of streamlining. They understood
that the elders, just to nail things down good,
were about to apply to the Foundation for a charter.
These few were disturbed and skeptical.
[*In 1954, the name of the Alcoholic Foundation, Inc.,
was changed to the General Service Board of Alcoholics
Anonymous, Inc., and the Foundation office is now
the General Service Office.]
Of course, there was a promoter in the deal - a
super-promoter. By his eloquence he allayed all
fears, despite advice from the Foundation that it
could issue no charter, and that ventures which mixed
an A.A. group with medication and education had come
to sticky ends elsewhere. To make things safer,
the promoter organized three corporations and became
president of them all. Freshly painted, the new
center shone. The warmth of it all spread through
the town. Soon things began to hum. to insure
foolproof, continuous operation, sixty-one rules
and regulations were adopted.
But alas, this bright scene was not long in darkening.
Confusion replaced serenity. It was found that
some drunks yearned for education, but doubted if
they were alcoholics. The personality defects of
others could be cured maybe with a loan. Some were
club-minded, but it was just a question of taking
care of the lonely heart. Sometimes the swarming
applicants would go for all three floors. Some would
start at the top and come through to the bottom,
becoming club members; others started in the club,
pitched a binge, were hospitalized, then graduated
to education on the third floor. It was a beehive
of activity, all right, but unlike a beehive,
it was confusion compounded. An A.A. group,
as such, simply couldn't handle this sort of project.
All too late that was discovered. Then came
the inevitable explosion - something like that day
the boiler burst in Wombley's Clapboard Factory.
A chill chokedamp of fear and frustration fell
over the group.
When that lifted, a wonderful thing had happened.
The head promoter wrote the Foundation office.
He said he wished he'd paid attention to A.A.
experience. Then he did something else that was
to become an A.A. classic. It all went on a little
card about golf-score size. The cover read:
"Middleton Group #1. Rule #62." Once the card was
unfolded, a single pungent sentence leaped to the
eye: "Don't take yourself too damn seriously."
Thus it was that under Tradition Four an A.A.
group had exercised its right to be wrong.
______________________________
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3305. . . . . . . . . . . . V. C. Kitchen and the Oxford Group
From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/7/2006 5:12:00 PM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
I have been doing research on one of the important
Oxford Group books, V. C. Kitchen's "I Was a Pagan,"
for a book which I am writing.
Other than what Kitchen says about himself in
his book, I have so far been able to find out
relatively little about his life. Some of it is
a bit frustrating. For example, although I have
been able to discover his date of birth (1891),
his date of death is unaccountably absent from
the normal librarians' reference sources.
Using Google to search the internet has shown
that Dick B. and myself are the only two people
who seem to have done much research on V. C.
Kitchen, unless I am possibly missing something
by inadvertence. The standard library reference
sources at the Indiana University library (like
the "Dictionary of National Biography" and so on)
make no mention of Kitchen anywhere.
What I have done below is to give all of the
information which I have in fact been able to
find, written up in the form in which I plan to
use it in the book. If any members of the
AAHistoryLovers can provide me with any
additional information about V. C. Kitchen's
life, I would greatly appreciate it.
Glenn Chesnut
South Bend, Indiana
______________________________
In 1934, Victor Constant Kitchen published a
book called "I Was a Pagan," [1] describing his
discovery of the Oxford Group and the way it
had changed his life. This is a short but very
useful work for understanding the Oxford Group
movement and the origins of many of the practices
found in Alcoholics Anonymous. One nevertheless
has to actually read Kitchen's little book.
Attempting to summarize the connections between
the Oxford Group and A.A. by giving short lists
of tenets and principles does not do adequate
justice to the linkage. Anyone however who has
a first hand acquaintance with A.A., who then
reads through "I Was a Pagan," will find page
after page where it sounds in uncanny fashion
almost like a description of Alcoholics Anonymous
in operation written by a long-time A.A. member.
The Oxford Group was not the same as A.A., but
we can see the connection between the two
movements in the style and the feeling, just
as much as in some of the ideas which A.A.
borrowed from the parent group.
V. C. Kitchen was a New York advertising man,
with an office at 42nd Street and Fifth Avenue.
He had a great interest in the Calvary Rescue
Mission for down-and-outers at 246 East 23rd Street
near Second Avenue, an operation which was
supported by Calvary Episcopal Church and run
by Oxford Group members.
Calvary Episcopal Church itself was located
several blocks away on Fourth Avenue (now Park
Avenue South) at 21st Street. The rector,
Father Samuel Shoemaker, had constructed an
eight-story parish house called Calvary House
next door to the church in 1928. Shoemaker was
a devoted follower of Frank Buchman, the founder
of the Oxford Group. Under Shoemaker's leadership,
Calvary House became the American headquarters
of the movement. Kitchen, with his writing skills,
wrote articles for the Rev. Shoemaker's publication,
the "Calvary Evangel." [2]
In November 1934, Ebby Thacher came to visit
Bill Wilson in his kitchen in the second floor
apartment at 182 Clinton Street in Brooklyn, [3]
and told him about the Oxford Group and its
teachings. As a result Bill visited Calvary
Rescue Mission, began learning more about the
Oxford Group, and eventually (after his vision
of the divine light in Towns Hospital) began
attending the Oxford Group meetings at Calvary
House, where he got to know Father Shoemaker
himself. [4]
What makes Kitchen's book so important for
A.A. history, is that the eye-witness account
which he gives of the Oxford Group at work
describes the kind of practices which existed
in the New York city area at the exact time that
Bill Wilson first came into contact with the
movement. He and Bill W. were both members of
the same Oxford Group businessman's group in
New York City during the period around 1935-1936,
and became good friends. [5] The two of them were
close to the same age, so they could relate to
one another easily: in 1934 -- which was the year
that Ebby visited Bill in his apartment and told
him about the Oxford Group, and the year that
Kitchen's book "I Was a Pagan" was published --
Bill turned 39 years old and Kitchen was 43. [6]
There was also a connection between Kitchen
and Dr. Bob, although it was indirect. In 1933,
wealthy rubber baron Harvey Firestone, Sr.
(president of the Firestone Rubber and Tire
Company) brought sixty Oxford Group members to
Akron, Ohio, paying all their expenses, so that
they could get a group started in that city.
Kitchen was one of the members of that team, [7]
which meant that he was one of the founders of
the Oxford Group fellowship in that city. Dr. Bob's
wife Anne was the one who persuaded the doctor
to start attending these new Oxford Group meetings
early in 1933, shortly after they were begun.
Now it should be noted that Dr. Bob was not able
to get sober just by joining the Oxford Group,
but it created the link which allowed him to meet
Bill W. two years later, in May, 1935. It also
gave him enough knowledge of Oxford Group
principles to allow him and Bill W. to start
talking together productively from the very
start, and creating the Alcoholics Anonymous
movement by modifying and adapting those Oxford
Group principles. [8]
So Kitchen had connections of one sort or another
with both of the founders of A.A., with Bill W.
directly, but indirectly with Dr. Bob too. This
is part of what makes Kitchen's book so important
for understanding early A.A.
______________________________
NOTES:
[1] Victor Constant Kitchen, "I Was a Pagan"
(New York: Harper and Brothers, 1934). There is an
edition available on the internet at www.stepstudy.org
www dot stepstudy dot org).
[2] From Dick B. (Kihei, Hawaii), based on his
researches. Dick is the author of a number of books
on A.A. and the Oxford Group, including Dick B.,
"The Akron Genesis of Alcoholics Anonymous" (Seattle,
Washington: Glen Abbey Books, 1992) and Dick B.,
"The Oxford Group and Alcoholics Anonymous" (Seattle,
Washington: Glen Abbey Books, 1992).
[3] The Big Book = "Alcoholics Anonymous," 4th
edit. (New York: Alcoholics Anonymous World
Services, 2001 [1st edit. 1939]), pp. 8-13.
"Pass It On: The Story of Bill Wilson and How
the A.A. Message Reached the World" (New York:
Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, 1984),
pp. 87, 98, 111-115.
[4] "Pass It On" pp. 116-119 and 127.
[5] From Dick B.'s researches.
[6] Kitchen was born in 1891, according to
the standard bibliographies used by American
university libraries. Bill Wilson was born on
November 26, 1895.
[7] Dick B. (Kihei, Hawaii) was told this by
Oxford Group members from the 1930's when he
was interviewing them.
[8] "Pass It On" pp. 53-60.
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3306. . . . . . . . . . . . Question about Clyde Bertram
"Freeman"
From: Jean Cottel . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/10/2006 12:04:00 AM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
I have come across a booklet called "Stand Tall
Again," written under the pen name of "Freeman."
It is signed in the front "Clyde Bertram, 'Freeman'".
No date on it, it is a story of getting sober in AA.
Information?
Jean Cottel
jcottel@earthlink.net
(jcottel at earthlink.net)
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3307. . . . . . . . . . . . Bill W.''s last trip to Towns
Hospital
From: gbaa487 . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/10/2006 10:45:00 AM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
I understand that Bill W.'s first three trips to
Towns Hospital were paid for by his brother-in-law,
Dr. Strong.
Who paid for his fourth trip, in December 1934?
Thanks,
George
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3308. . . . . . . . . . . . Use of Dash in First Step
From: Tom Hickcox . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/10/2006 10:57:00 AM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
When discussing the First Step in meetings, a
local pedant insists that Bill W. put the dash,
or, as he says, line separator, there on purpose
to signify that both phrases of the Step have
equal importance.
My problem with this is several-fold. Bill was
not that accomplished a writer, at least at this
point in his life, and if what he tells us of the
origin of the steps in "Twelve Steps in Thirty
Minutes" is true, I doubt if the intricacies of
English grammar and writing were in the forefront
of his mind when these were written down. His
formal education in English would have been what
he had in secondary school and perhaps the semester
of college he spent at Norwich. I am a product
of a New England prep school and they weren't
teaching those distinctions fifty years ago.
I also scanned about fifty contiguous pages of the
Big Book counting dashes/hyphens/line separators
and semi-colons. I chose semi-colons as one could
pick them out without having to read the text.
There was an equal amount of each, roughly thirty-five,
or one each on every page-and-a-half. This indicates
[not proves-indicates] that these dashes, etc., were
put in randomly along with semi-colons and perhaps
some other devices to avoid using the same thing over
and over. Bill has said that he alternated words
in several instances towards this same end.
Another problem I have with the pedant's assertion
is that I see no indication from the founders and
those who helped write the Big Book that it was
intended to be studied in this detail. I live in
the Bible Belt and there is among some people a mind
set that every word sprang off Bill W's pencil at the
direct order of God Himself., but that's a different
topic.
I am discussing history here, not recovery. I am not
arguing that the two parts of the First Step are not
of equal importance but rather that the argument about
the dash/line separator is invalid.
I would also note that over the years I have not
heard this assertion from anyone else nor have I read
it in any A.A. book or on any of the many A.A. related
sites out there on the internet. I suspect it came
from a circuit speaker. I would just like some feedback
from those better versed than I as to the substance
of the assertion.
Tommy in Baton Rouge
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3309. . . . . . . . . . . . silkworth''s letter
From: trixiebellaa . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/2/2006 1:10:00 PM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
Hi history lovers, could you please tell us why
this part of Dr. Silkworth's second letter was in
the original manuscript of the Big Book, but taken
out when the book went to the printers.
"Then there are those who are never properly adjusted
to life, who are the so-called neurotics. The prognosis
of this type is unfavorable."
Thank you for your help in this mattter.
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3310. . . . . . . . . . . . Joe and Charlie tapes online
From: K D Dew . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/7/2006 5:23:00 AM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
A while back I stumbled upon a link that had a
series of 9 real audio recordings of Joe and Charlie
and the big book study along with a word document
transcription of that session.
Unfortunately, I had a hard drive crash and I'm unable
to locate the backup that I made.
If anyone knows the link, please send it to me at
my e-mail address:
Kddew_md@bardstowncable.net
(Kddew_md at bardstowncable.net)
Kevin
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3311. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Are there recordings of Lois
Wilson speaking?
From: Mike Aycock . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/6/2006 1:19:00 AM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
I have a boxed set which includes Bill W. (AA), Dr. Bob
(AA), and Lois W. (Al-anon). On this CD however Lois
just has a few words to say. I do know that there are a
few recordings by her. If you need more info on this you
can probably check with James M. at:
JamesTapes@aol.com
(JamesTapes at aol.com).
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3312. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Joe and Charlie tapes online
From: Joe Nugent . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/10/2006 1:59:00 PM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
http://www.aaprimarypurpose.org/speakers.htm
_____
From: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of K D Dew
Sent: Friday, April 07, 2006 5:24 AM
To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Joe and Charlie tapes online
A while back I stumbled upon a link that had a
series of 9 real audio recordings of Joe and Charlie
and the big book study along with a word document
transcription of that session.
Unfortunately, I had a hard drive crash and I'm unable
to locate the backup that I made.
If anyone knows the link, please send it to me at
my e-mail address:
Kddew_md@bardstowncable.net
(Kddew_md at bardstowncable.net)
Kevin
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3313. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: Joe and Charlie tapes online
From: Billy-Bob . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/10/2006 12:51:00 PM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
The Joe and Charlie tapes promote the myth that early AA's had a higher
success
rate, and that by returning to the mythical "old way" of working
the AA program,
AA can reduce the relapse rate and get more people sober.
The truth is the relapse rate and failure rate in early AA was extremely
high.
BiLL W. admits this in his memorial speech at Dr. Bob's funeral and Francis
Hartigan points this out in his biography of Bill W.
I don't dislike the Joe and Charlie tapes but I do dislike the fact that
they
continue to be on a crusade to return AA to a mythical time that never
existed
in the first place.
Sincerely, Jim F.
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3314. . . . . . . . . . . . RE: Joe and Charlie tapes online
From: Jan L. Robinson . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/10/2006 7:44:00 PM
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
There is a great Joe and Charlie site. Here is the address
http://kischat.com/bigbook/joeandcharlie.html
IIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
++++Message 3315. . . . . . . . . . . . V. C. Kitchen''s obituary (Oxford
Group author)
From: Glenn Chesnut . . . . . . . . . . . . 4/12/2006 4:23:00 PM
Share with your friends: