2. Observe before talking Some of the best conversation makers are successful because they have the ability to listen, and not just to be listened to So if you are feeling tongue tied and there's a knot at the tip of your tongue trapping the words, sit back and watch how other people are talking! It's a short study period and will help you considerably in your method of approaching a conversation. Once you can see what people enjoy talking about, it`s easy to rejoin the conversation. 3. If it doesn't make sense then don't say it! Half the time you get tongue tied, this feeling comes as you are talking nonsense that really is not relevant to anyone! Make sure that the words are necessary and that the topic needs to be addressed. Just by following this simple method of untying your tongue you will maintain an audience of listeners.