3. One of the quickest ways to let someone know you are not interested in them is to make "me" statements. Avoid any form of a "me" statement, within those first few moments of an interaction because they can send the message that the other person is not the center of your interests. If the other person perceives that they are not the center of your interests they could possibly think that you don't like them. Additionally, if you are talking about you it will be impossible to show the other person that you like them.