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Interviewing each other


Aim: That the participants get to know one another better.

Time: 2 minutes to explain, 5 minutes for the interview and 15 minutes to present each other, depending on size of group.

Material: Nothing special needed

The interview

1. The group divides into pairs with someone they do not know since earlier, or a person in the group they have spoken with least. The participants have five minutes in which to learn as much as possible about a person

2. Tell the participants to change interview person and when the interview should be finished.

3. Each then presents their partner for the whole group.
Alternative:

Give a list of questions to the participants to discuss, such as:



  • When I enjoy life most…..

  • A present I remember……

  • A person I would like to meet, dead or alive, and what I would like to say/do, with her/him…..

  • My first love….

  • My future dream job ……

  • If I could rule the world for a day…..

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Training in values and judgement.


Aim: Active values exercises were introduced in Sweden by Dr John Steinberg PhD in the 70s and have been used in many contexts.

The aim of values training is according to Katrin Byreus is that participants:




  • Be aware of their thoughts and commit themselves.

  • Voice their opinions.

  • Motivate their position.

  • Be listened to and listen to others.

The more direct aim during a course can be:

A warm up and induce the participants own thoughts around the subject. Create a climate of free speech where everyone’s opinions are welcome and worth listening to.
The hot seat, stand in line and the four corners are examples of values exercises.

Time. Ca 15 – 45 minutes, depending on how many statements or questions asked and the discussion eagerness of the participants.
Programme

Explain and show how the exercise works. Explain that there is no right or wrong. The participants interpret questions in their own way. The object is to produce as many different opinions as possible.

The participants are not allowed to interrupt one another. Everyone can say what they want to say and it is alright to change your opinion.
Begin with a warm up question which is easy to commit themselves to.
When you are leading the exercise, remember to ask the individuals opinion. Do not ask what everyone thinks. Ask for example “Can you motivate why you chose to stand in this corner”?

Treat everyone’s opinions equally. As leader, do not pass any comments such as “that was well said”, or “that was speaking before thinking”. All opinions which are given are treated equally, irrespective of your personal opinion of the question is.

Stop comments. Prevent participants interrupting each other or making comments when someone else is speaking. Remind them that the important thing is producing different opinions, not winning a discussion.

Spread the word. Make sure that different people

Get the chance to speak so that no one person dominates the discussion. Assign questions directly for example “Eric, why did you choose to say…..”? Show that you as the trainer listen to what the participants say.
A Tip: If the group is shy or think that the statements are difficult it can be easier to get opinions from the participants if they discus in smaller groups of two or three.

Listen to what each little group discussed. If there are different opinions in the little groups make sure they are made known.


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The hot seat


Programme

The participants each have their own chair, on which they sit in a ring. There is one empty chair. The trainer makes statements to which the participants commit themselves either by sitting still or changing chairs. The statements are formulated in such a way that the only possible answer is yes or no.


The participant who agrees with a statement stands up. To give more movement to the exercise those who agree change places.
Those who do not agree sit still.
Those not wishing to show their opinion also sit still.

When the participants have committed themselves they must then motivate their opinion. Take one opinion group at a time. When only one or two participants are still sitting or changing place let them explain themselves.


Warm up statements might be:

It would be nice to live abroad for a while.

Vanilla ice-cream tastes better than chocolate ice- cream.

Morning is the worst part of the day.


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The termometer


Programme

The trainer makes a statement and asks the participants to stand on a line/scale/”thermometer” in relation to how much they agree with the statement or not.

The participants stand on the line which acts as a scale/ thermometer where they agree more or less with the different extremes. You can allow those standing nearest to one another to discuss their choice. Participant at different places on the line have to motivate why they are standing where they are. When those who wish to, have motivated their position, they will hear the next statement.

Money is the meaning of life…

agree * * * disagree

completely completely

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The same statement as was used for the Hot Seat can be used.


Statements of values

About conflict management, non-violence and civil disobedience, for the Hot Seat or the thermometer. Here are some examples of statements of values regarding nonviolence and conflict management and the relationship of the two.

The trainer makes a statement which the group commit themselves to. For example: Men are more violent than women! The participants place themselves along the line in relation to their opinion. When everyone is in place, the trainer asks individuals why they are standing where they are. (Or are sitting in the hot seat).

This often leads to interesting discussions in which the trainer steers the discussion and assigns speakers. If during the discussion participants wish to change places this is quite alright.


Suggestions for Statements

  • Conflicts are tiresome.

  • I do not have conflicts.

  • I am frightened of conflicts.

  • Conflicts are exciting.

  • Conflicts are often unnecessary.

  • Conflicts can always be solved, if you want to.

  • There are conflicts in all relationships.

  • Conflicts can sometimes be good.

  • Violence is always wrong.

  • Violence can sometimes be necessary

  • Conflict management can sometimes be violent

  • Conflict management needs to be trained.

  • It is right to use violence to defend:

  • Your land, yourself, your property, your family

  • Obedience is good

  • Sometimes it is right to start a war.

  • Sometimes a conflict must get worse before it can get better.

  • It is better to be passive when one sees injustice than to use violence.

  • I would rather suffer myself than hurt others.

  • If one has tried all other means the violence must be permitted to achieve a political goal.

  • Conflicts should be avoided/ solved/ taken up/ prevented.

  • It is possible to defend a land just as well with non-violence strategies as with weapons.

  • Human beings can learn to manage conflict without violence.

  • Jesus would never have used violence.

  • It is often religion which is the cause of war.

  • For non-violence to succeed you have to convert your opponents heart.

  • Non-violence is more effective in a less violent environment than a very violent environment.

  • My attitude of nonviolence is dependant on my development as a spiritual person.

  • It is an act of peace to sabotage a weapon.

  • The good in humans is greater than the evil.

  • It is an act of violence to stand passive while we see human beings suffering in other countries.

  • Violence stems mostly from fear.

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Perhaps you see yourself as an educator, perhaps you would prefer to call yourself a process leader, coach, pedagogue, mentor or trainer. Whatever you wish to call yourself is of less importance when working with this material. For the sake of simplicity we have chosen the expression “trainer”.


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