Alcoholics Anonymous Beginners & Refresher Class Sessions Prepared by Mike & Kathy L, West Orange, NJ
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We can also use the Absolutes when we have an important decision to make or even a not so important decision for that matter. For example,
if I’m faced with a decision that I don’t
know the immediate answer to Ican test it against the Four Absolutes. I can ask myself if I do Will it be TRUE or FALSE (Absolutely
Honest)?
• Will it be about YOU or ME or how will it affect other people involved (Absolutely
Unselfish)?
• Will it be RIGHT or WRONG (Absolutely
Pure)?
• And will it be about FEAR or FAITH or is it UGLY or BEAUTIFUL
(Absolutely
Loving)?”
If
my decision passes all four Absolutes,
then it is believed to beGod’s Will for me and therefore the right thing to do. If the decision
“falls short of even one of the Absolutes then it’s probably a decision based on self will and will probably later place me in a position to be hurt. If I make my decision based on self will rather than God’s Will,
which
the Four Absolutes follow, then I’m setting myself up to act out on at least one of the defects described in Step 10:
selfish, dishonest,Share with your friends: