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Name: Tom City, Country: Temecula Sent: 8.42 PM - 12/14 2001 To Brian from Durban: Brain, I'm so glad Ramon made a report on his visit with you! I'm glad we got to get to visit with you some more. May I give you some advice? As long as you BELIEVE you are not a good cook, that will be the Truth, as it sounds like it is from Ramon's report. I had heard that "teaching" from several sources before I strated to apply it. Here's my story: I used to be very bad at remembering people's names. That's not an uncommon "failing," and I would frequently say "I'm not very good at remembering names," as is also very common. Well, one time shortly after I had again heard that wisdom about "what you believe is what you'll get" (or some version of that truth), I heard myself telling someone "I'm no good at remembering names" after I'd forgotten their name. I realized that I had a BELIEF that I was no good at remembering names. Now I don't know where the belief came from, but it sure was true. I decided, however, that it was "just a belief" and being "just a belief" I could change it. I started going around my house saying "I'm really good at remembering people's names." I'd say it in the mirror. I'd ham it up and strut around bragging about how good I was at remembering names. Of course it was a bold-faced lie at the time, but after only a few weeks of it, I started to say it to others. "I'm good at remembering names." I noticed that people would inevitably be surprised to hear me say that, because it is so common for people to say (obviously to believe also) the opposite. The outcome is that with very little effort, other than changing my belief, I AM now very good at remembering people's names!!!! (I didn't have to take any memory course or develop some esoteric neumonic(sp?) system for remembering names). So, my advice is to stop BELIEVING that you are a bad cook and stop SAYING it. I promise if you do, your cooking will improve without you needing to enroll in cooking school. If you WANT to be a good cook, then also start saying "I'm a good cook!!" or even "I'm a GREAT cook!", but just stopping believing you are a bad cook will lead to improvements (unless you WANT to be a bad cook, unless your identity and ego is somehow wrapped up in being and being known as a bad cook). Bon Appetit! Tom
I hadn't been keeping up with the message board for quite some time. After posting my comments about your encounter with Olav your first day in Spain I scrolled back to read a few messages and picked up Brian's nice mention of me as a "balanced" person,which led me back to the Chuck Reese and GI Joe "controversies." The message and tone of GI Joe's letter does reflect, I believe, an all-too-common sentiment/mentality in the U.S. There are, as Brian points out, many people in the U.S. who are "balanced" and who do not share such attitudes. Ramon, I do hope you'll make it to the U.S. even if we are still "at war." (We're not really At War). Maybe your presence and influence would help to counter the bellicose and aggressively self-righteous hostility of the GI Joes in the U.S. As far as commenting on Chuck Reese, he obviously is not capable of appreciating your creativity and courage and self-discipline --- i.e. he doesn't "get it." Certainly at least 95% of the message-givers on your board do get how awesome you are to be doing this. Hey, and the controveries (like Olav and GI Joe) are cool too, because they do stir things up. As a writer, you have probably already heard that any writing, even non-fiction, needs to have CONFLICT to make interesting reading. I admire you for not shying away from conflict, like, as one little example, your comments about Iberia airlines, and as a bigger example, your "discussion" with Olav. Have Fun, Ramon. Tom
Dear Ramon: I wanted to kick that as*hole Olav. YOu are amazing and I certianly can imagine how difficult it can get for you with no time off, having to deal with so many different personalities. I hope your weekend off was helpful to you. It sounded like Olav was trying to get you to justify yourself and your awesome project. I'm sure I don't really need to tell you this, but maybe it will be supportive: YOU HAVE NO NEED TO JUSTIFY YOURSELF OR YOUR ACTIONS TO ANYONE, unless you are harming them in some way or interfering with their freedom OR they are paying you (i.e. as your boss or client). Certainly Olav doesn't fall into any of those categories. I admire you for being able to hold your own and stand up for yourself in what sounds like a very unnpleasant encounter AND getting over it, as it sounds like you did at the end. Have fun in Spain. I hope the rest of your hosts will not provide as difficult encounters as your first host. Tom
Name: Coralie City, Country: England Sent: 5.17 PM - 12/14 2001 Hi Ramon
Sincere wishes for a great Birthday .... Hugs Coralie
Name: Joao Paglione City, Country: New york City, New york Sent: 9.56 PM - 12/13 2001 Goede tag Ramon! Hope you are having fun in Spain because it is freezing cold and foggy in New York. Don't forget to find yourself in ANDALUCIA, the best part of Spain without a doubt. Maybe you might get to visit www.donlorenzo.com - The reincarnation of Hemingway who took over a small peasant village. He is Brilliant, yo! Take care and be careful with those tricky spaniards! just kidding, they are wonderful and warm people..
...i guess you liked my haircut suggestion
Name: James City, Country: Lisbon, Portugal Sent: 3.38 PM - 12/13 2001 I am amazed with this. It's very funny and still an excellent idea. Why didn't I have it?! Welcome to Lisbon some day. J
Name: Veru City, Country: Rome, Italy Sent: 12.19 PM - 12/13 2001 Hy,
Name: Karen City, Country: London, UK Sent: 9.35 AM - 12/13 2001 Ramon, wonder what the haircut could be...
Name: Gregory City, Country: Belgium Antwerp Sent: 7.53 AM - 12/13 2001 Ramon!!! you r nuts!!! BUT I LOVE IT!!!!! Keep it up and be carefull on the road... Greetz from Belgium!!! Gregory
Sent: 12.31 AM - 12/13 2001 Should Ramon get himself a new haircut on his birthday on December 20? Answer the question in the poll, go: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lmsfad
Name: Salomé City, Country: South Africa Sent: 8.11 PM - 12/12 2001 Good Bye Ramon! I am glad you got to see most of South Africa. I got to see some beautiful places her in my own country, thanks to you. I am looking forward to the reports from Spain. I hope you get ALOT of invites :-) -cheers
Name: Jeannine Corkery City, Country: Dartmouth, Nova Scotia Sent: 3.49 PM - 12/12 2001 Hi Ramon. Thanks to the CBC I was able to listen-in on your conversation with Arthur Black. Your story of adventure is truly inspiring. I noticed on your website that you have been invited to Newfoundland. You must know that Newfoundlanders are some of the BEST people in Canada. So friendly and hospitable. Nova Scotia isn't that far from NF so you must come for a visit. We ain't that bad either. All the best to you. Be safe. Jeannine
Name: Munk Sent: 4.35 PM - 12/11 2001 Sooooooo, Spain it is. Did you meet Sinterklaas yet. He must be exhausted after all those days in Holland... Watch out for the sack his helpers are carrying, there's some nasty SOB's in there.
Name: Natalie Labelle City, Country: Vancouver, Canada Sent: 6.54 AM - 12/11 2001 As a Canadian, I just wanted to say Ramon, that Chuck Reece's comment does not represent the opinion of those of us thousands of frisky, fun-loving Canadians. He's just sour grapes and doesn't know how to live a little. Or a lot, in your case. If you come to Vancouver, you're more than welcome to stay at my place. I wish you all the best in your travels,
Yes, Chuck Reece has started a spot of controversy. However, is Ramon's messageboard the right place for this? Also, irrespective of the definition of "dead-beat", it conjures up a negative image. This world has enough negativity all over, and it is not necessary, or even desirable, to introduce more. Specifically, Ramon is one of the most positive and forward-thinking people I've met. Since Chuck has not actually met him, it is a little unfair to pass such judgement over him, by suggestion or directly. Even if you don't like someone, for whatever reason it may be, you should still respect that person, for they are only human, like the rest of us. We all have wonderful attributes, and we all have terrible attributes too. Accept people for who they are. With fewer thoughts of conflict, and more thoughts of harmony, this world will be even better than it already is. Living in South Africa, I'm sure that I'm allowed to say that. Fair?
May Ramon continue to teach us about ourselves. Keep well Brian
hehe, i agree with Renee, Chuck is pretty funny. What a better way to start up a little "controversy" on the message board. What is the true definition of a deadbeat anyway??? :) Ramon, safe trip to Spain. Please have some paella for me and visit my favorite cathedral in all the world in Malaga. :) (if you have time)
Hi Ramon, I had a look at the Russian link you were posted, but sadly my ability in Russian is worse than minimal. It's an article about your travels, and about "how you don't want to pay" to see the world. The rest of it is probably putting that in context, and as I say, my understanding is fragmentary at best. I've passed it into my friend Natasha, and I'll let you know what she says about it. Spain will, I have no doubt, be amazing. Wonderful to stay somewhere warm for Christmas! I'll be stuck in rainy old Dublin, but we will definitely raise a glass of the black stuff in your honour. All the best, Jim
Name: Lin MacDonald City, Country: New Brunswick, Canada Sent: 10.40 AM - 12/10 2001 Hi Ramon - heard you talking to Arthur Black on CBC radio today. Very interesting project uou have undertaken. You would be welcome to stay at my place for a day and I'll show you around Fredericton, New Brunswick - one of Canada's ten provinces. You must come to Canada - we're very friendly here.
Name: Renee Groeninx City, Country: MIlton Keynes, UK Sent: 10.39 AM - 12/10 2001 Chuck, you're funny. Where is your humour guys and gals? Renee
Name: Karen City, Country: London, UK Sent: 9.41 AM - 12/10 2001 Chuck Reece in Canada needs to get a life! Ramon, looks like you are more then welcome in Canada after your interview on CBC, fingers crossed for a sponsored flight! Hope you arrived save and sound in Spain!
Name: Brian City, Country: Durban, South Africa Sent: 6.19 AM - 12/10 2001 Hi Ramon
Just to reply to Chuck Reece in Canada. Yes, he is probably right. Shame, I pity the real Canadians, having to put up with dead-beats like him. Perhaps he is right, you probably don't want to stay with dead-beats, Reece being their leader. Jeez! Wake up! With all the problems in South Africa, we can still be positive. Canada can't be so bad. Methinks Reece needs a wake up call, or a deportation, though I can't think who would want him! That aside, Ramon, I trust that you had an enjoyable, and interesting, stay in our country. I hope that you feel welcome to return here for a holiday. Even if you never actually get here, you are welcome back. Enjoy Spain, and where-ever next you venture. Keep well, and keep up the exceptional quality of your journalism. We are fascinated, and captivated, by your stories. All the best, and hamba kahle Brian
Name: Pam DeMonte City, Country: Sudbury, Ontario, Canada Sent: 8.11 PM - 12/9 2001 Hello Ramon: This is the first opportunity I've had to send an e-mail after hearing your conversation with Arthur Black yesterday on CBC Radio. I should like to say that you'd be more than welcome to stay a day with my husband and myself here in Northern Ontario. If you happen to be here during the summer months there are beaches, canoeing, fishing etc. available. In wintertime, skiing, skating, snowboarding, ice fishing etc. Normally by now we have plenty of snow, but we've only had one substantial snowfall so far which has since disappeared with warmer than usual weather. Here's hoping you have a wonderful time in Spain and all your subsequent "ports of call". Good luck to you, have a happy birthday and an even happier Christmas wherever you may be.
Name: Nelmarie (ex host) City, Country: Bredasdorp, SOUTH AFRICA Sent: 6.45 PM - 12/9 2001 Ramon, I hope you'll have good memories of our country, and that you will be back for a holiday in the future. Thanks again for the opportunity to meet you. It was a visit we will treasure forever. Have a safe trip. I hope you'll have a joyfull Christmas day with nice hosts, and have a great new year's eve party. Take care...
Name: Annemarie Tissen City, Country: Alford, Scotland Sent: 6.44 PM - 12/9 2001 Ramon. I think you lost quite a bit of weight since we last met! South Africa, you should have fed him pancakes every now and then! Cheers Ramon still enjoying your big adventure. Take Care. Annemarie
Name: pam City, Country: chicago, USA Sent: 4.50 PM - 12/9 2001 I tried emailing but it was returned since you do not accept emails from 'yahoo.com' over foreign mailservers. Do you have any other email address to email to? Pam_daly@yahoo.com
Name: Carol Souliere City, Country: Edmonton, Alberta, Canada Sent: 12.22 PM - 12/9 2001 Hey Ramon, I just heard your interview on CBC Radio - Basic Black. I want to commend you for your courage and creativity. I'm a believer in that too. I've lived some of my dreams - lived in Banff, the Canadian Rockies; lived in Hong Kong; went to school in US and Canada. Anyway, it would be great to meet you and swap some stories. I am a teacher, pastor and sometime singer/songwriter. Live life to the fullest! Enjoy your travels!
Hi Ramon, I just heard the interview with you on Canada's Basic Black Show, one of my favourites. It sounds as though you are having a terrific time. Should you ever visit Victoria, Canada, you would be welcome to stay with us. My 17-year old son, Peter, has the wanderlust too and would be a good companion for you in our city as he knows everything about it. I will introduce him to your site when he gets home.
Name: Chuck Reece Sent: 12.08 PM - 12/9 2001 Ramon,
We have enough deadbeats in this country. Stay somewhere else. Chuck, a Canadian "Be like a postage stamp... stick to one thing until you get there" (reece45@rogers.com)
Name: Donatella Gazzoni City, Country: Milan, Italy Sent: 11.47 AM - 12/9 2001 Hello Ramon! If I'm not wrong, tomorrow you'll be in Spain.. YOU LUCKY!! I'll read you reports from Madrid and I'll have the sensation of being there (..as the ancient writers did..). I visited Spain twice in summer (Costa Brava)and I just want to give you 2 advices (maybe common): - if possible, visit the "Park Guell" in Barcelona: it has the longest bench in the world, all made of mosaics (amazing colours!); - it's a bit hard to be reached, but visit Cadaquès (is just at the border Spain/France): is a small and cosy fishermen village,where the painter Dalì used to live in the 60'. I guess you're already too busy with other places.. but, above all, eat the PAELLA (that's why I began my message sayin' "you lucky"!). Wish you well. CIAO! Donatella
Name: Elena City, Country: Russia, now Korea, Seoul Sent: 11.19 AM - 12/9 2001 Hello, Ramon You've asked about the link to russian site http://www.cnews.ru/funs/2001/12/06/20011206110215.shtml There is an article about you and your trip and there is a link to the site. All the information is taken from this website and there is no special comments.
Name: Patti Evans City, Country: Kelowna, BC, Canada Sent: 9.07 PM - 12/8 2001 Ramon,
Hope to see you in the new year! Have a great birthday, Patti
Name: Philip Veer City, Country: Beaconsfield, Quebec,Canada Sent: 7.08 PM - 12/8 2001 Dear Ramon, It was a pleasure to here you on the CBC Radio this morning. I know you will be in Canada sometime in the future. My wife and I will be honoured to be your host. You have also been invited to visit somebody in Chateaugay,Quebec. I will take you there, as it is not too far from Beaconsfield.So far I have been in 10 countries in Europe, Africa and North America. I am planning to go to 3 countries in Asia soon.I have really experienced LOVE and Frienship in the world. Thank you for being a great messenger of LOVE and PEACE in the world.Good luck!and remember that you are just at the beginning of a long journey! I am sure that you will find something really AMAZING in the end and that you will share it with all of us! Let the light be with you! PHILIP
Hi Ramon, I heard about you on Basic Black this morning. Very interesting. I have invited yopu to join us here whenever you are iout this way. I am originally from Holland but have lives here 44 years. When you are traveling in Canada visit the Public Libraries which they have in most cities and villages. Most of them also have Internet hookup and e-mail checking which at most libraries you can do at no charge. Marathon Is located on the top of beautiful Lake Superior and we will be happy to show you around. If you need any help with your trip in Canada please feel free to call me and will do what I can. Doei
Name: Miville City, Country: Saint John, Canada Sent: 5.08 PM - 12/8 2001 Dear Ramon, I heard about your project on Basic Black (CBC Radio)this morning. I admire your trust in Nature and in Human Nature. You won't be disappointed. As you sow. so shall you reap. Take good care of yourself. Rest well and travel comfortably. Your are a precious ambassador of World Peace. When you come to Canada we hope to be your host for a day. Come and have a merry time in the Maritimes. Janice bakes a cake to die for! How about a nice walk and talk on Mispec Beach? Enjoy!
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