holiday,
Bill Wilson passed a fitful night. A lifelong smoker, he had been fighting
emphysema for years, and now he was losing the battle. Nurse James
Dannenberg
was on duty in the last hour before dawn. At 6:10 a.m. on Christmas morning,
according to Dannenberg's notes, the man who sobered up millions "asked for
three shots of whiskey."
He was quite upset when he didn't get them, Cheever writes.
Wilson asked for booze again about a week later, on Jan. 2, 1971.
And on Jan. 8.
And on Jan. 14.
"My blood ran cold," Cheever said recently of the discovery. "I was shocked
and
horrified." With time to ponder, though, she found herself thinking, "Of
course
he wanted a drink. He was the one who talked about sobriety being 'a daily
remission.' I realized that this was a story about the power of alcohol:
that
even Bill Wilson, the man who invented sobriety, who had 30-plus years
sober,
still wanted a drink."
In the Big Book, as AA's foundation text is known, Wilson recalled the time
in
1934 when doctors concluded that he was a hopeless drunk and told his wife
that
there was no cure, apart from the asylum or the grave. "They did not need to
tell me," he added. "I knew, and almost welcomed the idea."
On Jan. 24, 1971, the man known modestly to legions of alcoholics as "Bill
W."
was finally cured.
Powerless Over Alcohol
Cheever's discovery, reported in her book "My Name Is Bill," doesn't really
change what little we know about alcoholism, a cruel, confounding and
mysterious
disease. It doesn't really change what we know about Wilson, a rough-hewn
and
unorthodox American saint sketched by Cheever in all his chain-smoking,
womanizing, Ouija-board-reading, acid-tripping holiness.
But it might change, at least a bit, the way some of us think about miracles
--
the shelf life of miracles, the limited warranty they carry, and how
high-maintenance they are. Miracles come in Bill Wilson's story, but always
with
strings attached. They are a bequest -- but not like an annuity that pays
out
endlessly and effortlessly. More like an old mansion, precious and
beautiful,
but demanding endless, unglamorous upkeep.
The miracle of Wilson's sobriety -- and the birth of AA -- arrived like
something out of the Old Testament. It was 1934, late in the year, when the
doctors had given up on Bill. Booze, which once put its arm around his
shoulder,
now had its jaws around his throat. A smart, handsome, charming man, Wilson
had
become the kind of drunk who could set off one morning to play golf and
awaken a
day later outside his house, unsure how he got there, with his head bleeding
mysteriously and his unused clubs still at his side. "The more he decided
not to
drink," Cheever writes, "the more irresistible drink seemed to become."
So for the third time, Wilson checked himself into a private hospital in New
York that specialized in drying out "rum hounds," as he called himself. He
knew
what to expect: doses of barbiturates, assorted bitter herbs, castor oil and
other purgatives, vomiting, tremors and depression. He also knew it probably
would not work, that just about every hard case like him went back to
drinking
after being discharged.
The prospect was so dismal that Wilson picked up a few bottles of beer for
the
cab ride.
Wilson had a friend named Ebby Thatcher, another alcoholic, who had a friend
named Roland Hazard, yet another drunk, who was wealthy enough to seek help
from
the eminent psychiatrist Carl Jung in Switzerland. When Jung realized how
serious Hazard's drinking problem was, he told his patient that the only
hope
was a religious conversion -- in Jung's experience, nothing else worked. The
American psychologist William James had arrived at a similar conclusion,
declaring in "The Varieties of Religious Experience" that "the only cure for
dipsomania is religiomania."
Well, by God, Hazard got religion and sobered up, for a while. He preached
this
approach to Thatcher, and Thatcher in turn proselytized Wilson.
"I was in favor of practically everything he had to say except one thing,"
Wilson later recalled of his conversations with Thatcher. "I was not in
favor of
God."
After a couple of days at Towns Hospital, Bill Wilson was past the d.t.'s
and
feeling really low. Science could do nothing for him. He now realized that
he
couldn't kick the booze by himself. Yet he was unable to believe in the only
power experts knew of to save a drunk.
Then:
"Like a child crying out in the dark, I said, 'If there is a Father, if
there is
a God, will he show himself?' And the place lit up in a great glare, a
wondrous
white light. Then I began to have images, in the mind's eyes, so to speak,
and
one came in which I seemed to see myself standing on a mountain and a great
clean wind was blowing, and this blowing at first went around and then it
seemed
to go through me. And then the ecstasy redoubled and I found myself
exclaiming,
'I am a free man! So this is the God of the preachers!' And little by little
the
ecstasy subsided and I found myself in a new world of consciousness."
Wilson never had another drink.
Carry This Message
Brimming with vision and new consciousness, Wilson blew back into the
familiar
world as if everything had changed -- not just for him, but for all of
creation.
He bragged that he was going to save every drunk in the world. He went
scavenging for men to preach to, finding them in missions and hospitals and
jails and among his own drinking buddies. Some of his targets thought he
sounded
an awful lot like the Bible-brandishing temperance ladies he had rebelled
against as a young man. He discovered that many alcoholics were "not in
favor of
God" -- God was an authority figure and drunks don't deal well with
authority.
"This doesn't work," he despaired to his wife, Lois. She reminded him that
he
was keeping at least one drunk sober -- himself.
But within months, even that project was at risk. Having been blinded like
Saul
on the road to Damascus, he now had his sight back and -- as often happens
to
the miraculously enlightened -- was discovering little by little that he was
much the same as before.
Tempted while on a business trip in Akron, Ohio, Wilson fought off the
bottle by
cold-calling churches from the hotel directory in search of a drunk to help.
One
call led him to an alcoholic surgeon named Bob Smith. Initially, Smith
objected
to being saved -- this was after one of those sad-but-hilarious tales that
give
a sort of rosy glow to a truly savage disease: Wilson's first scheduled
encounter with Smith was called off after the doctor staggered home blotto
carrying an enormous potted plant for no discernible reason. He deposited
the
non sequitur before his bewildered wife, then passed out.
The next day, when they finally met, Wilson answered Smith's reluctance by
saying that he wasn't there for Smith, he was there for Bill Wilson. This
was a
key insight in the development of AA -- the realization that helping another
drunk is key to staying sober oneself. It reflected Wilson's new humility
about
his wondrous white light and great clean wind. Before, he was trying to work
miracles in the lives of others. Now, he was just trying to maintain the
miracle
in his own.
And it worked. After one relapse, Smith, who had been drinking even longer
and
harder than Wilson, got sober. Bill W. and Dr. Bob shared the story of their
recoveries with more drunks in this same spirit. Some of those men and women
got
sober themselves, and reached out to still others. And so on, down through
the
years and out around the planet to the largely anonymous millions of today,
who
range from celebrities to legislators to schoolteachers to busboys, from a
former first lady to the businessman striding down the sidewalk to the
desperate
soul working on a second sober sunrise. AA is now so widespread and well
known
that creators of the children's movie "Finding Nemo" could playfully include
a
12-step meeting for fish-addicted sharks, confident that every parent in the
global reach of Disney would get the joke.
It's impossible to know exactly how many people have tried AA, how many
stayed
sober, how many attend meetings and how often. The group is not only
anonymous,
it is non-hierarchical, nondenominational, non-centralized, nonpartisan.
According to the Twelve Traditions that govern AA, there is no requirement
for
membership except a desire to stop drinking, and the group endorses no cause
apart from that one. All it takes to convene an AA meeting is two alcoholics
who
feel like talking, and the tone of the meetings is as varied as the people
who
choose to attend. Group consensus rules in all things, so in any good-size
city
there are smoking meetings and nonsmoking meetings, meetings for early
risers
and for night owls, meetings mostly populated by long-timers and meetings
more
oriented to the newly sober.
The 12 Steps and decentralized structure have proved so effective and
popular
that other groups have copied the template for dealing with other problems:
Narcotics Anonymous, Gamblers Anonymous, Overeaters Anonymous and so forth.
But
AA has never branched out. Getting and staying sober has been labor enough.
Unlike many spiritual visionaries, Wilson came to understand "that when he
heard
the voice of God, it was often just the voice of Bill Wilson," as Cheever
puts
it. And so, in the now-famous catechism that he created, AA members are
pledged
simply to turn their will and lives over to "the care of God as we
understood
him," with italics right there in the Big Book. Prospective converts are
often
assured that they may take as their God the nearest radiator if that's what
works for them. Almighty God with the white beard, or a gentle breeze in the
treetops, or the sublime engineering of a molecule, or the vastness of
space, or
the love of friends, or the power of the AA meeting itself: Choose your own
Infinite.
Whatever works.
In the can-do land of the bottom line, even our spirituality tends to be
results-oriented.
But the language of AA plays provocatively with a simple word: "work." In
one
sense, sobriety is something that just happens, much like Wilson's great
clean
wind. It is a gift from the Higher Power to the alcoholic. At the same time,
"work" means work, as in tangible, sometimes even grudging, effort. In the
early
days, Bill W. and Dr. Bob would sit in the Smith parlor refining their
drunk-saving techniques, and often Smith's wife, Anne, read aloud from the
Bible. They were partial to the Epistle of James, which reminded them that
"faith without works is dead." AA members speak of "working the steps," and
many
meetings end with the affirmation that "it works if you work it."
This means returning again and again to the state of mind and the exercises
that
constitute the upkeep on each miracle of sobriety. Beginning with the
admission
that they are powerless over alcohol and continuing through labors of
humility,
repentance, meditation and service, AA members maintain the dam that holds
back
the obliterating tide of booze from their lives.
A Friend of Bill W.
Cheever is a forthright woman with a big laugh and no immediately obvious
illusions, a hard-working writer who publishes books like clockwork, pens a
column for Newsday and teaches at Bennington College. She decided to write
about
Wilson because "I loved him. I loved how he changed the world without
knowing
it, just as a way to stop drinking himself. I loved his Yankeeness," by
which
she seems to mean a range of qualities, from the Emersonian flinty optimism,
to
the unsentimental practicality, to the hovering dark clouds and the weirdo
seances, which she calls his "table-tapping after dark."
No doubt she also loved Wilson for the fact that his miracle, worked and
reworked through the long chain of drunks, touched her own family, late in
the
life of her father, the short-story artist John Cheever. Booze was the
lubricant
of Cheever's masterpieces. He was the poet laureate of postwar suburbia, in
which hope, striving, lust and angst were all refracted through the bottom
of a
cocktail glass.
But what was symbol and atmosphere in his stories was toxic in John
Cheever's
life, as his daughter explained in her acclaimed memoirs "Home Before Dark,"
and
booze washed into Susan Cheever's life as well. In her book "Note Found in a
Bottle," she recalls learning to mix a martini by the age of 6, and doing
plenty
of drinking as an adult. Susan Cheever now speaks of her father's AA years
as an
amazing gift to the whole family, not a gift of bliss so much as a gift of
simple reality. When a drunk enters the unreal world of his illness, he
takes
his family and friends with him.
Her homage to the family benefactor is pro-Wilson but not hagiographic. "I
like
to take saints and make them into people," she explains. She touches the
spiritual bases in her portrait of Wilson, but seems more moved by the
concrete
elements. Over lunch at a Manhattan bistro, she recalls her first visit to
Wilson's boyhood home in East Dorset, Vt., not far from the Bennington
campus.
Cheever noticed the low ceiling of the stairway leading to Wilson's room,
and
caught a glimpse in her mind's eyes, so to speak, of the gangly boy having
to
duck his head each time he passed.
"And I was him," for that moment, she says. "I understood what it was to be
a
depressed 10-year-old boy trapped in that house" after his parents had
abandoned
him to his remote and austere grandparents.
It's not easy making a spiritual figure compelling and real without slipping
into iconoclasm. Cheever's approach is to apply a writerly version of
Wilson's
humility. She gets the goods on his serial adultery, for instance, but
declines
to make too much of it. "He was engaged to Lois when he was 18 -- hello!"
Cheever says. "They were married 53 years. All we really know is that they
were
friends through an amazing life. He was a good-enough husband."
Likewise, she can look into Wilson's LSD experiment with proto-hippie Aldous
Huxley without getting mired in a puritanical inquisition into whether this
constituted a "slip" in his sobriety or hypocrisy in his creed.
This attitude allows Cheever to see that Wilson's inconsistencies and quirks
weren't blemishes on his record -- they were the essence of a flawed man who
was
endlessly seeking what works. "Again and again, his intuitions were wrong,"
Cheever says. "But he wasn't interested in problems. He was interested in
solutions." Most of the key traditions of AA operations, including its
independence, anonymity and governance-by-consensus, ran counter to Wilson's
personal disposition. "He wanted fame and fortune, but somehow was able to
figure out that AA would have to be a group in which nobody represents it,
nobody speaks for it and nobody's in charge of it."
Sobering Reality
The striking thing about Wilson's story -- which only settles in upon
reflection
-- is how hard his life was even after he sobered up.
What, really, had that bright light and clean wind changed? He and Lois
remained
penniless, even homeless, for years. Sometimes it seemed that AA was
determined
to keep him poor forever. He had a chance to cash in by allying his message
with
a particular hospital, but his fledgling flock forbade him to do it. He
harbored
hope that John D. Rockefeller Jr. would lavish money on him, but instead
Rockefeller came through with a tiny stipend. Alcoholics Anonymous struggled
for
six long and underwhelming years before catching its crucial break: a
glowing
article in the Saturday Evening Post.
Then, as the group flourished, Wilson was attacked by jealous colleagues and
abandoned by old friends. He sank into a crushing depression, and "often
just
sat for hours with his head on the desk or with his head in his hands,"
Cheever
writes. "When he raised his head, he was sometimes weeping." Wilson liked
children but was childless. Cigarettes were killing him but he couldn't stop
smoking.
He wrote of "being swamped with guilt and self-loathing . . . often getting
a
misshapen and painful pleasure out of it."
It was enough to drive a man to drink.
Yet for 36-plus years of this troubled and very human life, he was able to
resist that next drink. Perhaps the most efficacious miracles are the small
ones. And because "his mind was the right lens" and his will was "the right
machine," in Cheever's words, for mass-producing that limited but crucial
victory, Bill Wilson's miracle keeps working, one person and one day at a
time.
© 2004 The Washington Post Company
Of Alcoholics Anonymous founder Bill Wilson, Cheever says, "He changed the
world
without knowing it, just as a way to stop drinking himself." (Helayne
Seidman
For The Washington Post)
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++++Message 1788. . . . . . . . . . . . Re: One Solitary Voice by Jack B...any
info.?
From: Jim K. . . . . . . . . . . . . 5/6/2004 7:25:00 AM
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Jack B got sober in 1942 in the southern Westchester county area
just north of New York City. Before relocating to Perth, Australia
in the late 1970s, he was associated with "The Cops and Robbers" of
Westchester AA [oldtimers from the era of 1950-80 in Westchester]
and notably at the Sobriety Unlimited Group on Gramatan Avenue in
Mt. Vernon, NY. As an aside: this group keeps a fully decorated
Christmas tree in the meeting room 365 days per year. Sobriety is
like Christmas everyday! It never stops giving!
Jack was well known for his emphasis on the physical aspects of our
disease which is chronicled in his pamphlet published in 1968 - "One
Solitary Voice". He used to go to area meetings with a contraption
known as "The Monster". Roughly it was a representation of the body,
it's organs, and the physical interrelations between the alcohol
intake in an alcoholic and the effect it has on the brain and body
of an alcoholic.
Jack passed in the mid 1980's if I recall correctly. He was a good
friend of my mom's [Margette Grandy/Hartzell (deceased) of Maryknoll
Group] and of Jim B. of Lincolndale.
I still have photocopies of "One Solitary Voice", [someone made off
with the original sometime ago] which I pass on to newcomers as it
helps to explain the physical dimension of alcoholism which isn't
discussed in many meetings these days.
Glenn K. Audiotapes of Long Island has a recording of Jack at the
Blackstone Retreat.
Jim K.
The Into Action Group
Manhattan, NY
--- In AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com, "wbmscm"
wrote:
> Does anyone have any information on a gentlemen by the name of
Jack
> B. who wrote a publication called "One Solitary Voice"?
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++++Message 1801. . . . . . . . . . . . Chip system, etc. -- Compilation
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This is a compilation of previous posts which have been deleted.
Nancy
From: "pete_geilich"
Date: Thu May 6, 2004 3:00 pm
Subject: Chip System
How did this system come about, and is it practiced world wide?
From: Ken Ring
Date: Sat May 8, 2004 8:28 pm
Subject: Re: Chip System
I don't claim that I have authenticated all of the statements
included in the following, but it has been accepted locally for
quite some time. From our archives collection.
MEDALLIONS
In 1965, a Wendell's employee, "Bill," joined AA. Bill gave
numerous talks at Mission Farms and detention centers in
Minneapolis and surrounding areas. He began handing out bronze
medallions with the Serenity Prayer on one side and two large
A's on the reverse. Everyone wanted a medallion!
Bill then got the idea that all AA members should have a
medallion to carry in their pocket or purse, to constantly
remind them of their hard won sobrietyÅ but the medallions
should be just for that person-so, somehow it has to say how
long he/she has been soberÅ it had to be easily distinguished
from pocket change, thus, the raised center medallion was born.
The first versions of the medallion were actually two pieces-the
medallion was struck, then the center was soldered on. This
worked, but the medallions began to sell in such great numbers,
Wendells couldn't keep up with the demand. At that time, coining
dies were made and they used insert dies in the center with the
Roman numeral engraved and when the medallion was struck, it
gave them a one-piece medallion that could be made in one
operation.
The raised center medallion was introduced in November of 1973
at the Founders Group weekend at the Leamington Hotel in
Minneapolis. The response was outstanding. A mailing went out to
all the Intergroups and Central Offices in the United States and
Canada. Wendell's has had to make various changes in the
medallion at the request of AA World Services (they deleted the
two A's). Without a doubt, the raised center medallion has been
used by more recovering people than any one item, aside from the
Big Book, used in recovery, and it all came to be because of one
member who recognized the need for "reassurance" and was
fortunate enough to be employed by a coining mint.
In many parts of the country, or the world for that matter, have
their own traditional ways of recognizing sobriety birthdays.
Some offer "pins" to be worn on the lapels of jackets (remember
them)?
Others simply have a cake, much like a real birthday
celebration, to be shared in the group. And there are certainly
combinations of all of these and further adornments that show
the support of family, group and fellowship.
In some locales, recognition is in increments of months, years
or sets of years-every five years-in others it is much more
personal and not brought before the group at all and between
sponsor and sponsee.
Ken Ring, Dist. 18 Archives Committee Chair
Archivist/Historian Alano Society of Minneapolis, Inc. "2218"
From: "Robert Stonebraker"
Date: Sun May 9, 2004 1:15 am
Subject: RE: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: Chip System
Could someone please give me the history of celebration
of sobriety. I have not been able to find this in the
BB.
Here is a post on this subject I saved for history
Lovers:
Chips, Medallions and Birthdays
The traditions of chips, medallions and birthdays vary
in different parts of the country and I thought it
would be interesting to look up some of the history on
them.
Sister lgnatia, the nun who helped Dr. Bob get the
hospitalization program started at St. Thomas Hospital
in Akron was the first person to use medallions in
AlcoholicsAnonymous. She gave the drunks who were
leaving St. Thomas after a five day dry out a Sacred
Heart Medallion and instructed them that the acceptance
of the medallion signified a commitment to God, to A.A.
and to recovery and that if they were going to drink,
they had a responsibility to return the medallion to
her before drinking.
The sacred heart badges had been used prior to A.A. by
the Father Matthew Temperance Movement of the 1840s and
the Pioneers an Irish Temperance Movement of the 1890s.
The practice of sobriety chips in A.A. started with a
Group in Elmira, N.Y. in 1947 and has grown from there.
The celebration of birthdays came from the Oxford Group
where they celebrated the anniversary of their
spiritual rebirth. As we have a problem with honesty,
A.A. chose the anniversary of the date of our last
drink.
Early celebrations of birthdays resulted in people
getting drunk and Dr. Harry Tiebout was asked to look
at the problem and he commented on this phenomenon in
an articled titled "When the Big "I" Becomes Nobody",
(AAGV, Sept. 65)
"Early on in A.A., I was consulted about a serious
problem plaguing the local group. The practice of
celebrating a year’s sobriety with a birthday cake
had resulted in a certain number of the members getting
drunk within a short period after the celebration. It
seemed apparent that some could not stand prosperity. I
was asked to settle between birthday cakes or no
birthday cakes. Characteristically, I begged off, not
from shyness but from ignorance. Some three or four
years later, A.A. furnished me the answer. The group no
longer had such a problem because, as one member said,
"We celebrate still, but a year’s sobriety is now a
dime a dozen. No one gets much of a kick out of that
anymore."
The AAGV carried many articles on chips and cakes and
the following is a brief summary of some.
Feb. 1948, Why All the Congratulations? "When we start
taking bows (even on anniversaries) we bow ourselves
right into the cuspidor."
July, 1948. Group To Give Oscar for Anniversaries.
The Larchmont Group of Larchmont, N.Y. gives a cast
bronze camel mounted on a mahogany base to celebrate
1st., 5th and 10th anniversaries.
"The camel is wholly emblematic of the purposes of most
sincere A.A.s, i.e., to live for 24 hours without a
drink."
August 1948. The Artesta, N.Mex. Group awards marbles
to all members. If you are caught without your marbles,
you are fined 25 cents. This money goes into the
Foundation Fund.
June 1953, We operate a poker chip club in the Portland
Group (Maine). We have poker chips of nine colors of
which the white represents the probation period of one
month. If he keeps his white chip for one month he is
presented with a red chip for one month's sobriety.
The chips continue with blue for two months, black for
three, green for four, transparent blue for five, amber
for six, transparent purple for nine months and a
transparent clear chip for one year. We have our chips
stamped with gold A.A. letters.
Also at the end of the year and each year thereafter,
we present them with a group birthday card signed by
all members present at the meeting.
January 1955, Charlotte, N.C. "When a man takes "The
Long Walk" at the end of a meeting, to pick up a white
chip, he is admitting to his fellow men that he has
finally accepted the precepts of A.A. and is beginning
his sobriety. At the end of three months he exchanges
his white chip for a red one. Later, a handsome,
translucent chip of amber indicates that this new
member has enjoyed six months of a new way of life. The
nine month chip is a clear seagreen and a blue chip is
given for the first year of sobriety. In some groups a
sponsor will present his friend with an engraved silver
chip, at the end of five years clear thinking and clean
living.
March 1956, The One Ton Poker Chip. Alton, Illinois.
Author gave friend a chip on his first day eight years
ago (1948) and told him to accept it in the spirit of
group membership and that if he wanted to drink to
throw the chip away before starting drinking.
October 1956, Bangor Washington. Article about a woman
who sits in a bar to drink the bartender sees her white
chips and asks what it is. She tells him. He throws her
out as he does not want an alcoholic in his bar. She
calls friend.
April 1957, Cape Cod, Mass. Group recognizes 1st, 5th
and 15th anniversaries. Person celebrating leads
meeting. Person is presented with a set of wooden
carved plaques with the slogans.
July 1957, New Brunswick, Canada. Birthday Board.
Member contributes one dollar for each year of sobriety
July 1957, Oregon. Person is asked to speak and is
introduced by his or her sponsor. The wife, mother,
sister or other relative brings up a cake. The Group
sings Happy Birthday. The wife gives a two or three
minute talk.
April 1959, Patterson, N.J. People are asked to give
"three month pin talks."
And that's a little bit of info on chips, cakes and
medallions.
From: "Robert Stonebraker"
Date: Sun May 9, 2004 1:33 am
Subject: RE: [AAHistoryLovers] Re: Chip System
In 1975, when I first came to AA in the Los
Angeles area of Southern California, this was
the custom:
· No beginner's chip was given, but you had to
hold up your hand if you had less than 30 days
sober.
· Then embossed poker chips on chains were
given: White for 30 days, Red for 3 months, Blue
for 6 months, and Yellow for 9 months. They had
“God grant me the serenity†stamped on the
back.
· It was the custom to carry all these
accumulated tokens till you got one year.
· No tokens were given for number of years, but
there was always a birthday cake and singing of
“Happy Birthday.†Followed by singing
“Keep coming back.†Then the candles were
blown out.
· This custom was still in effect at some of
the meetings I attended out there last year.
Bob S., now from Indiana
From: "Kimball Rowe"
>
Date: Sat May 8, 2004 7:52 pm
Subject: Re: [AAHistoryLovers] Chip System
The "chip" system used in Germany consisted
of poker chips and pie pans (originally).
They used poker chips with 5 colors, white,
green, red, yellow and blue. They were given
for beginners, 2 months, 3 months, and 6
months. There was no 9 month chip, and there
was no 18 month chip. Metal chips started at
one year.
SURRENDER - The white chip was called the
surrender chip since the international color
for surrender is white. It was given to all
new comers (1-30 days). It is said that if
you chose not to surrender, then the white
could stand for the color of the sheet that
they cover you dead body with.
GO - The green chip was called the "GO" chip
since green is the international color for
go. It was given at 30 days and implied that
the owner should GO to more meeting, GO get
a big book, GO read your big book, GO take a
step, GO get into service, GO get into
action, etc. It is said that if you don't
take these simple suggestions that green
could also symbolize the color of your liver
as they perform the autopsy.
STOP - The red chip was called the "STOP"
chip since red is the international color
for stop. It was given at two months and
meant for us to STOP our stinking thinking,
to STOP using our character defects, STOP
taking others inventory, STOP ducking
responsibility, etc. It is said that if you
persisted in your old ways, then perhaps red
could be the color of your windshield as you
are ejected from the car in an alcohol
related car accident.
CAUTION - The yellow chip was called the
"CAUTION" chip since yellow is the
international color for caution. It was
given at three months because at three
months a member knows just enough about
sobriety to be dangerous, so CAUTION is the
watch word. It is said that if you do not
practice caution during this time that the
color yellow could reflect the color of your
eyes as jaundice sets in.
SERENITY - The blue chip was called the
"SERENITY" chip, as it resembles the color
of the a peaceful sky. It was given at six
months. It is said that if you don't do what
it takes to achieve serenity that the color
blue could refer to the emotional state of
your loved ones as you disappear into an
alcoholic oblivion.
After the plastic chips, a disc of aluminum
was cut our of an aluminum pie pan and the
number of your sobriety year was stamped
onto the soft aluminum. The aluminum chips
have since been replaced by "store-bought"
metal chips with anniversary years on them.
Kim R.
From: "Gerry Silver" [67] >
Date: Sun May 9, 2004 9:37 am
Subject: Fw: Chip System
I read with interest the comments of Ed Ring
re Medallions, and that they first surfaced
in the Minneapolis area in 1965.
In the early 1950's a Group in Brandon,
Manitoba, Canada began using copper chips to
recognize years of sobriety. They were
almost as large as a large penny (for those
who remember what a large penny looked
like), they were blank and then stamped with
the members initials and the number of years
of sobriety. A number of these early chips
are
hanging on the wall of the Wheat City Group
in Brandon today.
In the mid 1950's, groups in Winnipeg,
Manitoba began to use a heavy copper oval
medallion about 1½" x 1". There was a
raised AA on one side, and the flat reverse
was used to engrave the members' name (with
last initial), dry date, and group name.
This type of medallion soon became widely
used in Western Canada.
I still have my first medallion from 1959,
although can't find it this minute.
Gerry Silver
From: "wilfried antheunis"
[68] >
Date: Sun May 9, 2004 3:37 pm
Subject: Re: [AAHistoryLovers] Fw: Chip System
[69]
From:.The History of A.A. in Ontario:
The medallion as we know It today was thought
of and designed by Tom G. the acting manager
of our A.A. Toronto Office in April 1946.
Little could he have known that his simple
idea would come to mean so much to so many In
such a short time.
From: "Jim K."
Date: Mon May 10, 2004 12:46 pm
Subject: Re: Fw: Chip System
In a twist on the chip system Long Islanders
once had the following tradition:
When there was still smoking in meetings on
Long Island, and in particular in Suffolk
County, people were issued lighters at their
first anniversary. A Zippo with your
sobriety date and your name and a single
star. With each subsequent year a new star
was added. Some would also bear a slogan of
the member's choice.
Non-smokers, few indeed back in the 70's and
80's, were given a
medallion.
Then the meetings went non-smoking, as
did I.
Jim K
The Into Action Group
Manhattan, NY
And I would add to the above, that I was
told in New
York in 1965 -- where we then did not have
chips, only a cake on the first anniversary
-- that some sponsors
gave a marble to their sponsees, telling the
sponsee to carry it in his pocket and throw
it away if he decided to take a drink. "Then
you will have lost
all your marbles."
Nancy
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The following is a compilation of previous posts. No
further posts on this subject will be approved.
Nancy
From: "David G."
Date: Sun May 9, 2004 9:40 pm
Subject: Principles Meditation Card
[72]
Good Day All,
While attending an AA Area function, I purchased a
meditation card, from a vendor, which listed "The
Principles of the Program."
Step One-Honest
Step Two-Hope
Step Three-Faith
Step Four-Courage
Step Five-Integrity
Step Six-Willingness
Step Seven-Humility
Step Eight-Brotherly Love
Step Nine-Justice
Step Ten-Perseverance
Step Eleven-Spiritual awareness
Step Twelve-Service
I've seen these around for years and usually buy some
to just pass along.
Does anyone know where and/or when these originated?
Thanks, Respectfully,
David G.
Illinois-USA
From: "Kimball Rowe"
Date: Mon May 10, 2004 8:28 am
Subject: Re: [AAHistoryLovers] Principles Meditation
Card
I have a card like that, that has the principles on one
side and the gifts on the other. The gifts were
received as the result of taking the step.
The Gifts
Step 1 - Willingness - As willing to listen as a dying
man can be.
Step 2 - Open-Mindedness - All you really need is a
truly open mind.
Step 3 - Honesty - Turning our will and lives over to
the care of God, we lose our reason to lie.
Step 4 - Truth - The truth we must now share with our
God and another human being.
Step 5 - Humility - We gained a genuine humility, a
recognition of who and what we are, followed by a
sincere attempt to become what we could be.
Step - 6 - Spiritual Growth - We begin to grow in the
image and likeness of our Creator.
Step 7 - Unselfishness - We stand ready to make amends
and serve others.
Step 8 - Forgiveness - Forgiveness of others makes step
nine possible.
Step 9 - Freedom - Freedom of others, of our past and
of ourselves. Free to seek God in the steps that
follow.
Step 10 - Sanity - We will react normally, even where
alcohol is concerned.
Step 11 - Strength - Sufficient strength to help
others.
Step 12 - Recovery.
If anyone knows where the gifts come from that would be
appreciated too!
From: "J. Lobdell"
Date: Mon May 10, 2004 9:21 am
Subject: RE: [AAHistoryLovers] Principles Meditation
Card
[75]
They originated with a Texas Intergroup sometime around
1951, I think -- there's a copy of the original
Intergroup sheet/flyer/whatever in the Archives in NYC.
They are not GSO literature, and as they date from the
time when the Conference had been established, they are
at most local AA literature. So far as I know "practice
these principles" in Step 12 is intended to refer to
the Steps. -- Jared Lobdell
From: "wilfried antheunis"
Date: Mon May 10, 2004 11:19 am
Subject: Re: [AAHistoryLovers] Principles Meditation
Card
They have been around forever plus a day. The
principles vary from various to other cards. A list I
have dated February 2000 has the following variances;
8. Self-discipline
9. Love
The Big Book uses the word Principle 36 times.
USE OF THE WORD PRINCIPLE IN THE BIG BOOK
Here are the 36 instances of "principle" in the Big
Book.
1 & 2) As we discovered the principles by which the
individual alcoholic could live, so we had to evolve
principles by which the A.A. groups and A.A. as a whole
could survive and function effectively. [Big Book, page
xix, lines 8 & 9]
3) Though none of these principles had the force of
rules or laws, they had become so widely accepted by
1950 that they were confirmed by our first
International Conference held at Cleveland. [Big Book,
page xix, line 27]
4) The basic principles of the A.A. program, it
appears, hold good for individuals with many different
life-styles, just as the program has brought recovery
to those of many different nationalities. [Big Book,
page xxii, line 13]
5) My friend had emphasized the absolute necessity of
demonstrating these principles in all my affairs. [Big
Book, page 14, line 29]
6) We feel elimination of our drinking is but a
beginning. A much more important demonstration of our
principles lies before us in our respective homes,
occupations and affairs. [Big Book, page 19, line 7]
7) Quite as important was the discovery that spiritual
principles would solve all my problems. [Big Book, page
42, line 32]
8) That was great news to us, for we had assumed we
could not make use of spiritual principles unless we
accepted many things on faith which seemed difficult to
believe. [Big Book, page 47, line 23]
9) 12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result
of these steps, we tried to carry this message to
alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our
affairs. [Big Book, page 60, line 3]
10) No one among us has been able to maintain anything
like perfect adherence to these principles. [Big Book,
page 60, line 8]
11) The principles we have set down are guides to
progress. We claim spiritual progress rather than
spiritual perfection. [Big Book, page 60, line 9]
12) We listed people, institutions or principles with
whom we were angry. We asked ourselves why we were
angry. [Big Book, page 64, line 30]
13) Although these reparations take innumerable forms,
there are some general principles which we find
guiding. [Big Book, page 79, line 6]
14) Unless one's family expresses a desire to live upon
spiritual principles we think we ought not to urge
them. [Big Book, page 83, line 13]
15) If not members of religious bodies, we sometimes
select and memorize a few set prayers which emphasize
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