Spiritual Preparation
As you prepare to guide participants in developing multicultural consciousness and practices, remember that your congregation has entrusted you with leadership of this program not only to foster the participants' spiritual growth. The goal of this program is to encourage the entire congregation's spiritual growth through developing multicultural competence and beginning or deepening its life as a multicultural, antiracist, welcoming congregation. Hold your congregation and its leaders, both lay and professional, in thought and/or prayer. What are your visions, dreams, and intentions for your congregation and for its leadership?
Welcoming and Entering
Materials for Activity
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Sign-in sheet and pen or pencil
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Name tags for participants (durable or single-use) and bold markers
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Optional: Music and player
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Optional: Snacks and beverages
Preparation for Activity
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Arrange chairs in a circle and set out name tags and markers on a table.
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Optional: Play music softly in the background.
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Optional: Set out snacks and beverages.
Description of Activity
Greet participants as they arrive.
Opening (10 minutes)
Materials for Activity
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Worship table or designated space
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Chalice, candle and lighter or LED battery-operated candle
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Participant evaluations from previous workshop
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List of this workshop's Goals
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Covenant established in Workshop 1
Preparation for Activity
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Review participant evaluations from the previous workshop. Discuss with your co-facilitators any patterns or concerns that have emerged. Prepare to briefly share feedback with the group, while keeping confidentiality.
Description of Activity
Light the chalice or invite a participant to light it while you read aloud the 2006 General Assembly Responsive Resolution, written by a GA delegate in response to reports of Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) of Congregation officers at GA 2006 as well as events affecting Unitarian Universalist communities of Color, especially youth, at the 2005 and 2006 General Assemblies:
Resolved, that the Delegates to General Assembly are charged to work with their congregations to hold at least one program over the next year to address racism or classism, and to report on that program at next year's General Assembly.
Share feedback from the previous workshop evaluations. Acknowledge shared patterns and observations to give participants a sense of how people in the group were thinking and feeling about the program at that time.
Remind participants of the spirit of their covenant and invite them to reaffirm their agreement to abide by it.
Share this workshop's goal.
Activity 1: Moving Toward Multicultural Competence (15 minutes)
Materials for Activity
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Handout 1, Path toward a Multiracial, Multicultural Congregation (included in this document)
Preparation for Activity
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Copy Handout 1, Path toward a Multiracial, Multicultural Congregation for all participants.
Description of Activity
Distribute the handout. Invite comments, observations, questions, and discussion. As you wrap up the discussion, weave in the following concluding points:
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This is the process this workshop group has undertaken as a learning community.
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We must engage the congregation in developing new ways of being with each other that allow these practices to take root and flourish.
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The next step in our workshop process is to develop consciousness and skills to help us engage and support the congregation, so it can move toward becoming a multiracial, multicultural congregation and sustain that motion over time.
Activity 2: Challenges of Building Multicultural Communities (20 minutes)
Materials for Activity
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Leader Resource 1, The Bridge Poem (included in this document)
Preparation for Activity
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Print Leader Resource 1, The Bridge Poem and practice reading it aloud. Or, recruit a volunteer to read the poem aloud and give it to them so they can practice. The reading of the poem should be full of emotion.
Description of Activity
Read "The Bridge Poem" aloud or have a volunteer do so. Invite participants to share a minute of silent reflection. Then invite responses to the poem, using these questions as a guide:
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Why is Rushin, the poet, tired?
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What challenges and promises does the poem raise?
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What types of multicultural competencies are needed to respond to her plight?
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How would you minister to Rushin as a member of your congregation?
Activity 3: Developing Multicultural Competence through Skits (65 minutes)
Materials for Activity
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Newsprint, markers, and tape
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Reflection group assignments (Workshop 2)
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Workshop 14, Handout 3, Multicultural Competence Worksheet (included in this document)
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Handout 2, Procedure for Creating a Skit (included in this document)
Preparation for Activity
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Copy the Multicultural Competence Worksheet (Workshop 14, Handout 3) and Handout 2, Procedure for Creating a Skit.
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Review the reflection group assignments you established for Workshop 2 and make any needed changes or form new groups based on the guidelines in the program Introduction. List members of the reflection groups on newsprint and post. Under each list, write one of the following practices that build multicultural competence:
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Develop personal cultural awareness of groups/people who are not like you
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Acquire specific knowledge about individuals and groups from other cultures and affiliations
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Maintain a receptive attitude and openness to all forms of diversity
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Cultivate a passion for multicultural settings and intercultural engagement.
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Arrange appropriate spaces for reflection groups to meet—in different rooms, if possible, to avoid the natural tendency to eavesdrop on other conversations.
Description of Activity
Distribute Workshop 14, Handout 3 and call attention to the reflection group lists you have posted. Explain the activity using these or similar words:
Each reflection group is invited to focus on one practice which builds multicultural competence and create a skit where this practice (or lack of it) comes to life.
Distribute Handout 2, Procedure for Creating a Skit, and invite reflection groups to work together to create skits. Allow 20 minutes for this part of the activity.
Invite each group to present its skit to the large group. Invite the audience to view the skit with an eye toward learning something about the practice or skill. After each skit is presented, ask these questions:
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What happened?
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Was the skill used well, or not?
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What alternative strategies might be used?
After all skits have been presented, lead a discussion with these questions:
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What did you learn about these skills and competencies?
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How can we weave these understandings into our congregational life?
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How can these skills be incorporated into our spiritual, personal and professional lives?
Closing (10 minutes)
Materials for Activity
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Lined paper, pens, and pencils
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Taking It Home
Preparation for Activity
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Write on newsprint, and post:
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What are you learning?
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What are you curious about?
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What powerful ideas, concerns, puzzlements do you want the facilitators to know about?
Description of Activity
Invite participants to spend five minutes writing feedback in response to the question you have posted on newsprint.
Distribute Taking It Home. Invite participants to consider opportunities and practical strategies for building multicultural competence and to make a list of those possibilities.
Offer these closing words from Seneca:
It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.
Extinguish the chalice.
Leader Reflection and Planning
Take a few moments right after the workshop to ask each other:
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What went well?
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What didn't? Why?
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What do you think was the best moment of the workshop? Why?
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Did anything surprise you?
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Do we need to make any changes in the way we work together?
Taking It Home
Wherever I go this year, leaders are telling me stories of what their congregations are doing to address issues of race and class. From film series to book groups to newly formed congregational task forces to deal with issues of oppression, the actions of UU congregations tell me that the 2006 responsive resolution [on race and class] was speaking to a real hunger in congregational life. This is a good time to build understanding and acquire competencies that UU congregations require to become truly inclusive communities. — Gini Courter, Moderator of the Unitarian Universalist Association.
Find out if members or leaders in your congregation were aware of the 2006 General Assembly responsive resolution:
Resolved, that the Delegates to General Assembly are charged to work with their congregations to hold at least one program over the next year to address racism or classism, and to report on that program at next year's General Assembly.
If so, how did the congregation respond to the charge?
In the year to come, what will you do to bring your learning from these workshops to your congregation? Together with other workshop participants, meet with the adult faith development or programming committee, the minister, and/or other appropriate congregational leaders to plan what you will do.
Handout 1: Path Toward a Multiracial, Multicultural Congregation
Participate in Cross-Cultural or Multicultural Conversations
Create opportunities to learn about and engage others in conversations across differences.
Live Multiculturally
Be aware and competent in talking about racial, ethnic, or cultural differences. Create policies and practices to guide your congregation to live as a single community.
Be Open to Ongoing Change
Move beyond tolerating difference; open yourself up to being changed through experiences and practices that are deepened and enriched by engaging racial, ethnic, or cultural "others."
Handout 2: Procedure for Creating Your Skit
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Choose a timekeeper to keep the group on task. You will have 20 minutes to create your skit
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Invite each person in your small reflection group to share a personal experience where the multicultural skill or practice was absent or well done. Limit yourselves to a brief, one-minute story.
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Choose the story that best exemplifies the multicultural skill/practice and can best accommodate all the members of your group in a skit.
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Create a skit that lasts no more than three minutes. It should focus on a specific problem (not multiple issues that are complicated and difficult to discern). Ask the question, "Is this skit believable?"
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Make the skit action-packed: Move! Gesture! Demonstrate!
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Practice the skit once, from beginning to end.
Leader Resource 1: The Bridge Poem
"The Bridge Poem" by Donna Kate Rushin from The Black Back-Ups: Poetry by Kate Rushin (Ann Arbor, MI: Firebrand Books, 1993). Permission pending.
I've had enough.
I'm sick of seeing and touching
both side of things.
Sick of being the damn bridge for everybody.
Nobody can talk to anybody without me. Right?
I explain my mother to my father my father to my little sister my littler sister to my brother my brother to the White Feminists the White Feminists to the Black Church Folks the Black Church folks to the ex-Hippies the ex-Hippies to the Black Separatists the Black Separatists to the Artists the Artists to the parents of
my
friends.
Then I've got to explain myself
to everybody.
I do more translating than the U.N.
Forget it.
I'm sick of filling in your gaps.
Sick of being your insurance against
the isolation of your self-imposed limitations.
Sick of being the crazy at your Holiday Dinners.
The odd one at your Sunday Brunches.
I am sick of being the sole Black friend to
thirty-four Individual White folks.
Find another connection to the rest of the world.
Something else to make you legitimate.
Some other way to be political and hip.
I will not be the bridge to your womanhood
Your manhood
Your human-ness
I'm sick of reminding you not to
close off too tight for too long
Sick of mediating with your worst self
on behalf of your better selves
Sick of having to remind you
to breathe before you
suffocate your own fool self.
Forget it.
Stretch or drown.
Evolve or die.
You see
it's like this:
The bridge I must be
is the bridge to my own power.
I must translate
my own fears.
Mediate
my own weaknesses.
I must be the bridge to nowhere
but my own true self.
It's only then
I can be
Useful.
Find Out More
The UUA Multicultural Growth & Witness staff group offers resources, curricula, trainings, and tools to help Unitarian Universalist congregations and leaders engage in the work of antiracism, antioppression, and multiculturalism. Visit www.uua.org/multicultural (at www.uua.org/multicultural) or email multicultural @ uua.org (at mailto:multicultural@uua.org) to learn more.
Introduction
The second kind of (multicultural) community consists of a time and place where these different monocultural communities can encounter each other in true dialogue. This requires the leaders of the communities to be intentional about drawing culturally diverse people together. — Eric H. F. Law, in The Wolf Shall Dwell with the Lamb
This workshop and Workshop 18 move participants from an internal focus on themselves and the congregation to a focus on the larger community. As recommended in the program Introduction, invitations and arrangements for guests from the community should have been made weeks in advance. Though some Building the World We Dream About field test congregations reported that they successfully organized panels that involved people from the congregation, we recommend inviting people who are not congregation members to talk with the workshop group about issues concerning antiracism, multiculturalism, and inclusion.
Be aware that some feedback about the congregation may be difficult for participants to hear. Remind participants that this is an opportunity to learn new things about their congregation and forge relationships of trust and accountability with the larger community.
The activities in this workshop are a launching place for discussion. A subsequent workshop, Workshop 19, gives participants the opportunity to make meaning out of what they learn during this workshop and apply those lessons to congregational life. At this juncture, the goals are to hear the missing voices in your midst and to gain new insight(s).
Before leading this workshop, review the accessibility guidelines in the program Introduction under Integrating All Participants. Make sure you take food allergies and sensitivities into account when planning the post-worship refreshments.
Goals
This workshop will:
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Offer an intentional process for reaching out to various constituencies in the wider community to develop an informed understanding of the issues, gifts, and challenges of living multiculturally.
Learning Objectives
Participants will:
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Gain knowledge of the perspectives of People of Color and other people marginalized by racial or ethnic identity who live in the community surrounding the congregation.
Workshop-at-a-Glance
Activity
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Minutes
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Welcoming and Entering
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0
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Opening
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10
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Activity 1: Filling the Void of Missing Voices
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75
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Activity 2: Prepare for Workshop 18 Field Trip
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5
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Closing
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30
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Alternate Activity 1: Photographs from Missing Voices
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75
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Spiritual Preparation
Prepare yourself for the presence of guests in your workshop by reflecting on the relationship you have built with each guest. Prepare yourself for the possibility that participants may hear authentic feedback and opinions they are unaccustomed to hearing from People of Color and other people marginalized by racial or ethnic identity. Practice meditation or centering prayer to keep your own anxiety and tension at bay, expressing gratitude for the willingness of your guests to share their voices and experiences with your group.
Welcoming and Entering
Materials for Activity
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Sign-in sheet and pen or pencil
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Name tags for participants (durable or single-use) and bold markers
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Optional: Music and player
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Optional: Snacks and beverages
Preparation for Activity
-
Arrange chairs in a circle and set out name tags and markers on a table.
-
Optional: Play music softly in the background.
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Optional: Set out snacks and beverages.
Description of Activity
Greet participants as they arrive.
Opening (10 minutes)
Materials for Activity
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Worship table or designated space
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Chalice, candle and lighter or LED battery-operated candle
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Leader Resource 1, Kindness (included in this document)
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Participant evaluations from previous workshop
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List of this workshop's Goals
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Covenant established in Workshop 1
Preparation for Activity
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Review participant evaluations from the previous workshop. Discuss with your co-facilitators any patterns or concerns that have emerged. Prepare to briefly share feedback with the group, while keeping confidentiality.
Description of Activity
Light the chalice or invite a participant to light it while you read aloud Leader Resource 1, Kindness.
Share feedback from the previous workshop evaluations. Acknowledge shared patterns and observations to give participants a sense of how people in the group were thinking and feeling about the program at that time.
Remind participants of the spirit of their covenant and invite them to reaffirm their agreement to abide by it.
Share the goals of this workshop.
Activity 1: Filling the Void of Missing Voices (75 minutes)
Materials for Activity
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Participant journals
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Lined paper and pens/pencils
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Handout 1, The State of Racial/Ethnic Relations at _____ [name of your congregation] (included in this document)
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Optional: Newsprint, markers, and tape
Preparation for Activity
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As explained in the program Introduction, build relationships with people in your faith community who identify as People of Color and other people marginalized by racial or ethnic identity. Invite the people you want to serve as guest panelists, well before for this workshop.
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At least two or three weeks prior to the workshop, give panelists Handout 1, The State of Racial/Ethnic Relations at _____ [name of your congregation]. Invite panelists to come prepared to share their responses to some or all of the categories and to offer as many examples as possible. Build safety for your panelists by affirming that the group is ready to hear "tough truths" that often go unsaid.
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Copy Handout 1,The State of Racial/Ethnic Relations at _____ [name of your congregation]
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Optional: If your congregation has so few people from marginalized racial or ethnic groups that this conversation might be awkward or seems inappropriate, broaden the conversation by including people from beyond your congregational walls who belong to marginalized racial or ethnic groups in your community. NOTE: If your panelists will come from outside the congregation, rephrase Handout 1, The State of Racial/Ethnic Relations at _____ [name of your congregation] so the statements reflect the broader context of your community or municipality. For example, instead of focusing on how persons in the congregation "are represented in positions of power and authority," consider that issue as it relates to your town.
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Optional: Provide participants with the prompt questions suggested below, as a handout or posted on newsprint.
Description of Activity
This activity invites "missing voices" to offer their perspective about the status and experience of People of Color and other people marginalized by racial or ethnic identity in the context of the congregation and/or community.
Distribute Handout 1, The State of Racial/Ethnic Relations at _____ [name of your congregation].
Invite panelists to share their responses to the handout, giving examples as they go along. Panelists might respond to each statement on the handout about which they have an opinion. Ask participants to hold their questions until the end of the panelists' presentations; invite and encourage them to jot down their burning questions. This practice will ensure that invited guests have time to share their thoughts. Include the "Practice of Silence" during your panel presentation: Ask panelists and workshop participants to sit in silence for a moment after each presentation to provide a space to reflect on the words shared.
After all panelists have presented, invite questions from workshop participants. Ensure that questions from workshop participants are questions that come from a place of curiosity and "invitation to learn" as opposed to arguing the validity of a person's experience. Be ready to intervene if questions become inappropriate. Encourage participants to consider the source of their doubt ("Why is this response troubling me?") if a statement or response strikes them as unexpected, odd, or irrational. You might offer these prompts to help participants frame questions for the panelists:
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What would happen if . . . ?
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Why do you think that happened?
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What would you like to see being done differently?
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What have you learned about racism that you think we should learn?
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Which is most important... A, B, or C?
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How did that experience challenge or affirm you?
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What key insight would you want us to walk away with?
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What will it take for people who share your experiences and perspectives to thrive in this setting?
Close the discussion, inviting participants to journal for 5-10 minutes. Suggest they identify questions they would like to pursue further. Make paper and pen available to your invited guests.
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