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I was hit by this. Anyway, In life, it's always delightful to see something built - we become jocund, ululate, give our gap-toothed grins, and walk in the air. It's great after all. But we often forget the people that made it happen, and we don't give a shit about what they went through to make it happen.

You might be a talker, and your friend might know everything about you, but come on, let’s be veracious - he doesn't really know what's happening behind the closed door. You didn't really like his millionth draft of that novella, still don’t fuckin like going to that same coffee shop with him every single day - you're embroiled, you're feigning, and it is a horrible trudge. He is there the small-guy, telling you not to tell him that you'd rather have cupcakes than what he's giving you every single day because you don't like it - you might hurt his feelings. So many times, we are not afraid of the dark but the light. Folks like Joe Purdy know it - they really do. We are more afraid to tell a single truth than a thousand lies. Anyway, I think everyone is a sporadic scrubber. When you don't potter, scrounger, you scrub the rust-stains off a slothful stranger's wall until your fingers bleed and abraded. It's not a cushy job, but a deadlock.

If you don't do what he wants, remember he is bounderish, he'll will bridle at you, clutch your scruff with his hefty hirsute hand and stuck your popeyed face in a midden. Perhaps better than being clobbered. When we don't scrub a stranger's wall, then we scrub our own past - mortifying dirty walls. Nobody decides that they want be perfect in the present so they don't regret in the future. Or at least a few. I'm scrabbling this part, and I'm not trying to parry the important stuff I brought up, there's just a lot of things that can elude the writer - I can’t keep up with the lines forming in my head. But as I was saying, we are all scrubbers - we don't even wait for the nuts and bolts - we scrub our bungles and knavery. This is not Irish bull.

I don't care if you scour your wall openly or surreptitiously, a skirt that humped her teacher might think she's got clots of blood, but I don't think the most important thing is to get a scrub brush and begin scrubbing your flubs - besides, that will hold you back and you might recidivate - but it's to keep walking. When it comes to the small-guy in your head, it's more like a connection. Remember Harry Potter?: "But then you've got to close your mind!" said Hermione shrilly. "Harry, Dumbledore didn't want you to use that connection, he wanted you to shut it down, that's why you were supposed to use Occlumecy! Otherwise Voldemort can plant false images in your mind, remember-"

And that’s exactly what Old Nick wants, because his a bung - a brittle, underbred and wet blanket. Nevertheless, I don't think he is belligerent. I don't think he pine to dabble you in a scalding cauldron – precious Olivia Holt. After all, it's not enough, it doesn't make him happy. What gratify old Nick - to be veracious - is to put you in a coop stinging with blood, give you a knife, and impel you to hone it. And then invite the guy upstairs to watch you stab yourself to death with self-hatred, peevishness and diffidence. Old Nick has some game, as the basketball players say these days.

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At some point in time - mostly when we're lonely and dejected - we all want to know if we're valuable to anyone. But nobody can answer you with words, but actions. To be veracious, we don't want people to tell us that they care about us while their actions don’t actually bear witness. You shouldn't just say it - be prepared to do anything to show it.

As they reach their teenage years, withholding the truth becomes a form of control - hiding or omitting facts is a sign of rebellion against restriction and a way of challenging authority. More often than not, when kids and adolescents tell tall tales, it could be the result of modeling a caregivers behavior. Adults need to amend bad habits and be aware of how actions speaks louder than words. Parents may not be able to control every aspect of their child's behavior, but there's a lot you can do. Model good behavior by taking responsibility when you slip up - if you admit to making a mistake and apologize, your child will be willing to spill the beans when it's their turn. Moreover, whatever the nature of the deception, punishment is not always the right response. It is too superficial and doesn't address the underlying problem.

There are many things that can make you happy (Disney, French fries or smooching Carly Rose) but knowing that you're valuable to someone means the world - it's like having a scrumptious chocolate cupcake. In Tottenham Court Road, besotted and great-bellied folks that bar hop perpetually chin-wag about Xavi being divine, of course, no question about that. But here's a beer bottle: they always overlook the man behind the magic, Sergio. It's a thigh-slapper. But I think Sergio is the ram, magic and rampart behind Xavi. And the ram and rampart of the Christ was knowing the fact that even though the world hated him, he was valuable to the guy upstairs - it made him endure the pain of salvation.

I don't think there's anything that can be compared to living your life knowing that whatever you're going through, there is always someone out there that you mean a lot to him or her - you're a valuable mom, dad or friend. This is real freedom; real freedom is knowing so much that you're valuable to someone else, that you're celebrated and not tolerated.

If someone values you, he will put you first. Does that ring a bell? Yes! You know that person who always puts you first. Even though you may not know that particular person, but always know that you're valuable to someone. Even if you don't believe it, it's the truth. We are all valuable to someone. The truth is not the truth because you believe it, but the truth is the truth because it is the truth. Being valuable to someone means the world and knowing the person you are valuable to and getting together is love embrace. But knowing the person you're valuable to and not care a hang about that person is love disgrace.

To be valuable is not something to strive for because it will be fragile, and the moment you fag out and don’t endeavor anymore, then it’s all over. I think to value someone sometimes its orphic and unintentional. It can look intentional but isn't. It can take a memory, a meet-cute or spur-of-the-moment. To be valuable means having worth, or merit or value, and that's why to be valuable - be yourself. I know it's such a vague adage, threadbare, and irksome. But if you're yourself, then you won’t have to force it, strive for it, or ask for it. You don’t buy valuableness, it is priceless, and you don’t garner valuableness, it is spontaneous. There are no cheap-jacks or jerry-built shops that sell value. Think about it, Christ was valuable to God before the world even began. He simply valued Christ for who he is, not what he has done or what he will do. To be valuable to someone must not come from striving – that’s wussy.

I think the problem is not what you're doing but it's you trying to prove yourself. Something or someone worth to be valued doesn't strive. Sometimes valuableness is a deceptive thing, just like feelings. There’s a difference between being unworthy and feeling unworthy. Being unworthy simply means lacking value or merit while feeling worthy means having value and merit that you yourself don’t recognize.

Those little self-doubting, self-berating, judgmental things we see, think, feel and believe about ourselves are our worst enemies – they make us feel unworthy. That’s why in a long run, all you’re trying to be free of is your own ideologies, morals and emotions. Feelings are deceptive things. There is a difference between being unloved and feeling unloved. The reason why you feel unloved is because there are certain people who you want or expect them to love you but they don’t. Human beings have a vacancy that can only be filled with love, and the feeling of being unloved is not by being hated by everyone but it is being unloved by certain people whom you expect/want them to love you.

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The significant ground why children seem to have better relationships with their friends than most adults do - put on your seatbelt - is simply because children are open, caring and loving enough to do and behold little things in life. They genuinely merit a coronet. Old folks don't give a hoot, give them a good deal of different kinds of spice in containers and bottles, they'll probably end up poisoning the cutlet. But give it to Chef Ramsay; he'll zest it, soak it in marinade and it will emphatically be mouth-watering because he's a great cook. That's what children are when it comes to relationships - they know the right stuff (I think I like that one)

The reason why most people disregard doing little things is because they seem contrary to power and control. And what most people want these days is everyone to know that they're powerful and they're in control. Before you prognosticate, I genuinely promise that I'll not nitpick. Trust me. The real problem in the world these days are definitions. When Jesus came to the world, he redefined power not as merely authority, dominion and control, but submission. When it comes to power, what we do (or say) in life doesn't precisely define power, control and dominion. Hold it right there Bennedictus.

When Jesus came to earth, I'm sure you'll blithely concord with me: I cannot falter nor hem and haw because I'm sure as shooting that He said and did the unimaginable, anomalous and miraculous. But most people didn't really believe in him anyway. And the reason why is precisely what I told you before: what we say and do doesn't precisely define power, control and dominion. That's why in order for people to believe that he was really the messiah, Jesus had to display power, control and dominion not merely by what he "does" and "says", but how he REACTS. They crucified him, he later died, and they buried him. And waited to see if he will actually display power, control and dominion by reacting - rising from the dead and that’s exactly what he did. He is alive. Another thing about power is that if a nation is powerful, other nations will not actually fear what that nation does but how they will react if they do something to them. Makes sense?

When it comes to submission, it is exactly like courage because it is often displayed in the little things in life, for instance, surrendering. Submission is actually one of the most powerful things that display power. Because the Israelites rebelled and grieved the Holy Spirit, the Lord turned and became their enemy, and He fought against them (Isaiah 63:10) You see, the Holy Spirit was there even in the days of Abraham, he was there when the Lord led Israel out of Egypt. But the thing is, they didn't know him personally.

He was with them but he didn't live in them. The Bible says "They rebelled and grieved the Holy Spirit." The Israelites resisted control or authority of the Holy Spirit, and that means they didn't surrender to His will. They'd exhibited great independence in their own thought and action, and because they did, they grieved the Holy Spirit and God turned against them and became their enemy. We should trust in the LORD with all our hearts and lean not in our own understanding; in all our ways we should acknowledge the LORD, and he will make our paths straight. Kathryn Kuhlman once said, "It's not about your prayers. It's all about your surrender" In these days, I strongly believe that the LORD is seeking people who don't have any reputation - ones that will not be ashamed to surrender all to Jesus. When you decide to become a yielder, and not only once in your life, but in forever, then be prepared to be unnoted, unvalued and underestimated. But most importantly, be prepared to be truthful and obedient. A yielder is a person who is willing to surrender all to Jesus, including his title and reputation.

It's no longer about you, it's all about Him - His message, His way, wherever He sends, no matter the cost.

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Praise and worship is the most powerful force on earth because it was born in heaven. When you find true worship in the Church - it commingle into a corporate anointing, and it release' an atmosphere - a visitation moment from heaven. It ascends like sweet-smelling smoke, odoriferous to God's olfactory organ. Praise and worship is also the highest form of giving; When you give worship, God will eat it from your mouth, and when you give praise, God will dance on your beat. But the thing is - to be veracious - we’ve lost the ministry of praise and worship. I think it has become 'play' in the church - entertainment rather than worship. It has become frippery and trivial. I don't think the guy upstairs genuinely concur with this; worship is now Toll house cookies - yummy.

After all, he was the chief worship leader in heaven - praise and worship was created in him. He was the one making music in heaven, and the music in him made him shine with the glory of God. Old Nick knows the power of the presence of God; he knows the effect of the presence of God. Let me tell you: I respect Satan. Old Nick was a Cherub Thou art the anointed cherub that covereth¹. He was the one that covered the tree of life in the Garden of Eden Thou hast been in Eden the garden of God². Besides, he is full of wisdom Thus saith the Lord GOD; Thou sealest up the sum, full of wisdom, and perfect in beauty³, and he has more knowledge than the children of God Behold, thou art wiser than Daniel; there is no secret that they can hide from thee⁴. He even has the ability to change into the angel of light for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light⁵.

When God casted Old Nick down from heaven, He didn’t remove the power of worship in him - I don't think it was clemency though, but I'm cocksure God knew he will not mollycoddle its inhabitants - and that made him a powerful force on earth. I told you about him making music in heaven, look at the circular world - music is one of the most powerful forces on earth. You can promtly dash to your chamber and grab your IPod - you'll blithely trip the light fantastic or lean on the nook dolefully. It will arouse your inner peeler or Ludwig van Beethoven. So irresistible - it has a jinx that is virtually impossible to rebuff, you'll probably tap your hulky hirsute foot unintentionally because music is power.