(1978)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/17/2004 2:12:00 PM
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The theme of the Fifth World Service Meeting (1978) was 'Recovery, Unity,
Service - Worldwide.'' The keynote address on this theme by David P., delegate
from Columbia, was so brilliant it was not only acclaimed by his immediate
audience in Helsinki, Finland, it became a kind of minor classic as it was
reproduced and distributed widely in the Fellowship. It is reproduced in full
here:
'The event we now open is indeed wonderful. We have gathered because, in spite
of all our differences, we have something in common that binds us together
with strong ties. We have known the process of a painful sickness. We have
achieved, by the grace of God, a recovery which now allows us to live and to
love again. We are involved in the spirit of unity that gives us strength. We
are impelled by a desire to give service. We are the inheritors of the
Legacies of A.A.
'The astronomers speak about certain bodies in outer space which, having lost
their generating function, shrink slowly and inexorably, concentrating
themselves in such a way that they shrink to infinitesimal size, but acquire
an impressive gravity. They are the so-called 'black holes,'' of very small
volume, with terrific weight. Their density becomes so concentrated that a
gravitational vortex is formed around them, a ghostly and catastrophic hole
that devours everything that passes by; light and radio and energy waves are
absorbed and drawn by that irresistible whirlpool.
'The same thing happened in our alcoholic life. Emotional overload led to a
shrinking of our mentality. A gloomy emptiness surrounded us. A tremendous
storage of negative energy took place, aided by our own guilt and suffering.
The greater our emotional load, the smaller our spiritual dimension. The
greater the density of our selfishness, the shorter the scope of our horizons.
Black holes in the space of our lives were sinking and paralyzing our
willpower, our capacities, our dreams, our ambitions, goals, and outlooks.
'Unlike those surreal bodies, we did have a way out of our condition. The
lifesaving message of A.A. came to us. And the tiny universe that confined us
started to expand again. We began to untie our imagination, our mind, and our
good will. We were ready to live and let live. Spiritual life was reborn. We
found harmony with brothers, God, and ourselves. And we called that Recovery.
'What, then is Recovery for me?
'It is not perfection, but the search for it. It is not lethargy, but a state
of awareness. It is realizing that there is a place for us in the world.
It is acknowledging that we, alone, cannot do anything, but with the help of
God we can accomplish everything.
It is being sure that we walk along the path, even though we make our path as
we walk.
It is living today as we would like to have lived yesterday, and as we wish to
live tomorrow.
It is knowing that our journey has a meaning, a reason for being.
It is a constant spiritual awakening. And, above all, recovery is a working
faith.
'We alcoholics have already suffered at the hands of a powerful enemy. We do
not wish to fight against anybody, not even against alcohol. We have endured
our illness physically, mentally, and morally. When we awoke to reality, we
stood amidst the ruins of a shattered life, a destroyed morality, and a
smashed dignity.
'Through the grace of God, however, we have survived by joining a society of
equals. We need each other in a harmonious environment in order to survive. We
needed Unity.
'What is Unity for me?
'It is not a monody, but a symphony of individual voices.
It is not a compact law, but a mixture of different opinions.
It is knowing that our alcoholic brother or sister has the same right to life,
happiness, and peace as we have.
It is feeling that the word 'we'' stands before the word 'I.''
It is admitting that we are all equal before God.
It is acceptance that different paths can lead us toward our final destiny.
It is a stripping of our pride, so we won't feel greater or lesser than our
fellows.
It is not doing to our neighbor what we wouldn't like done to us.
And, above all, unity is a working humility - humility to accept the ultimate
authority that expresses itself in our group conscience; humility to welcome
anybody who wishes A.A. membership; humility to understand that our service
tasks do not grant us power, command, or authority; humility to keep anonymity
that reminds us to place principles before personalities.
'In our drinking days, when the world was only a large 'nobody's land'' we had
selfishness as compass and our own fulfillment as schedule. Money,
intelligence, imagination, and initiative were used only as tools for
constructing a universe fitted to our size. When our castle made out of cards
fell down on our own heads, someone else came to rescue us, understood us, and
delivered the message that saved us. So much was put at our disposal -
literature to read, experience freely and gladly given, and a meeting place
where a cup of coffee was waiting for us.
'At first we received and used these services, taking them for granted. But
gradually we began to feel that a treasure, which we had no right to hide
away, was being placed in our hands. We had to give to someone else the light
of hope that had illuminated our darkness. It was unfair to let the fruits we
had harvested rot in the barns of our laziness. And so we turned to Service.
'What is Service for me?
'It is not altruism, but a need for survival. It is not charity, but an
expression of gratitude.
It is the responsibility of lending a hand to our brother or sister who is
drowning. It is recognizing that, by giving ourselves to others, we will find
our own souls.
It is learning that they who give the most, receive the most.
It is extending to other alcoholics the sobriety that was bestowed on us.
It is working so that others get a permanent place in the new world we have
discovered. It is remembering the words of Bill W.: 'We must carry A.A.'s
message; otherwise we ourselves may fall into decay and those who have not yet
been given the truth may die.''
And, above all, service is a working love.
'It is love that works - unselfish, patient, tolerant, anonymous love, love
that doesn't have a price tag on it. Love that has no envy and that endures
everything.
'In the name of John my fellow delegate, and all the A.A.`s of Colombia, I
would like to thank you for your kind invitation to address you. May God help
all the participants in this meeting, so that we may be able to find new and
better approaches to bringing to all alcoholics in the world our Legacies of
Recovery with Unity through Service.
'Finally, we should like to congratulate our Finnish brethren for having
undertaken, in such a brilliant, responsible, and effective way, the
organization of this meeting.
'Thank you very much."
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++++Message 1716. . . . . . . . . . . . Shep Cornell - Compiled
From: NMOlson@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/17/2004 4:52:00 AM
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The following is compiled from previous messages which have been deleted.
Nancy
Hello Group,
I had someone ask me a good question that I could answer or could not find any
additional information.
So I thought I would ask the HISTORYLOVERS
"What ever happened to Shep Cornwell?"
Thanks for your help
Charles from California
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Hello Charles and Group:
Charles, I think you have Shep Cornell in mind--no "w" in the name.
I talked with Shep by phone in 1980. He was then retired and living in
Earlysville, VA, right next to Charlottesville. It must not be very large,
because I don't find it in my Rand McNally Road Atlas.
Shep knew Bill, Lois, and Ebby from the 1920s days in Manchester. He was a
successful investor and even owned a seat on the New York Stock Exchange. I
don't know what circumstances led him into the Oxford Group, but he was a
member in 1934 and conspired with Cebra Graves to call on Ebby, who was having
lots of trouble right there in Manchester. Rowland Hazard joined them, and
became the key person in sponsoring Ebby.
Shep had an apartment in Manhattan and Ebby, after being taken there
(presumably by Rowland), soon moved to Calvary Mission, which was way over on
the East Side from Calvary Church. Shep was involved with Bill's early
attempts to fit in with the Oxford Group and apparently didn't think Bill was
very sincere at the time. He was well-heeled enough to take all of them to
dinner at a time when Bill and Ebby were both flat broke.
Shep was not an alcoholic, although he was abstaining at that time--much in
keeping with Oxford Group practice. (My belief is that most of the Groupers
didn't understand the crucial difference between normal drinkers and
alcoholics.) He told me that he drank moderately on occasions and had no
problem.
I have the impression that Shep didn't stay with the Oxford Group as the years
rolled on. He served in the Army during World War II, reaching the rank of
lieutenant colonel. After the war, he eventually joined a large manufacturing
firm in Milwaukee and became general manager. (I can't remember the name of
the company, but it was a large producer of automobile frames and farm silos.)
He was comfortably retired when I talked with him, and spent his days golfing
and, I assume, looking after his investments. Lois remembered him as a fine
golfer, and it's even possible that Bill played a few rounds with him in 1929,
when Bill was still flying high on Wall Street.
I heard some years ago that Shep had passed on, but I don't know the year.
It's possible that his name is in the Social Security Death Index. I believe
his full name was Shepard or Sheppard. Perhaps other History Lovers can do due
diligence and track this down.~~~~~~~~
Mel Barger
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Check Francis Cornell 1899-1985 in SSDI -- I think he's the one.
(I believe it was Francis Shepard Cornell.) -- Jared Lobdell
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The info below was culled from the sources noted.
SOURCE REFERENCES:
AABB Alcoholics Anonymous, the Big Book, AAWS
AACOA AA Comes of Age, AAWS
AGAA The Akron Genesis of Alcoholics Anonymous, by Dick B (soft cover)
BW-RT Bill W by Robert Thompson (soft cover)
BW-FH Bill W by Francis Hartigan (hard cover)
BW-40 Bill W My First 40 Years, autobiography (hard cover)
EBBY Ebby the Man Who Sponsored Bill W by Mel B (soft cover)
GB Getting Better Inside Alcoholics Anonymous by Nan Robertson (soft cover)
LR Lois Remembers, by Lois Wilson
MSBW My Search for Bill W, by Mel B. (soft cover)
NG Not God, by Ernest Kurtz (expanded edition, soft cover)
NW New Wine, by Mel B (soft cover)
PIO Pass It On, AAWS
1934
July, Ebby Thacher was approached in Manchester, VT by his friends Cebra
Graves (an attorney) and F Sheppard (Shep) Cornell (a NY stockbroker). Both
were Oxford Group members who had done considerable drinking with Ebby and
were abstaining from drinking. They informed Ebby of the OG in VT but Ebby was
not quite ready yet to stop drinking. (EBBY 51-55, PIO 113)
August, Cebra G and Shep C vacationed at Rowland Hazard’s house in
Bennington, VT. Cebra learned that Ebby T was about to be committed to
Brattleboro Asylum. Cebra, Shep and Rowland decided to make Ebby “a
project.†(NG 309)
November (late), Ebby T (who was staying at the Calvary Mission in NYC)
visited Bill W at 182 Clinton St and shared his recovery experience "one
alcoholic talking to another.†(AACOA vii, 58-59) A few days later, Ebby
returned with Shep C. They spoke to Bill about the Oxford Group. Bill did not
think too highly of Shep. Lois recalled that Ebby visited several times, once
even staying for dinner. (AACOA vii, NG 17-18, 31`, BW-FH 57-58, NW 22-23, PIO
111-116, BW-RT 187-192)
December 18, Bill W left Towns Hospital and began working with drunks. He and
Lois attended Oxford Group meetings with Ebby T and Shep C at Calvary House.
The Rev Sam Shoemaker was the rector at the Calvary Church (the OG’s US
headquarters). The church was on 4th Ave (now Park Ave) and 21st St. Calvary
House (where OG meetings were usually held) was at 61 Gramercy Park. Calvary
Mission was located at 346 E 23rd St. (AABB 14-16, AACOA vii, LR 197, BW-40
155-160, NG 24-25, PIO 127, GB 32-33, AGAA 144)
Arthur S.
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++++Message 1717. . . . . . . . . . . . Harry Tiebout Obituary (1966)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/21/2004 5:30:00 PM
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July 1966 AA Grapevine
In Memory of
HARRY
BY the time this issue of the Grapevine reaches its readers, the whole world
of AA will have heard of the passing of our well-beloved friend, Dr. Harry M.
Tiebout, the first psychiatrist ever to hold up the hands of our Fellowship
for all to see. His gifts of courageous example, deep perception of our needs,
and constant labor in our behalf have been - and always will be - values quite
beyond our reckoning.
It began like this: The year was early 1939, and the book, Alcoholics
Anonymous, was about to hit the press. To help with the final edit of that
volume we had made prepublication copies in multilith form. One of them fell
into Harry's hands. Though much of the content was then alien to his own
views, he read our up-coming book with deep interest. Far more significantly,
he at once resolved to show the new volume to a couple of his patients, since
known to us as "Marty" and "Grenny." These were the toughest kind of
customers, and seemingly hopeless.
At first, the book made little impression on this pair. Indeed, its heavy
larding with the word "God," so angered Marty that she threw it out her
window, flounced off the grounds of the swank sanitarium where she was, and
proceeded to tie on a big bender.
Grenny didn't carry a rebellion quite so far; he played it cool. When Marty
finally turned up, shaking badly, and asked Dr. Harry what next to do, he
simply grinned and said, "You'd better read that book again!" Back in her
quarters, Marty finally brought herself to leaf through its pages once more. A
single phrase caught her eye and it read, "We cannot live with resentment."
The moment she admitted this to herself, she was filled with a "transforming
spiritual experience."
Forthwith she attended a meeting. It was at Clinton Street, Brooklyn, where
Lois and I lived. Returning to "Blythewood" she found Grenny intensely
curious. Her first words to him were these: "Grenny, we are not alone any
more!"
This was the beginning of recovery for both - recoveries that have lasted
until this day. Watching their unfoldment, Harry was electrified. Only a week
before they had both presented stone walls of obstinate resistance to his
every approach. Now they talked, and freely. To Harry these were the facts -
and brand new facts. Scientist and man of courage that he was, Harry did not
for a moment look the other way. Setting aside his own convictions about
alcoholism and its neurotic manifestations, he soon became convinced that AA
had something, perhaps something big.
All the years afterwards, and often at very considerable risk to his
professional standing, Harry continued to endorse AA. Considering Harry's
professional standing, this required courage of the highest order.
Let me share some concrete examples. In one of his early medical papers - that
noted one on 'surrender'' (Reprinted from the "Quarterly Journal of Studies on
Alcohol," Dec., 1954, pp. 610-621, available from the National Council on
Alcoholism) - he had declared this ego-reducing practice to be not only basic
to AA, but also absolutely fundamental to his own practice of psychiatry. This
took humility as well as fortitude. It will always be a bright example for us
all.
Nevertheless this much was but a bare beginning. In 1944, helped by Dr. Kirby
Collier of Rochester and Dwight Anderson of New York, Harry had persuaded the
American Medical Society of the State of New York to let me, a layman, read a
paper about AA, at their annual gathering. Five years later this same trio,
again spear-headed by Harry, persuaded the American Psychiatric Association to
invite the reading of another paper by me - this time in their 1949 Annual
Meeting at Montreal. By then, AA had about 100,000 members, and many
psychiatrists had already seen at close range our impact on their patients.
For us of AA who were present at that gathering it was a breathtaking hour. My
presentation would be "the spiritual experience," as we AAs understood it.
Surely we could never get away with this! To our astonishment the paper was
extremely well received - judging, at least, from the sustained applause.
Immediately afterwards, I was approached by a most distinguished old
gentleman. He introduced himself as an early president of the American
Psychiatric Association. Beaming he said, "Mr. W., it is very possible that I
am the only one of my colleagues here today who really believes in 'spiritual
experience' as you do. Once upon a time, I myself had an awakening much akin
to your own, an experience that I shared in common with two close friends,
Bucke and Whitman."
Naturally I inquired, "But why did your colleagues seem to like the paper?"
His reply went like this: "You see, we psychiatrists deeply know what very
difficult people you alcoholics really are. It was not the claims of your
paper that stirred my friends, it was the fact that AA can sober up alcoholics
wholesale."
Seen in this light, I was the more deeply moved by the generous and
magnificent tribute that had been paid to us of AA. My paper was soon
published in the American Psychiatric Journal and our New York headquarters
was authorized by the Association to make all the reprints we wished for
distribution (Excerpts from this talk are contained in Alcoholism The Illness,
by Bill W., a pamphlet available from AA World Services). By then the trek of
AA overseas had well begun. Heaven only knows what this invaluable reprint
accomplished when it was presented to psychiatrists in distant places by the
fledgling AA groups. It vastly hastened the worldwide acceptance of AA.
I could go on and on about Harry, telling you of his activities in the general
field of alcoholism, of his signal service on our AA Board of Trustees. I
could tell stories of my own delightful friendship with him, especially
remembering his great good humor and infectious laugh. But the space allotted
me is too limited.
So in conclusion, I would have Harry speak for himself. Our AA Grapevine of
November, 1963, carried a piece by him that, between its lines, unconsciously
reveals to us a wonderful self portrait of our friend. Again, we feel his fine
perception, again we see him at work for AA. No epitaph could be better than
this.
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++++Message 1718. . . . . . . . . . . . An Historical Announcement
From: ricktompkins@sbcglobal.net> . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/21/2004 10:27:00
PM
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Hello group,
This is your invitation to examine the Second Issue of An Alcoholics Anonymous
History In Northern Illinois Area 20, copyright 1996, 2003 by NIA, Ltd.
Posted online at http://www.aa-nia.org this expanded monograph represents an
additional six years of research and discovery. Where the First Issue spanned
104 pages of text, this rewritten work, its Second Issue, goes to 152 pages.
My Assembly will soon vote on a limited printing for distribution to District
Archives and East Central Region Area Archives, to share its 'hard' copies in
their lending libraries. This work is an effective result of the AA committee
system, with full trust and procedural approval from the Area 20 Assembly.
Meanwhile, online, enjoy it in the same spirit of discovery that was given to
me as its author!
Yours in serenity and in fellowship,
Rick T.,
Area 20 past Historian
Algonquin, Illinois
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++++Message 1719. . . . . . . . . . . . Sparky H.
From: Victor A. Farinelli . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/22/2004 9:26:00 AM
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Hello Group,
I am looking for some information on Sparky H. from
the Chicago Il area. He passed away in the mid-80's.
Thanks,
Victor F.
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Do you Yahoo!?
Yahoo! Finance Tax Center - File online. File on time.
http://taxes.yahoo.com/filing.html
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++++Message 1720. . . . . . . . . . . . June 5, multi-district history &
archives gathering
From: NMOlson@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/24/2004 3:02:00 AM
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JUNE 5, 2004 MULTI-DISTRICT HISTORY & ARCHIVES GATHERING:
District 36 of Area 59 (Eastern PA) will host a free one-day History &
Archives Gathering Saturday, June 5, 2004 at the Friendship Fire Co. at 171 N.
Mt Joy Street, Elizabethtown, PA. Full directions will be available to those
planning to come. Contact Jared Lobdell at jaredlobdell@comcast.net or
jaredlobdell@aol.com or by phone at 717-367-4985 (not after 9:30 p.m. Eastern
time).
Registration 8-9 a.m. on Saturday, June 5, and the Gathering will open at 9
a.m. and run till about 5 p.m. The nearest motels are the Red Rose Motel on
Route 230 (Market St.) on the edge of Elizabethtown and the Holiday Inn
Express just off Route 283 on the edge of Elizabethtown. Please let us know if
you're coming. The Gathering will be looking at forming archives for history
and using archives for history, and there will be a concentration on three
times in AA history esp. in Eastern PA, in and around 1954 (we have invited
for local oldtimers with at least 50 years sobriety), in and around 1937
(looking particularly at some of the Eastern PA founders, including Fitz M.),
and in and around 1971 -- so 67, 50, and 33 years ago. The oldtimers are
scheduled for the morning, the archives/history panels in the early afternoon,
ending with history presentations and a roundtable.
As with last year's Gathering we hope there will be archives exhibits at least
from MD, Eastern PA, North Jersey, the Clarence S. Archive, and local
archives. Lunch will be served. More to follow, but be in touch if you're
intending to come. -- Jared lobdell
Please send all replies to jaredlobdell@comcast.net
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++++Message 1721. . . . . . . . . . . . Jerseyites Buy Big Sociable Clubhouse (1944)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/23/2004 11:14:00 AM
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November 1944 AA Grapevine
JERSEYITES BUY BIG SOCIABLE CLUBHOUSE
To the A.A.s of North Jersey goes the honor of being the original contributors
to one phase of A.A. history, geographically speaking. They are the first of
the "Along the Metropolitan Circuit" groups to buy a clubhouse of their own.
Members of a dozen North Jersey groups, forming a company called Alanon
Association (Joe B. is their counsel), participated in the deal that ended, in
October, in the purchase of the three-story brick building at 8th Ave. and
North 7th St., Newark, N.J., known as the Roseville Athletic Association.
The purchase price of $22,000 includes furniture and equipment, which in turn
includes such things as billiard tables and bowling alleys. The transaction
involved a first mortgage of $15,000.00 with a non-alcoholic A.A. supporter,
the remainder (a large portion of which has already been subscribed) to be
pledged by individual A.A.'s. Certificates of indebtedness are to be issued to
all contributors, bearing interest, and redeemable in five to ten years. The
plan is, however, to clear off all indebtedness as quickly as possible,
including the mortgage. (Up to the time of purchase the building had sustained
itself financially with revenues from bowling, pool, billiards, and tobacco.)
The dues system will be voluntary weekly contributions - the amounts kept a
strictly confidential matter - with $1.00 as tops.
Participation of the A.A. men and women in Alanon, Inc., is entirely as
individuals. There were no group commitments, and care was taken to avoid
involving Alcoholics Anonymous in any way. The Board of Trustees of the
Corporation are: Chairman, Tom M.; Secretary, Jim G.; Treasurer, Herman G.;
Recording Secretary (handling dues), Hal R.; Stuart S., Dr. Arthur S., Pete
O'T., Oscar O., Helen D., Bea W., Ed M., and Leo D.
The Newark Group, who have been holding their meetings at the Roseville A.A.
for three years will continue to do so. Maintained for 58 years as a
conservative gentlemen's club, there has never been a bar in the club.
However, food facilities, which also do not exist at present, will be
installed pronto.
The big building is located one block from the Roseville Avenue station of the
Lackawanna R.R., about 20 minutes from New York. It is expected that the
clubhouse will develop into a clinical center for new people, and a social
haven for all A.A. men and women, irrespective of their group membership.
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++++Message 1722. . . . . . . . . . . . AA 2004 Founders'' Day Celebrations
(N.Y., VT., OH.)
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/24/2004 12:11:00 PM
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Saturday, June 5, 2004
Stepping Stones (where Bill & Lois Wilson lived from 1941 until they died)
62 Oak Road, Bedford Hills (Katonah), NY
914-232-7368
House & Wit's End is open for viewing at 12NOON, AA (someone who knew Bill
Wilson)/Alanon/Alateen speakers meeting begins at 2PM.
Coffee, soda, & dessert served only.
Sunday, June 6, 2004
The Wilson House (where Bill Wilson was born & lived as a child, & where Bill
& Lois are buried)
Village St., East Dorset, VT.
802-362-5524
Gravesite ceremony at 1PM, speaker meeting (someone who knew Bill Wilson) at
2PM.
BBQ 3PM
Friday - Sunday, June 11-13, 2004
Akron, OH. (where Dr. Bob's house is, where Dr. Bob & Anne Smith are buried,
where AA meeting #1 is, where St. Thomas Hospital is, where Henrietta
Sieberling's gatehouse is, where the Mayflower Hotel is, etc.)
http://www.akronaa.org/FoundersDay/foundersdayindex.html
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++++Message 1723. . . . . . . . . . . . Dr. Susan B. Anthony II
From: NMOlson@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/26/2004 3:34:00 AM
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Since starting the AA History Buffs/Lovers four years ago, I have intended to
write a piece on my good friend and spiritual mentor Dr. Susan B. Anthony II.
Susan sobered up in Marty Mann's office on August 22, 1946.
Today I discovered this biography on the website of the University of
Rochester, River Campus Libraries, where Susan's papers are archived.
Nancy
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Dr. Susan B. Anthony (also referred to as Susan B. Anthony II), the
great-niece and namesake of the women's rights leader Susan B. Anthony
(1820-1906), was born in Easton, Pennsylvania in 1916. Her father Luther Burt
Anthony was the son of the suffragist's younger brother Jacob Merritt Anthony.
Anthony attended the University of Rochester, graduating in 1938. In 1938-39
she worked as a research assistant in the office of the National Youth
Administration in Washington, DC. While an undergraduate she was involved in
the peace movement, but learning of the plight of anti-fascists forces in the
Spanish Civil War, she lobbied in 1938 to lift the arms embargo against the
Spanish Republic. During this same period she was involved in the civil rights
movement, becoming a sponsor of the National Negro congress. In 1941 she
received a master of arts degree in Political science from American
University.
Anthony was a city desk editor for the Washington Star from 1939 to 1944. She
also published articles on women's issues and migrants in The New York Times
Magazine, The Christian Science Monitor, and other periodicals. Her first
book, Out of the Kitchen-Into the War was published in 1943.
In 1940 Anthony married political activist Henry Hill Collins, Jr.,
(1904-1961). During the war, she worked with Ann Shyne at Bryn Mawr College to
compile a comprehensive study of "Women During the War and After." A summary
of the results were published by the U.S. Women's Bureau and provided Anthony
with material for several articles and lectures. In 1946 she hosted five times
a week a radio program, "This Woman's World," over New York station WMCA.
After nine months it was canceled for being "too controversial to be
commercially feasible." The program was picked up by the New York Post station
WLIB, but canceled six weeks later. In 1948, she and Henry Collins were
divorced.
In 1945 she co-founded with Helen Snow the Congress of American Women. Anthony
represented the Congress and its affiliate, the Women's International
Democratic Federation, at the United Nations Status of Women Commission in
1948.
In 1949 or 1950, Anthony married Clifford Thomas McAvoy (1904-1957). McAvoy
had been the deputy commissioner of Welfare in New York City from 1938 to
1941. In 1941 he was appointed legislative and political action director of
the Greater New York Congress of Industrial Organizations Council, and in 1944
became the legislative representative in Washington for the United Electrical,
Radio and Machine Workers of America. At the time of their marriage he was the
New England Director of the Progressive Party Labor Committee, an organization
he had founded to support the Presidential bid of Progressive Party candidate,
Henry A. Wallace.
Now living in Boston, Anthony broadcast a radio program on which she discussed
the problems of alcoholism and interviewed alcoholics. Because of her
husband's associates, she was mentioned as a "fellow traveler" in a Life
magazine article. In 1951 she divorced Clifford McAvoy and moved to Key West,
Florida where she became a newspaper reporter for the Citizen.
In 1954 she married Aubrey John Lewis, a British citizen living in Jamaica.
Lewis was a Religious Science practitioner and owner of an allspice
plantation. In Jamaica Anthony became a reporter for The Gleaner, writing
several articles on celebrities who visited the island.
Beginning in the early 1950s, Anthony's espousal of liberal causes brought her
to the attention of the U. S. Justice Department, who requested her to come to
Washington, D.C. to testify before a Congressional committee investigating
communism. When, for health reasons, she refused to return to the United
States, she became subject to extradition. After being served a subpoena in
December, 1954, she took out British citizenship. Her lawyers advised her that
this action would give her dual citizenship, and not jeopardize her American
citizenship. This proved not to be the case.
In 1960 Anthony divorced John Lewis and left Jamaica. She arrived in the
United States on a visitor's visa, her passport having been confiscated by the
U. S. Consul in Kingston. In 1967 Congressman John Bardemas introduced a bill
to restore her citizenship. It was voted down by the House Immigration
Subcommittee, who ordered her immediate deportation. She won a stay of
deportation, and the case was reheard before the U.S. Board of Immigration
Appeals in 1969. The Board reversed all former Immigration and Naturalization
Service and Justice Department actions against her and restored her
citizenship.
In 1960 Anthony underwent a religious conversion and was baptized in the Roman
Catholic Church in 1961. She entered St. Mary's College, Notre Dame, and in
1965 received a Ph.D. in theology. She was one of the first fifteen Catholic
laywomen to receive this degree. She taught theology at Marymount College in
Boca Raton, Florida from 1965 to 1969.
A recovered alcoholic, Anthony dedicated much of her professional and personal
life to helping others overcome alcoholism. She wrote articles and traveled
extensively giving presentations on the issue. In 1973 she was a substance
abuse coordinator at South County Mental Health Center in Florida. In 1975 she
founded Wayside House, a rehabilitation center for chemically dependent women,
in Delray Beach, Florida. The United States Senate Committee on Alcoholism and
Drugs honored Anthony for her work with alcoholics at a reception in 1976.
Having found strength in contemplation and prayer, Anthony often wrote and
lectured on these subjects. For nine months in 1976 she was a novice at a
Cenacle convent drawn by their emphasis on prayer and teaching.
In 1978 Anthony appeared on the television game show, "$124,000 Question" as a
women's rights expert. In five appearances she won $16,000. The publicity
helped launch her national lecture tour. Her topics included women,
alcoholism, feminism, and prayer. In 1977 she attended the National Women's
Conference in Houston, Texas, where she endorsed the Equal Rights Amendment.
When the Susan B. Anthony dollar was issued in 1979, Anthony participated in
many of the celebrations, culminating in a reception at the White House hosted
by Rosalyn Carter.
During the 1980s, Anthony traveled throughout the country giving lectures on
substance abuse, feminist issues, and prayer. In 1983 she participated in the
Seneca Falls Women's Peace Encampment marching in the protest against nuclear
weapons stored in the Seneca Falls army depot.
In 1971, Anthony published her autobiography The Ghost in My Life (New York:
Chosen Books). It was reprinted by Bantam Books in 1973. Her other books
include Survival Kit (New York: New American Library, 1972), and Sidewalk
Contemplatives (New York: Crossroad, 1987).
Dr. Anthony died in 1991.
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The Man Behind the A.A. Revolution
Susan Cheever talks about her new biography of Bill Wilson, the man she says
was made to found Alcoholics Anonymous
Interview by Paul O'Donnell
There have been several books and memoirs written about the founding of
Alcoholics Anonymous by Bill Wilson and Dr. Robert Smith in the 1940s. But as
Susan Cheever found when she was asked to write a profile of Wilson, there has
not been an authoritative biography, until now. Cheever, the daughter of
novelist John Cheever and the author of two memoirs of her own drinking life,
has written a very personal portrait of Wilson, portraying him as a restless
thinker who created A.A. the way an inventor might stumble on a revolutionary
technology. We talked to her recently about her book and her subject.
Bill Wilson was a complicated person with an amazing story. How did you go
about getting a handle on him?
There were a number of books about Bill Wilson, and by him, but a lot of the
basic biographical tasks had not been done. I used everything that had been
written, and I went to the archives at Stepping Stones [Wilson's home, now a
museum], where I had the amazing luck of getting there before it had been
indexed, so I could watch the process of archiving. There are a ton of
letters. Bill and [his wife] Lois were great letter writers, and much of the
early part of the book, when he's still drinking, are from their letters.
Whenever you're inside someone's mind in the book, whether it's Emily Wilson's
in the opening scene or Bill Wilson's in the Mayfair hotel, it's from their
letters.
I also went to [Wilson's birthplace] in Vermont. The more I hung out in East
Dorset, the more I saw how important Yankee free-thinking and pure democracy
and stubbornness is to the program of A.A. Dr. Robert Smith [A.A. co-founder]
was also from Vermont.
What was it about that Yankee mindset that led to AA?
Well, a lot of threads start in Vermont that end up in the 12 steps and the 12
traditions of A.A. One is the idea that each person has an equal voice. That's
enshrined in the bylaws. A.A. actually belongs to and is run by it's own
member. That whole idea of pure democracy comes right out of the Vermont town
meeting.
Another thing is that alot of New England was dry when Bill Wilson was growing
up. They taught temperance in the schools. Bill Wilson actually had an
education in how to stay sober and how not to stay sober. And of course there
is the rampant spiritualism of the turn of the century in Vermont and New
Hampshire and upstate New York. People were reaching out for a different kind
of God, throwing over the Calvinistic, British Puritan God. Not just of
humanism, but transcendentalism, which is also enshrined in the 12 steps.
Where do you find that in A.A.?
Well, "God as we understand him." That's Thoreau. That's Emerson. It seems to
me that he took all these different strands--the religious, pure democracy,
temperance, the transcendentalist-humanist strand, which was buttressed when
he married a Swedenborgian--and wove them all into this astonishing program
which has changed the way we think about addiction. When I look at his life, I
think, 'Wow, this was a machine designed for this job.' He came out of this
weird stew of educational and spiritual tenets that ended up being the best
treatment for alcoholism.
The temperance movement plays a crucial role. As a child, he refuses to take
the temperance pledge and rejects religion altogether. How does he get from
there to seeing a higher power as a central part of a sober life as an adult?
Well, I think that's the story. For him, God took the form of a specific
entity. He flirted and maybe even slept with Catholicism in his later years.
But he had learned that God was an extremely personal concept, and that you
can never say to anyone, this is the kind of God you must have. Part of his
genius was understanding that there are things no one person can prescribe for
another if the person wants to help the other.
This is where he really shifted the way we think. He understood that being
drunk wasn't a lack of willpower or discipline. He understood that the way to
treat addiction is to court a change of heart with the utmost gentleness. That
is a really revolutionary idea. That understanding came from his own desperate
attempt to get sober, through trial and error--mostly error. He became, as his
friend Aldous Huxley called him, "The Greatest Social Architect of the 20th
century."
His insight was that drinking was not a moral problem?
Absolutely. He took the idea that alcoholics were bad people and changed it to
the idea that alcoholics are sick people. It changed the way we view
addiction. It changed the way we see human nature. He changed the way we see
each other as much as Freud did, I think. Bill led us to see that what we
think of as a failure of willpower is not that at all. It's a disease.
He wasn't saying that you're not responsible for the things that you do when
you're drinking. He was just saying that the way to stop drinking requires a
change of heart.
How did he change his own heart?
As you watch his story unfold, you see all the pieces of his program fall into
place. He would get one piece from talking to another drunk who had gotten
sober. Then when he was in a group of people who didn't want to drink, he saw
that the power of the group was a piece of it. Then he was able to think in
terms of surrendering his power rather than in terms of getting more. It was
as if he was always traveling further from or closer to a drink. Slowly he
began to understand the things that brought him closer and the things that
took him further away.
It's often called a religious program, and specifically Christian. It even
makes forgiveness one of its paragons.
The program of A.A., as written by Bill Wilson and Dr. Smith, only has one
purpose: to get you sober. That's it. To make you a better person, forget it.
That was one of the things he came to understand in those years of trial and
error. It has to be about only one thing.
So within the context of that primary purpose, forgiveness is a way to ready
the heart for the change. Bill himself had a different view of forgiveness.
One thing that's so moving about him is how he treated people who abandoned
him with incredible courtesy and generosity. His parents abandoned him,
financially, emotionally and physically, and they did it with incredible
self-righteousness. Yet he was constantly writing them letters, sending them
checks when he had no money, and inviting them to come and live with him.
That's forgiveness. So as a person, and I guess we can say as a Christian, he
was extremely forgiving, but in the steps of A.A., forgiveness is not meant to
improve your soul, it's meant to get you sober.
But it is in a sense a faith-based program, and one the courts often order
people into.
Well, they do that because it works. It's sort of the best thing we have by
far. In some parts of the country, it's more Christian, because each A.A.
meeting governs itself. So there are some A.A. meetings that are emphatically
anti-Christian and there are some that are emphatically Christian.
But you don't object to it being called religious.
Well, that's another question. I object to that because they object to that.
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