Message into Correctional Facilities; General Service: AA
Politics?; Faith in Action; Pacific U.S. Regional - Meet Your AA
Neighbors; Feliz, Alegre y Sobrio; AA Around the World Call Up -
I; Partners in A.A.; At the Turning Point; Le Language du Coeur;
Sobriety is Progressive Too; Victory in Defeat; One Day at a
Time; A New Freedom; How It Works; Easy Does It - But Do It;
Freedom Through acceptance; Emotional Sobriety; Let Go and Let
God; AA Meeting in Japanese; Gratitudine in Azione; Freunde in
Aller Welt; There is a Solution; Sober Awhile - Now What;
Carrying the Message Through Public Information; AA Grapevine:
Our Meeting in Print; Southeast U.S. regional - Meet Your AA
Neighbors; Working With Others; Time to Start Living; una Neuva
Libertad; Reaching the Alcoholic with Special Needs.
Because of my interest in AA history I chose "Pioneers in AA."
Bob P. chaired the meeting. He was at one time the head of GSO.
His story is the last one in the Big Book: "AA Taught Him to
Handle Sobriety."
Bob told us he had an extremely serious operation 18 months ago.
He was not expected to live. The doctors told his wife that his
survival was a miracle and that it was because of his great
attitude. The doctors asked his wife where he got that great
attitude. We know the answer to that.
He told us that at the 1985 convention in Montreal, he was
supposed to present Ruth Hock (Bill's first secretary who typed
the Big Book) with the five-millionth copy of the book. He
discovered he did not have it with him. So they looked all over
for a Big Book to borrow. They finally found one and he
presented it to her with the assurance she would get the real
one later. Bob said Ruth loved that. She said "Oh that's soooo
alcoholic."
The speakers were: Ruth O. of New Jersey, Jules P. of
California, and Bob S. of Texas, a member of Al-Anon.
Bob S. spoke first. He said he was the only person still alive
who was present when Doctor Bob and Bill Wilson first met. It
was Dr. Bob's son, Smitty. He was 17 at the time. He went with
his parents to Henrietta Sieberling's house for his father's
first meeting with Bill. In the car his father said "I'm giving
this bird 15 minutes." His mother did not say to Bill, "will you
come to dinner next Tuesday?" She
said "why don't you come live with us?" Bill said without
hesitation "OK!" Smitty said that there were never two people as
different as Bill and his father. If it had been up to Dr. Bob
AA would never have got beyond Akron. If it were up to Bill they
would have sold franchises.
But they had two important things in common. They were both open
minded about spirituality, and they both had a desire to be of
service to others.
Smitty talked about how his parents brought alcoholics to live
in their home. Dr. Bob would take them up to the bedroom and
then give them some medicine. It was paraldehyde. "When my
teenage sister and I opened the front door and smelled
paraldehyde we would say 'Oh, oh, we've lost our beds again.'"
He told about the first man they tried to sober up. His name was
Eddie Riley and he moved in, I think he said with his wife and
kids. One day he chased Anne Smith around with a knife. Dr. Bob
considered Eddie his first failure. But at Dr. Bob's funeral a
man walked up to Smitty and said "Do you remember me?" It was
Eddie. He was living in Youngstown, Ohio, and was sober one
year.
Smitty said his father had a wonderful sense of humor. When
Smitty took the woman he married to meet his parents for the
first time, Dr. Bob looked her up and
down and said of this tall, slender woman, "She's built for
speed and light housekeeping." Smitty said his wife was sober 19
years when she died. One day Dr. Bob told his son "Flies carry
germs. So young man, keep yours buttoned."
Smitty said the Oxford Group members communicated with each
other all the time. His mother was always on the phone with one
or another of them. And that, of course, was true of the
alcoholics in the Oxford Group as well. But things were not
always sunshine and joy. There were people in A.A. in the early
days with big egos. "Can you imagine?" he asked. "There were
actually alcoholics with big egos in the early days?"
Smitty ended his talk with a big plug for the traditions. "I say
thank God for those traditions." He got a standing ovation.
I don't remember much of what Jules P said, but he was very
enjoyable.
The last speaker was Ruth O. When Bob P. introduced her he said
that in planning the convention in 1995 he had a bright idea.
"Well, it seemed like a good idea at the time." They would let
every alcoholic with 40 years put their names and sobriety dates
in a big bucket, and the first 15 called could get up and talk
for five minutes.
When Ruth O. got up to talk she talked on, and on, and on. She
joked that they had told her that this time they were going to
have a trap door to use if she talked too long. But she was a
fascinating speaker, sober 52 years.
She lived in the Bronx when she came into A.A. and was the only
woman in her group for a long time. The men were apparently not
too kind to her. They were rather gruff. One of them asked her
one day how long it had been since she had a drink. She said
proudly: "50 days tomorrow." The man sitting behind her hit her
on the shoulder and said gruffly, "It's 49!" She must have told
that story often because the day before she celebrated her 50th
anniversary the phone kept ringing. When she answered a gruff
voice would say "It's 49! It's 49!"
But Bill Wilson was kinder. The first time she met Bill he
kissed her on the cheek. "I haven't washed that cheek since,"
she said. And somehow I believed her.
Our choices for the early afternoon meetings were: Lesbians/Gays
in AA; Women in AA; Humility: A Power Greater; Turning It Over;
La Consicence de Groupe,
Informee; Living Sober; AA and Native Peoples; Sponsorship:
Leading by Example; Young & successful - Who Needs Meetings?;
Tools for Sobriety; Twelfth Step: Love in Action; Estructuras de
Servicio General; AA Meeting in Japanese; Solo per Oggi; AA
Traditions and AA Events; Die Zwöf Schritte; Unity Through
Humility; Willingness: The Essence of Growth; AA's History of
Love; A Daily Reprieve; East Central U.S. Regional - Meet Your
AA Neighbors;
In All our Affairs; Twelve Concepts: The Structural Framework;
and Twelfth-Stepping the Old Fashioned Way.
I had no problem choosing. My old friend, Mel S, was speaking at
the Twelfh-Stepping the Old Fashioned Way meeting. I hadn't seen
Mel in years. Mel had his last drink on May 23, 1965, in a bar
at an officer's club in Virginia. He had entered the Army Air
Corps in 1939 as a private. He wanted to be a pilot. He retired
27 years later as a full Colonel. He told of the many escapades
involving crashing air planes when he was drunk. But he always
somehow managed to get out of trouble.
But finally, in 1965, he was ordered to fly his plane to
Washington to deliver some top secret papers to the Pentagon. He
drank and was in a blackout. He got a call saying that the
papers had not arrived at the Pentagon. Where were they? Mel
couldn't remember. He had no idea what had happened. He was
desperate. This meant the end of his career. He would be court
marshaled, he might serve time in prison. In desperation he
called the chaplain and told him his predicament. The chaplain
told him to stay where he was, he was sending someone to get
him.
Two men showed up, one of them an Army Warrant Officer. They
took Mel in tow.
The warrant officer took him to stay in his home. It was a
small, modest home and they didn't have a guest room, but they
had an unfinished basement and they put a cot in the basement
for Mel. He lay there detoxing, and in terror of what the future
would bring, Then he heard a noise on the stairs, and his host
came down carrying a big roll under his arm. He spread the roll
on the floor next to Mel's cot and said "I'm going to sleep here
tonight. I know how you feel." Mel had trouble telling the
story, he was so filled with emotion.
Mel was madly trying to think of excuses to make up to get out
of this very serious trouble. But the two A.A. members told him
that he had to do two things: don't drink, and tell the truth.
So Mel told his superiors the truth. He had been drunk and he
had no idea what had happened to the top secret papers. An
investigation was begun, and Mel tried -- on the advice of his
A.A. sponsors -- to leave the matter in God's hands.
Then one day he got a call. It seems someone at the Pentagon had
found the papers. They had been locked away in a safe the whole
time. So Mel's superiors told him that since he had, indeed,
delivered the papers to the Pentagon as he had been ordered to
do, all charges against him would be dropped.
In all the years I had known Mel I had not heard his story
before. I was deeply moved.
Our choices for the late afternoon meetings were "Young People
in AA; Gratitude in Your Attitude; AA Loners and
Internationalists; AA and Court Programs; Carrying the Message
Into Treatment Facilities; El Anonimato al Nivel Público;
Archives: A Collective Vision; Intergrupos y Oficinas Centrales;
Freedom to Choose; History of the Big Book; Spiritual Journey;
Resentment - the Number One Offender; AA and Cyberspace;
Carrying the Message to Older Alcoholics; Notre Methode; AA
Meeting in Korean; AA Meeting for the Deaf and Hard of Hearing;
AA in Western
Europe/Scandinavia; AA in Central/South America; Viviendo
Sobrio; AA in Asia/Oceania Zone; Western Canada Regional - Meet
Your AA Neighbors; This Matter of Honesty; Prayer Under
Pressure; and A Daily Inventory.
Again I had no problem choosing; a friend from the Washington,
D.C. area whom I hadn't seen in 20 years, Hal Marley, was
speaking at the meeting on gratitude. I am very glad I had that
last opportunity to see Hal. He died not long after.
The highlight of the opening meeting that night was the flag
ceremony. The first flag to appear was carried by a Native
American in full traditional dress and carrying a large pole
covered with feathers. Then, as the name of each nation was
called, an A.A. member from that country entered carrying the
country's flag. They were called in alphabetical order, ending
with Zambia, followed by the flags of the host countries: Canada
and the United States. Over 75 countries were represented.
As each country name was called the members from those countries
rose and cheered loudly. But many of us cheered along with them.
Especially when the Russian flag appeared.
The flags were lined up in front of the stage and remained there
throughout the convention.
Saturday turned out to be a day for miracles. Miracles were
happening all over Minneapolis from the beginning, but I first
began being acutely aware of them on Saturday.
The trip was costing me much more than I could afford, so I
wanted to save money where I could. I had hoped to save some
money by having my coffee in my room each morning. But the
coffee pot didn't work. I told them at the desk Friday and they
said they would put a new one in. They did bring up a new one.
But it, too, wouldn't work. So I bought a $1.50 cup of coffee in
the lobby, as I had the day before.
The man selling the coffee was reading a book by Dr. Abraham
Twersky, so I said "Oh, are you in the program?" He said he was
not but he was staying sober by another method. I then started
telling him that I knew Rabbi Twersky, the alcoholism treatment
specialist.
A man was also buying a cup of coffee. He was not wearing a
badge and at first I didn't even know he was there for the
convention. He had just come down for coffee -- perhaps his
coffee maker wasn't working either -- and had not bothered with
his badge or anything else. But he was carrying a large file of
papers.
He, too, was an A.A. member. We sat down to drink our coffee
together in the lobby and I started telling him about A.A.
History Buffs. He said "I feel there is something I should say
to you." Then he opened his file of papers and pulled out all
sorts of wonderful historical documents. He gave me a copy of
Ruth Hock's letter to Bill Wilson, recalling the early days of
A.A.
Our choices of meetings Saturday morning included the same wide
variety of meetings, but I wanted to go to the one called
"Archives: A Collective Vision," because I knew that Charles K.
would be speaking there and I wanted to meet him and, Doug B.,
both on-line friends.
Afterward, I went off to try to hear Clancy I. of California.
Clancy's meeting was too crowded and I couldn't get in, so I
went back to the Convention Center and wandered into the first
meeting that I came upon. The meeting was already in progress. I
soon discovered that it was a Gay and Lesbian meeting, and a
woman from San Francisco was speaking. Her name was "Peacock."
Another of those little "coincidences." I had recently
befriended a lesbian woman alcoholic in Pennsylvania. When I
heard "Peacock" I immediately knew I must buy her tape for my
friend.
She gave a magnificent talk. I was not taking notes but I
remember a few things she said. She said that Clancy I. was her
sponsor. She called him to ask his permission to speak at a
Gay/Lesbian meeting and he responded "Now, you know how I feel
about special interest groups."
"But I really want to do this, Clancy," she replied.
There was a very long pause and then he said: "I have good news
and bad. The good news is that you may speak at the convention.
The bad news is that I will be speaking at the same time."
She responded "That's OK, honey, we won't attract the same
crowd." Her audience roared with laughter.
After hearing Peacock I wanted to catch the 3:30 meeting "Pass
It On - Into the 21st Century." Searcy W. of Texas was speaking
at this meeting. He was Ebby's sponsor. Bill had sent Ebby to
Searcy in Texas and Ebby stayed sober there for some time.
But first I needed some food. After I had some food I decided to
go back to my hotel to rest. I totally forgot that I wanted to
hear Searcy. Another of those little coincidences?
Back in my room I found I couldn't nap, I was too restless. So I
decided to try to reach another of the history buffs who was
staying in the same hotel, Tex Brown of Illinois. I phoned him
and asked if he would join me in the lobby. The inspiration to
call Tex lead to the most exciting part of the convention for
me. Tex was then 83 years old and sober 53 years. He had written
me before the convention saying "I just happened to stumble into
the history forum. I read the post saying that you will be
staying at the Radisson Plaza. So will my wife, Barb, and I. ...
I thought that I might like historians better than archivists. I
guess I need to see what the big boys are like."
Tex got sober Feb. 6, 1947, in Skokie, IL. He was then the
editor of the Area 20 (Northern Illinois Area) service letter,
"NIA Concepts." His delightful wife, Barb, has been sober 21
years. I found Tex a charming, humble, serene, humorous fellow.
He told me some wonderful stories about the early days in the
Chicago area.
Then he scooped me up and took me along with them to sit in the
oldtimers section for the oldtimers meeting at the Metrodome
Saturday night. He seemed to know everybody and made sure that
he introduced me to them all. Among those I met was Mel B. who
has written so much wonderful AA history, and Dr. Jack Norris's
widow.
And what an inspiration all the oldtimers were. Those with more
than 40 years sobriety had been asked to put their names and
sobriety date in a Fishing Hat located at the Convention Center
before 1 p.m. on Saturday.
All the meetings in the Metrodome were simultaneously translated
into Spanish, French, German, Italian, Japanese, Polish and
Swedish. Special arrangements were also made for the hearing
impaired. And the HP made sure that the oldtimers meeting would
be truly international. Among the names pulled from the hat were
Mosku from Finland, sober 46 years; Collin from Australia, sober
54 years; and Manual M. from France, sober 40 years.
A little extra time was allowed for the oldtimers from Finland
and France because they were accompanied by interpreters who
repeated in English what they had said. Collin from Australia
complained that they hadn't supplied him with an interpreter,
and there were moments when I wished they had. His Australian
accent was sometimes hard to understand. (Collin visited the
U.S. in 2004 and phoned me from New York. He planned to come to
Virginia, where I am now living, to meet me. But alas I was not
available the only day that he could come to Virginia. It was
not until his phone call that I realized he was the man who had
spoken at the convention.)
Shortly before they started drawing names out of the hat, I was
puzzled to see a procession of about 30 members of the
hospitality committee, wearing their distinctive white caps,
march down the center isle. They then stood in front of the line
of flags below the stage. They drew 15 names out of the hat, and
as each name was called, two of these host committee people
would get on each side of the oldtimer and help him or her onto
the stage. All of this could be seen very clearly on the large
screens around the Metrodome and it was such fun watching them
being escorted up. One of them was wearing a white tuxedo.
Another, whose escorts were two young women, started swinging
them around and dancing with them on the way up.
To make sure that they didn't have another Ruth among these
oldtimers, a man sat on the stage with a large rectangular sign
that said APPLAUSE. When three minutes were up, if they hadn't
stopped speaking, he would walk up behind them with the sign and
the entire convention would break into applause.
The first called to speak was Otto W., 40 years and two months
sober. Otto told how he was visited by two A.A. members while he
was locked up in a mental ward. "They had something I wanted and
I was willing to go to any lengths to get it: MATCHES!" All of
the oldtimers showed this kind of humor.
Marie M., sober 44 years, four months, said a woman had called
her and said she was an alcoholic from A.A. and asked if she
could visit her. "Well, I did not want any alcoholics coming to
MY house." So she said she would go to the A.A.'s house instead.
She rang the door bell and when the A.A. contact opened the door
she announced: "I have two black eyes (as if she couldn't see)."
One of the most inspirational, to my mind (and not because her
name was Nancy and she was from Pennsylvania) was Nancy F.
Nancy, sober 55 years, said there isn't anything you can't do if
you want to after you get sober. "I went to college at 70 ...
and graduated at 80 ... cum laude!"
David Mc. M, sober 43 years, who followed Nancy, said he was 21
when he got sober and was told he was too young to be an
alcoholic. He said he hasn't grown up yet, "but when I do I want
to be just like her," pointing to Nancy.
The last speaker was a tall, handsome black woman, Louise R.,
sober 40 years, who said that they told her if she kept coming
around she would get what they had. So she kept going to
meetings and waiting for them to give her whatever it was they
had.
Finally she asked "When are you going to give me what you have?"
They asked her how long she had been coming to meetings, and if
she had a drink during that period. She had not. "So you have
what we have."
"Here I was walking around with it," she said, "and I didn't
know I had it." She said they also kept talking at meetings
about how anybody who didn't have one should buy the Big Book.
It cost $3.50. Well, she didn't WANT to buy no BIG Book. She
didn't want to READ no BIG book. Finally they announced at a
meeting that anyone who didn't have a Big Book could have one
and pay for it when they could. "They think I can't AFFORD the
Big Book." So after the meeting she walked up to the man and
said she wanted the Big Book. She slapped down a five dollar
bill and said "Keep the change."
All of the oldtimers were very inspiring. They wasn't a dull one
in the lot. Murray M., our history buff from Dublin wrote: "The
old-timers meeting was very special. You could not but be moved
by their expressions of love and gratitude. The humour was
unequaled and I think the entire 15 would have stayed there
sharing for hours if time allowed. The member in the white
tuxedo might have summed it all up when the occasion got to
him."
Sunday morning my coffee pot worked just fine. Guess there was
no special reason God wanted me down in the lobby for my coffee.
I scooped up my new friend, Rich (who had given me Ruth Hock's
letter to Bill) and his roommate and took them with me to the
handicapped second on the Metrodome floor. This was near where I
had been sitting with Tex the night before. I wanted to take
Rich to that section because I wanted to see Tex again and
introduce Rich to him. But we didn't find Tex. He told me in an
e-mail that he and his wife had been late arriving. He had
looked for me, too, because he wanted to give me some
newsletters from his area.
At this closing meeting the 20 millionth copy of the Big Book
was presented to the fellowship of Al-Anon. There are 30,000
Al-Anon groups world wide.
There were three very inspirational speakers. One of them was
Nancy K, the lead singer for a group called "Sweet Water" in the
'60s. Sweet Water was the first group to take the stage at
Woodstock. "But they cut us out of the movie," she sighed. We
roared with laughter. "You know, only A.A.s laugh when I tell
them that. Everyone else says Ahhhhh, poor thing." Nancy got
sober in 1976 in Los Angeles. "I wore a bikini to my first
meeting," she said. But someone told her she would look better
if she were wearing a towel. If I remember correctly, she had a
bad accident, her vocal cords were damaged, and she lost her
ability to sing. She later became an English teacher. But
eventually her voice returned and she was reunited with some of
the Sweet Water group. There are three still alive, "fatter and
with less hair." They entertained outdoors at the 1995
convention, but they forgot to advertise, so there wasn't the
kind of crowd they'd hoped for. I think it was Nancy who said AA
is like taking wedding vows. "For better or worse, in sickness
or in health, till death do us part, I am a part of AA."
John K. got sober on St. Patrick's Day. (How's that for a
miracle. An Irishman getting sober on St. Patrick's Day?) He
told us of attending a funeral of a boy who had died and the
preacher said "the only way we can change the world is to change
ourselves, and now is the time, because for the boy in the box
it is too late." John's daughter smashed up his new car. She hit
a Mercedes. John's sponsor drove him to the scene of the
accident and all he could think of was himself. Why did she have
to smash MY car? How will I get to work, etc. His daughter was
still in the car, and his sponsor said, "Aren't you going to
check on her?" He went over to the car and his daughter said
"Oh, daddy, give me a hug." "I had to be prompted by my sponsor
to hug my daughter," he said. John asked us to remember that
each alcoholic is a multifaceted, wonderful person. And the only
one that doesn't seem to recognize it is himself.
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One of the highlights for me Sunday morning was the sobriety
countdown. They said this was our 65th anniversary, and asked
any one who had been sober more
than 65 years to stand. "Has anyone been sober longer than
Bill?" No one stood. "Has anyone been sober 65 years? Please
stand -- it you still can." Sixty-four years? Sixty-three? When
they called "Fifty-five years?" One or more stood. "Keep coming
back," everyone shouted.
The persons with the longest sobriety at the convention had 55.
When they got down to 24 hours, two or more stood.
I'm not one who cries easily, but there were many times during
the convention when I fought back tears. But as we
concluded, and the children of Minneapolis came up and sang for
us We Are Family I began to cry. And then when we stood and
joined hands to say the Serenity Prayer, I broke down
completely.
___________
Postscript:
We were coming back from the Sunday meeting and Rich and his
roommate asked me to join them for lunch. We walked around
looking for a restaurant but they were all mobbed, with hundreds
of people lined up outside to get in, so we went back to our
hotel to have lunch.
While we were strolling around we ran into a man who had a bunch
of pheasant feathers sticking out of a sack. Rich started
chatting with him, and this man gave us each a feather. I did
not want a feather, took it to be polite, and planned to throw
it away as soon as I got back to my room. I stuck into the
opening in my handbag.
Then we had lunch at our hotel and Rich stuck his feather in the
vase of flowers on the table. At one point the waiter came over
and started to take the feather away. I said "Don't take that.
it belongs to my friend."
Shortly after lunch, Rich and his roommate left for the airport
to return home. But I was not leaving until Monday morning. I
was tired and decided to spend the rest of the day in my room
reading. But I began feeling strangely restless, so I decided to
go down to the lobby and find a comfortable chair in which to
sit and read.
So I was sitting in the lobby and I got chatting with a woman
who is in Al-Anon. She and her husband, an A.A. member, were
both at the convention.
She asked me where I got the feather, which was still sticking
out of my handbag. I had "forgotten" to throw it away. I told
her that some man we met on the street had given them to us.
Then she showed me her feather. I said "Oh, you must have met
the same man we did." "No, I did not," she answered, with tears
in her eyes.
Then she told me the following story. Her son, who was also in
A.A., died suddenly about six months earlier. The day I met her
would have been his A.A. anniversary. When she and her husband
came to the convention they felt they were bringing him with
them. And she saw many signs that his spirit indeed was with
them.
After sobering up he had become a nurse. He worked as a
"traveling nurse" and worked at one point in New Mexico with
Native Americans. At the convention the first night they were
sitting in the handicapped section and a group of kids came by
with signs saying they were from New Mexico and smiled and waved
at her and her husband. She thought it was a sign from her son.
Then the flag ceremony began and the Indian appeared with his
big staff covered with feathers. She thought of how her son had
loved Native Americans, worked with them, and had at one time
called his Dad to say "They don't have an AA group here. How do
I start one for them?"
Her son (whom she described as a very spiritual, gentle, and
artistic young man) loved feathers, collected them, and made
things from them.
"Then today," she said, "we went up to the third floor for lunch
and in the vase of flowers on the table was this feather. We
knew it was another sign from our son."
Well, I never did throw away my feather. On my computer desk, as
I write, stands a small vase of flowers. A pheasant feather
shoots up from the center.
I am reminded daily of the little anonymous way God works
miracles in our lives.
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From: Mel Barger . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/11/2004 8:19:00 PM
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Hi Everybody,
As I understand it, Bert closed his tailor shop and later worked for Saks
Fifth Avenue, which suggests that he must have been a first class tailor.
Mel Barger
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Mel Barger
melb@accesstoledo.com
----- Original Message -----
From: NMOlson@aol.com
To: AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Thursday, March 11, 2004 8:05 AM
Subject: [AAHistoryLovers] Bert Taylor - Compiled From Old Posts
I am continuing to combine old posts, which are then deleted, in
order to make it easier for researchers to search the archives.
The following is excerpted from old posts by Charles K. and Rick
T.
Charles wrote that Bert Taylor was an early AA member who
borrowed $1,000.00 from a Mr. Cockran one of his customers and a
prohibitionist. "The loan was to help buy some time from the
printer until the Liberty Magazine article came out. Once that
article came out we sold some books were able to settle with the
printer and get the remaining Big Books out of hock, so to
speak. He also allowed meetings to be held in the loft in his
shop.
"Now whether the debt was not repaid on time or Bert just fell
on hard times is uncertain, but he did loose ownership of the
shop, but was able to keep his business and he died sober. He
also was one of the first Trustees of the Alcoholic Foundation."
Rick responded to Charles' message:
"Much of this additional history was gleaned in on-site research
through minutes and correspondence at the GSO Archives....
"His $1,000 would have brought him 400 shares in Works
Publishing, and I'm sure he was able to cash in the shares, when
and if any of the loan was needed to be paid. There are scant
records on file of whose and how many shares were eventually
traded in to the
Alcoholic Foundation. The AF Trustees' ledgers remained pretty
thin for many years into the mid-1940s, and only a few shares
were probably ever recorded as 'bought back' by the Board of
Trustees. Bill wrote in 'AA Comes of Age'
about a few buy-backs, which turned out to be traded only at
face value."
Rick said he did not think Bert was a Trustee, but Charles
responded:
"I still believe Bert was a member of the Alcoholic Foundation,
only from what I have read.
"In the August 1947 Grapevine article 'Last Seven Years Have
Made AA self-supporting' Bill writes:
"'Two of the alcoholic members of our Foundation traveled out
among the AA groups to explain the need. They presented their
listeners with these ideas: that support of our Central Office
was a definite responsibility of the AA groups; that answering
written inquiries was a necessary assistance to our Twelfth Step
work; that we AAs ought to pay these office expenses ourselves
and rely no further upon outside charity or insufficient book
sales. The two trustees also suggested that the Alcoholic
Foundation be made a regular depository for group funds; that
the Foundation would earmark all group monies for Central Office
expenses only; that each month the Central Office would bill the
Foundation for the straight AA expenses of the place; that all
group contributions ought to be entirely voluntary; that every
AA group would receive equal service from the New York office,
whether it contributed or not. It was estimated that if each
group sent the Foundation a sum equal to $1 per member per year,
this might eventually carry our office, without other
assistance. Under this arrangement the office would ask the
groups twice yearly for funds and render, at the same time, a
statement of its expenses for the previous period.
'"Our two trustees, Horace C. and Bert T., did not come back
empty handed. Now clearly understanding the situation, most
groups began contributing to the Alcoholic Foundation for
Central Office expenses, and have continued to do so ever since.
In this practice the AA Tradition of self-support had a firm
beginning. Thus we handled the Saturday Evening Post article for
which thousands of AAs are today so grateful.' (Reprint of this
article can be found in 'Language of The Heart' see pages 64-65)
"Also from 'AA Comes Of Age'
"Page 186.........
"'At about this time our trusteeship began to be enlarged. Mr.
Robert Shaw, a lawyer and friend of Uncle Dick's, was elected to
the Board. Two New Yorkers, my friends Howard and Bert, were
also named. As time passed, these were joined by Tom B. and Dick
S. Dick had been one of the original Akronites and was now
living in New York. There was also Tom K., a hard-working and
conservative Jerseyman. Somewhat later more nonalcoholic,
notably Bernard Smith and Leonard Harrison, took up their long
season of service with us.'
"(FYI: This was around the time of the Rockefeller Dinner Feb.
1940, this also shows the alcoholic members of the Foundation
made up of more than just Bill & Dr. Bob. I have a copy of the
minutes of the Alcoholic Foundation in July 25, 1949. Dick S.,
Tom B, and Bernard Smith were already trustees of the Foundation
in 1949.)
"Page 192:
"'We also realized that these increased demands upon the office
could not be met out of book income. So for the first time we
asked the A.A. groups to help. Following the Post piece.
Trustees Howard and Bert went on the road, one to Philadelphia
and Washington, the other to Akron and Cleveland. They asked
that all A.A. groups contribute to a special fund in the
Foundation which would be earmarked 'for AA. office expenses
only.' The contributions would be entirely voluntary. As a
measuring stick, it was suggested that each group send in one
dollar per member per year.'
"Please let me repeat myself, I am not sure if this is the same
Bert T. that owned the Tailor Shop in New York, but sure sounds
like it to me. Rick, maybe on your next trip to the Archives in
New York you might look for the name Herbert F. Taylor. Again I
am not sure if this is the same person either, but his name and
signature appears on Works Publishing Company stock certificates
date September 26th 1940 (see 'AA Everywhere-Anywhere' the
souvenir book from the 1995 International Convention page 23)
and Bert is short for Herbert. I also have a photocopy of the
same stock certificate dated June 20th 1940 and his name is on
that one too, as president I might add . May have no connection
at all, but worth looking into.
"Well, I hope this sheds some light on the source for my
assumption that Bert the Tailor might have been a Trustee of the
Alcoholic Foundation. This has open a whole other question about
the early make up of the Alcoholic Foundation and I think I
might explore this to find out what I can."
The following is from Jim Burwell's memoirs:
"It was also in June of this year that we made our first contact
with the Rockerfeller Foundation. This was arranged by Bert
Taylor, one of the older members, who had known the family for
years in a business way. Dr. Richardson, who had long been
spiritual advisor for the Rockerfeller family, became very
interested and friendly, and Bill and Hank made frequent visits
to him, with Hank on one side asking for financial help and Bill
on the other insisting on moral support only."
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++++Message 1702. . . . . . . . . . . . Living Sober
From: Arthur . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/12/2004 7:47:00 PM
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Hi
Joanna and a warm welcome back
As
Mel B noted, the booklet Living Sober was written by NY member Barry Leach. I
could not find a Conference advisory action (in publication M-39) that
explicitly approved it. However, the 1974 Conference passed an advisory action
that stated: "the partial draft of the new booklet 'Staying Sober' be
reviewed by the committee and returned with comments and suggestions to GSO by
June 1, 1974."
AA
Comes of Age (pg xi) states: "1975
- Publication of booklet Living Sober, detailing some practical methods AA
members have used for not drinking."
The
1974 advisory action infers that the booklet's title originally was planned as
'Staying
Sober'' instead of 'Living Sober'' (its opening narrative
"About that title" seems to address this). The first printing
occurred in 1975 and based on the mention in AA Comes of Age, 1975 also
appears
to be its Conference approval year.
The
booklet's author, Barry L, is historically prominent in two other areas. He
was
among the earliest homosexual members of the AA Fellowship. Barry also was the
individual who (in 1945) called Bill W from the 41st St clubhouse
concerning a black man who was described as an ex-convict with bleach-blond
hair, wearing women's clothing and makeup (re 'Pass It On'' pgs
317-318). The black man also admitted to being a "dope fiend." He is
reported (in Pass It On) to have disappeared shortly after yet anecdotal
accounts (at least here in Texas) often erroneously say that he went on to
become one of the best 12th Steppers in NY.
The
booklet 'Living Sober'' is reputed to be the second highest selling
publication in AA today.
10.0pt;font-family:Tahoma;color:black;">Cheers
Arthur
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*From:* Joanna Whitney
[mailto:joannagw@earthlink.net]
*Sent:* Wednesday, March 03, 2004
8:31 AM
*To:*
AAHistoryLovers@yahoogroups.com
*Subject:* [AAHistoryLovers] Living
Sober
Hi Group --
I am newly
returning after a long stay away and glad to see you are all still here. I am
"Courier New";color:black;">really curious about the origins of the
publication Living Sober and
what conference approved
"Courier New";color:black;"> it.
Anybody?
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Thanks,
"Courier New";color:black;">
Joanna
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++++Message 1704. . . . . . . . . . . . AA Historic Sites Near N.Y.C.
From: Lash, William (Bill) . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/12/2004 10:02:00 AM
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General Service Offices of AA (World Service, originally called the Alcoholic
Foundation):
1) 17 Williams Street in Newark, NJ, 'Honor Dealers'' Office; Hank Parkhurst &
Bill Wilson set up the first 'Headquarters'' office. Most of the Big Book is
written here & Ruth Hock (secretary) is the first non-alcoholic employee.
2) 30 Vesey Street, N.Y.C., the second office, Bill splits with Hank.
(1938-1940)
3) 415 Lexington; office moves to Grand Central area after Bill gets Bedford
Hills home. (1940-1944)
4) 141 East 4th Street. More space. (1950-1960)
5) 315 east 45th Street; larger quarters in Grand Central Area. (1960-1970)
6) 468 Park Avenue South, finally occupying 5 floors in two buildings
(including 470 Park Avenue South). (1970-1992)
7) 475 Riverside Drive; all of 11th Floor & half of the 10th Floor.
(1992-present)
Town's Hospital, 293 Central Park West. Bill had many trips to this hospital &
ultimately has a spiritual experience here. Dr. William D. Silkworth (author
of most of the Big Book's 'Doctor's Opinion''), Medical Superintendent,
treated 40,000 alcoholics here.
Calvery Church/House, 21st Street & Park Avenue South. Where Bill attended
Oxford Group meetings & got sober along with Ebby T., Rowland H., Cebra G.,
Hank P. and all the gang. Sam Shoemaker, source of 'the Steps & all the
spiritual principles via the Oxford Group'' was the pastor here.
38 Livingston Street, Brooklyn. Bill's home during the high-flying years
working on Wall Street. They were so rich that they combined two apartments
here.
182 Clinton Street, Brooklyn. Bill's home when he got sober. A gift of Lois's
father. Lost the house during the Depression (sober).
30 Rockefeller Plaza. Where Bill met 'Uncle Dick'' Richardson, conduit to John
D. Rockefeller. Bill sat in Rockefeller's chair on the 66th Floor office of
John D.
Roosevelt Hotel, Madison Avenue & 44th Street. Site of over 35 General Service
Conferences.
Park Omni, Seventh Avenue & 56th Street. Site of General Service Conferences.
New York Hilton, 1335 Avenue of the Americas. Site of the Bill W. Dinner, put
on every year by the New York Intergroup since 1945.
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++++Message 1705. . . . . . . . . . . . Burwell Correspondence and Memoirs
From: NMOlson@aol.com . . . . . . . . . . . . 3/13/2004 2:30:00 AM
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In an effort to reduce the large number of posts which must be searched to
find information, I am combining many that we previously posted singly. This
is a compilation of the letters to and from Jim Burwell, plus his memoirs. The
Philadelphia letters and the memoirs were originally posted by Bill L.
(Barefoot Bill), and the other letters were mailed to me a few years ago by
Cliff B. in Texas. My thanks to them both.
Nancy
__________
W.G.W.
Box 459 Grand Central Annex
New York 17, N.Y.
March 1, 1940
Dear Jimmy:
I hear Fitz came to join you at the first meeting of A.A. in Philadelphia -
how was the meeting?
It seems impossible to dig up any bona fide requests for assistance in the
territory around Philadelphia. Here is one though that might (undoubtedly
will) cause some inconvenience, but sounds like it might turn out to be
something.
Mrs. Arthur W. Corning, Apt. G-41, Blind Brook Lodge, N.Y. wrote to us
concerning her brother - Joseph Hoopes - who is now in the state hospital at
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